When your spouse deploys, there are a lot of new fun things to worry about and a rush of plans to get into place. Your best bet is to get a power of attorney for the things that matter, and some people elect to move back to their home towns during deployments, eager to return to a sense of comfort and community. It's a challenging time where the burden of running a life and house shift to just one person and, frankly, trigger survival mode.

For one woman, deployment survival strategy expanded from the woes and worries of running their lives to include literal survival.

This episode briefly mentions dying by suicide. If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, I urge you to contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. Help is also available via chat on their website. For support specific to veterans, first dial 988, then selecting option 1. They also have veteran-specific chat support.

In preparing for this episode, I reviewed the Fifth Circuit Opinion and articles from KDHN , Fort Hood Sentinel, and Army Times, an FBI press release, a DOJ press release, and a Vanity Fair piece.

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Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

During my senior year of college, I went through a weird period of time where everything I ate made me feel nauseous and I wasn't really experiencing hunger. My regular doctor couldn't find anything wrong with me, suggesting it was perhaps just stress. My parents, however, were pretty concerned that their daughter wasn't interested in food and demanded I seek more opinions. A second opinion was that it could be a brain tumor and took additional scans. It was the second brain tumor scare I had in college. Zero stars, do not recommend. I am not a human that does particularly well in clinical environments and it's not uncommon that I require additional prompting to seek medical attention for what I perceive to be non-urgent conditions. Which is to say, I really sympathize with Airman Basic Giles, who felt that he really didn't have a choice when it came to whether to seek treatment for his mental health crisis.

This episode contains a discussion of attempted death by suicide. If you are experiencing thoughts of self-harm, I urge you to contact the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988. Help is also available via chat on their website. For support specific to veterans, first dial 988, then selecting option 1. They also have veteran-specific chat support.

I relied primarily on the AFCCA opinion.

Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to share, rate and review it wherever you hit play today. I'm happy to receive constructive feedback or case suggestions at conductunbecomingpod@gmail.com. Join me over on Instagram @conductunbecoming!

Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.

If you were hoping I'd kick season 4 off with a bang, I'll instead start us off with a reference to Firework, the musical masterpiece from Katy Perry. I have no casual transition to tell you that the song is FIFTEEN YEARS OLD, and that its age makes me feel personally attacked. Apparently, there's a not insignificant portion of servicemembers that DO feel like a plastic bag drifting through the wind wanting to start again. When servicemembers ignite the light and take flight from their commitment, their desertion doesn't just leave the Department of Defense in awe–the DOD goes looking for them for the months, years, or decades it takes to track them down.

I relied on the the Robinson ACCA opinion and AFCCA opinion for Lemburg. I also referenced information from Instagram, PBS, WFTV, People, and Ocala.com.

Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to share, rate and review it wherever you hit play today. I'm happy to receive constructive feedback or case suggestions at conductunbecomingpod@gmail.com. Join me over on Instagram @conductunbecoming!

Disclaimer: Conduct Unbecoming is a podcast where I get to talk about interesting crimes and cases that involve US military service members. I research, write, and produce the podcast myself… the opinions expressed are my own and, perhaps it's obvious, Conduct Unbecoming is not approved, endorsed, or authorized by the Department of Defense or whatever name they go by socially now. I am not a military JAG and have never been a military JAG. While I'm a practicing attorney, I don't do direct criminal defense. This podcast is a passion project, not legal advice or expert opinion.