Wie kann sich ein Mensch lieben, der sehr früh lernen mußte, daß er nicht liebenswert sei? Daß er Schläge bekommt, damit er anders wird, als er ist...

In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.

Einleitung, Kapitel 1: Identifizierungen totalisieren, Kapitel 2: Der Raum der Erlaubnis, Kapitel 3: Nach der Anerkennung kommt die Beziehung, Kapitel 4: Selbstsabotage, Kapitel 5: Heb' deine verdammte Hand, Kapitel 6: Das Bauchgefühl als Kompass, Kapitel 7: Das Marionettentheater, Kapitel 8: Die Erleuchteten vergessen, Kapitel 9: Die "Technik" der Radikalen Erlaubnis, Kapitel 10: Die Wächter und "Hijacking", Kapitel 11: Emotionales Sperrgebiet und Trauma.

Do you sometimes feel as if you're just going through the motions in life? Are you good at looking and acting as if you're fine, but secretly feel lonely and disconnected? If so, you are not alone. The world is full of people who have an innate sense that something is wrong with them - who feel they live on the outside looking in, but have no explanation for this feeling and no way to put it into words.

Letting Go describes a simple and effective means by which to let go of the obstacles to enlightenment and become free of negativity. During the many decades of the author's clinical psychiatric practice, the primary aim was to seek the most effective ways to relieve human suffering in all of its many forms. The inner mechanism of surrender was found to be of great practical benefit and is described in this book.

You are not doomed by your genes and hardwired to be a certain way for the rest of your life. A new science is emerging that empowers all human beings to create the reality they choose. In Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, renowned author, speaker, researcher, and chiropractor Dr. Joe Dispenza combines the fields of quantum physics, neuroscience, brain chemistry, biology, and genetics to show you what is truly possible.

Was ist Erinnerung, und wo wird sie gespeichert? Diesen Fragen geht der Bestsellerautor und Trauma-Experte Peter A. Levine auf den Grund. Nach 45 Jahren erfolgreicher Trauma-Forschung und -behandlung kommt er zu dem Schluss: Die einzig verlässlichen Erinnerungen sind die Erinnerungen des Körpers, die dem Bewusstsein nicht unbedingt zugänglich sind. Wir können lernen, die komplexe Interaktion zwischen Vergangenheit und Gegenwart, Gehirn und Körper besser zu verstehen.

Viele von uns verleugnen ihr inneres Kind - das traurige, lachende, verrückte und oft so weise Kind, das in jedem steckt, ob Mann oder Frau. Aber erst wenn wir es hören und uns mit ihm aussöhnen, können wir uns auch selbst lieben. Wer lernt, die kreative Kraft des inneren Kindes und das rationale Denken des Erwachsenen in Form einer kreativen Partnerschaft zu verknüpfen, der heilt nach und nach seine Angst, seinen Schmerz und sein Alleinsein.

Explaining that an impaired capacity for connection to self and to others underlies most psychological and many physiological problems, clinicians Laurence Heller, PhD, and Aline LaPierre, PsyD, introduce the NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM), a unified approach to developmental, attachment, and shock trauma that emphasizes working in the present moment. NARM is a somatically based psychotherapy that helps bring into awareness the parts of self that are disorganized and dysfunctional.

'True belonging doesn't require us to change who we are. It requires us to be who we are.' Social scientist Brené Brown, PhD, LMSW has sparked a global conversation about the experiences that bring meaning to our lives - experiences of courage, vulnerability, love, belonging, shame and empathy. In Braving the Wilderness, Brown redefines what it means to truly belong in an age of increased polarisation.

The 59 provocative slogans presented here - each with a commentary by the Tibetan meditation master Chgyam Trungpa - have been used by Tibetan Buddhists for eight centuries to help meditation students remember and focus on important principles and practices of mind training. They emphasize meeting the ordinary situations of life with intelligence and compassion under all circumstances. Slogans include, "Don't be swayed by external circumstances," "Be grateful to everyone," and "Always maintain only a joyful mind."

A source of healing and inspiration for millions, this modern classic spent over three years on the New York Times best seller list and made codependency a household word. Codependent No More contains dozens of real-life examples, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests to help you along the road to recovering your own life. For anyone struggling with a relationship involving alchoholism or other compulsive behaviors, this program points the way to healing and the renewal of hope.

Wir könnten uns selbst und andere aufrichtig lieben, wenn wir echte Liebe von den eigenen Eltern erfahren hätten...

A Course in Miracles (ACIM) - the self-study spiritual-thought system that teaches the way to love and forgiveness - has captivated the minds and captured the hearts of millions of people. Delivering inner peace where fear and pain once prevailed, its universal message is unsurpassed in its power to heal. Yet many students report that they have difficulty grasping the principles or keeping up with the lessons. So even while they yearn for the spiritual freedom the course offers, they put the book aside, hoping to get to it one day.

In Trauma and Memory, best-selling author Dr. Peter Levine (creator of the Somatic Experiencing approach) tackles one of the most difficult and controversial questions of PTSD/trauma therapy: Can we trust our memories? While some argue that traumatic memories are unreliable and not useful, others insist that we absolutely must rely on memory to make sense of past experience. Dr. Levine suggests that there are elements of truth in both camps.