Is it a universally millennial experience, learning to set boundaries? I still have a lot to learn about the details of boundary setting, but I think people exposed to the law might have a bit of a leg up. We've seen the power of a clear, bright line rule such as, "people born in the United States are citizens by right of their birth." We've also seen the dangers of an unclear rule, like, "jurisdiction over a business is anywhere where they might be considered at home." That sparks a lot of follow up questions.

This episode dives into the kind of clarification that unclear controlling precedent necessitated. I'll leave you to decide whether you think the rule is good, bad, or unclear.

This episode involved discussion of sexual assault. There are a number of resources available for survivors and victim of sexual assault, including the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN). They offer a free, confidential national sexual assault hotline at 800-656-HOPE as well as an online chat option. The victims of the assault were children. If you suspect child abuse, please call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) or go to www.childhelp.org. All calls are toll free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.

I relied on a series of briefs and opinions for each accused in writing this episode:

• Moore: CAAF opinion, AFCCA opinion
• Hennessy: CAAF opinion, AFCCA opinion, brief, motion for reconsideration
• Serjak: CAAF opinion, AFCCA opinion, government brief, Serjak's brief

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

When I lived in the southern United States after college, people told me my dating options would be limited. I was 22 years old and, apparently, a spinster, so they cautioned that my dating market would probably be people who'd married young and were winding their way through divorce. I wasn't particularly interested in being a stepmother and, ultimately, didn't seriously date while I was living there. From colleagues and friends, though, I gathered how difficult it was to date as a parent. I listened as women agonized over whether their child was old enough to meet their new beau, whether they'd been dating long enough, whether there were any red flags they might have missed. It was an exercise in exhaustion and concern--a leap of faith.

In the case of Sergeant Adams and his wife, it was a leap of faith that did not work out. There's nothing to suggest Mrs. Adams missed something, but everything to suggest that Sergeant Adams really sucked.

This episode involved discussion of sexual assault. There are a number of resources available for survivors and victim of sexual assault, including the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN). They offer a free, confidential national sexual assault hotline at 800-656-HOPE as well as an online chat option. The victims of the assault were children. If you suspect child abuse, please call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) or go to www.childhelp.org. All calls are toll free and confidential. The hotline is available 24/7 in more than 170 languages.

I relied on a series of briefs and opinions dating back over the length of this case. I think the easiest way to share them is in chronological order:

• 2017 ACCA direct appeal opinion
• 2018 ACCA writ opinion
• 2020 ACCA direct appeal opinion
• 2021 CAAF direct appeal opinion
  • Appellee's brief
• 2024 ACCA decision on further review
• 2025 SCOTUS petition for writ of certiorari
  • SCOTUS Docket (1)(2)
• 2025 CAAF writ opinion

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

When your spouse deploys, there are a lot of new fun things to worry about and a rush of plans to get into place. Your best bet is to get a power of attorney for the things that matter, and some people elect to move back to their home towns during deployments, eager to return to a sense of comfort and community. It's a challenging time where the burden of running a life and house shift to just one person and, frankly, trigger survival mode.

For one woman, deployment survival strategy expanded from the woes and worries of running their lives to include literal survival.

This episode briefly mentions dying by suicide. If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, I urge you to contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. Help is also available via chat on their website. For support specific to veterans, first dial 988, then selecting option 1. They also have veteran-specific chat support.

In preparing for this episode, I reviewed the Fifth Circuit Opinion and articles from KDHN , Fort Hood Sentinel, and Army Times, an FBI press release, a DOJ press release, and a Vanity Fair piece.

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

During my senior year of college, I went through a weird period of time where everything I ate made me feel nauseous and I wasn't really experiencing hunger. My regular doctor couldn't find anything wrong with me, suggesting it was perhaps just stress. My parents, however, were pretty concerned that their daughter wasn't interested in food and demanded I seek more opinions. A second opinion was that it could be a brain tumor and took additional scans. It was the second brain tumor scare I had in college. Zero stars, do not recommend. I am not a human that does particularly well in clinical environments and it's not uncommon that I require additional prompting to seek medical attention for what I perceive to be non-urgent conditions. Which is to say, I really sympathize with Airman Basic Giles, who felt that he really didn't have a choice when it came to whether to seek treatment for his mental health crisis.

This episode contains a discussion of attempted death by suicide. If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, I urge you to contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. Help is also available via chat on their website. For support specific to veterans, first dial 988, then selecting option 1. They also have veteran-specific chat support.

I relied primarily on the AFCCA opinion.

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

If you were hoping I'd kick season 4 off with a bang, I'll instead start us off with a reference to Firework, the musical masterpiece from Katy Perry. I have no casual transition to tell you that the song is FIFTEEN YEARS OLD, and that its age makes me feel personally attacked. Apparently, there's a not insignificant portion of servicemembers that DO feel like a plastic bag drifting through the wind wanting to start again. When servicemembers ignite the light and take flight from their commitment, their desertion doesn't just leave the Department of Defense in awe–the DOD goes looking for them for the months, years, or decades it takes to track them down.

I relied on the the Robinson ACCA opinion and AFCCA opinion for Lemburg. I also referenced information from Instagram, PBS, WFTV, People, and Ocala.com.

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

During sorority rush, we came up with quiet signals to communicate without having to out ourselves out to prospective new members. When things were going south during a conversation, we'd make eye contact with another sister and play with our hair - a bat signal asking for help. Naturally, this bled into the rest of our lives. If we were out and got bad vibes, we'd make eye contact with a sister and play with our hair. You don't have to be really all that subtle or creative with drunk men at parties - I once interrupted a conversation and said only, "I need to take her with me now." Worked like a charm. Of course, not all interactions with drunk men occur in public spaces… there aren't always a bunch of witnesses that can explain what happened. When a series of cameras tracked Specialist Second Class Coleman to a back room and recording his suspect interaction with a woman, there was undoubtedly solid proof as to what happened. And investigators let that proof disappear.

I relied on the NMCCA opinion heavily. I also briefly discussed information gleaned from the various review websites for Teasers, but I'll let you find those details on your own if you feel so inclined.

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

I don't know if we even consider it an unwritten code that you don't date your ex's friends or your friend's exes. I feel like that's probably actually written somewhere when it comes to explaining to people how they should behave. We give high school students a little bit of a pass because their social circles are small and it's kind of low stakes in most high school relationships. But when the world opens up to you, I think we can all agree that your dating pool should too. I guess Specialist Second Class Douglas Rogan never got that memo.

I relied on the NMCCA opinion heavily, and reference information from Major Rendleman's Law Review Article regarding unsworn statements.

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When we moved back from Japan to the United States, we encountered an ever tightening noose of gun violence. It was an abrupt reintegration to the American fascination with firearms. I don't know if the socialization of young boys to idolize and play with guns has anything to do with the prevalence of violence, and without CDC research into the gun violence that plagues this country, it's unlikely we'll have real or meaningful answers. It could be that boys are socialized to pretend and play with guns, it could be the male loneliness epidemic, it could be the lack of sufficient mental health resources. But maybe, just maybe, it's the guns - the ready access. I've discussed men playing around with guns before, but Lance Corporal Robbins brings us right back to this same conundrum – opting to up the ante on his gun play, stealing a laser sight from the Marine Corps so he could have even more… fun? In predictable fashion, playing around with loaded guns went tragically wrong and landed Robbins in a court martial.

I relied on the NMCCA Robbins opinion and the CAAF Maebane opinion to write up this episode script.

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