Being Triggered, Healing, and Feeling Emotions for the First Time
Unpacking Me: The Parts of Trauma No One Talks About

Healing can feel terrifying when your nervous system finally starts to wake up. In this episode, we talk about that overwhelming moment when emotions surface after years of survival mode — and you start wondering if you’re losing your mind. We unpack what it really means to be triggered during healing, why feeling everything at once is actually a sign of progress, and how trauma keeps emotions stored in the body until it finally feels safe enough to release them. This is an honest conversation about emotional flooding, nervous system responses, and learning how to sit with feelings you were never allowed to have before.

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There are moments in healing when something clicks — when you realize you’re no longer surviving, you’re choosing yourself. In this episode, we explore what it means to “grow up” in therapy: taking responsibility for your healing, recognizing patterns, and learning how to show up for yourself in ways no one ever taught you. We talk about the discomfort of self-awareness, the grief that comes with outgrowing old versions of yourself, and the quiet power of deciding that your healing matters. This is an honest reflection on accountability, emotional maturity, and the courage it takes to change.

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For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

Unpacking Me: The Parts of Trauma No One Talks About

What happens when you stop living for everyone else — and finally start choosing yourself? In this episode, we unpack what it really means to become the “black sheep” of the family. We explore how setting boundaries can trigger anger, guilt, and resistance, why healing often exposes long-standing family dysfunction, and how trauma survivors are often labeled “difficult” simply for growing. This is an honest conversation about breaking generational patterns, releasing people-pleasing, and learning to stand in your truth even when others are uncomfortable with your change.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

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For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

Healing doesn’t happen without grief — especially at the end of the year, when reflection can bring up everything you’ve lost along the way. In this episode, we explore the quiet grief that shows up during trauma healing: grieving who you used to be, the life you thought you’d have, and the parts of yourself shaped by survival. We talk about how the end-of-year season can intensify this loss, how healing often requires mourning versions of yourself that kept you alive, and how to hold compassion for both growth and grief at the same time. This is an honest conversation for anyone learning to honor what’s been lost while continuing to move forward.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

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For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

As the year comes to a close, so many of us fall into the silent spiral — comparing ourselves, questioning our progress, and feeling like we’ve somehow “failed behind.” In this episode, we get honest about the pressure that builds in the final months of the year and the way trauma can intensify self-criticism, urgency, and shame. We unpack the myths around productivity, the fear of not doing enough, and the emotional weight of reflecting on a year that didn’t go as planned. This is a compassionate reminder that your worth isn’t measured by checklists, timelines, or accomplishments — and you’re not failing just because you’re tired, overwhelmed, or still growing.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

If today's episode resonated with you, consider taking a moment to subscribe, rate, and share your thoughts with a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback is an essential part of our journey, and we appreciate the support!

For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

The holidays can bring joy — but they can also bring pressure, guilt, and expectations. In this episode, we talk about the emotional weight of holiday obligations and how trauma, family dynamics, and people-pleasing patterns keep us stuck in traditions that drain us. We explore what it means to redefine the holidays on your own terms, honor your needs, and release the belief that you owe everyone your presence at the cost of your peace.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

If today's episode resonated with you, consider taking a moment to subscribe, rate, and share your thoughts with a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback is an essential part of our journey, and we appreciate the support!

For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

For many people with trauma histories, saying “no” isn’t just uncomfortable — it feels dangerous. Especially during the holidays, when expectations and family dynamics intensify. In this episode, we dive into why setting boundaries can trigger fear, guilt, or survival responses, and how to navigate the holidays while honoring your limits. This is an honest conversation about reclaiming your voice, protecting your emotional safety, and learning that “no” is not disrespect — it’s self-preservation.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

If today's episode resonated with you, consider taking a moment to subscribe, rate, and share your thoughts with a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback is an essential part of our journey, and we appreciate the support!

For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.

What happens when gratitude is used against you? In this episode, we unpack the dark side of “be grateful” culture — when people use gratitude to silence your pain, dismiss your needs, or guilt you out of wanting more. We explore how trauma survivors often internalize this pressure, confusing gratitude with self-abandonment. This conversation sheds light on how to reclaim gratitude in a healthy way, without shrinking, settling, or staying in situations that harm you.

Thank you for tuning in to Unpacking Me! We appreciate each and every one of our listeners. Your presence in our community is truly valued, and we're grateful for each and every listener.

If today's episode resonated with you, consider taking a moment to subscribe, rate, and share your thoughts with a review on your preferred podcast platform. Your feedback is an essential part of our journey, and we appreciate the support!

For those seeking a Therapist in the Broward County, FL area, explore the services at www.dare2emerge.com.