• Rejecting Shame in Motherhood
    May 7 2025

    In the final episode of the series, Dr McClain Sampson, a professor of social work and founder of Hear Me Roar Coaching, shares her journey and mission to empower women, particularly focusing on maternal mental health. Dr Sampson talks about her challenging childhood, her academic career, the transformative impact of her unplanned pregnancy, and the development of her passion for maternal health. She emphasises the importance of mental health support for new mothers, the critical role of self-efficacy, and introduces her concept of 'Savage Self-Care'. Dr Sampson also shares her personal struggle with her teenage son's addiction and how it has shaped her approach to coaching and mental wellness. The episode concludes with practical advice for mothers dealing with similar challenges and the significance of staying connected to oneself.

    00:00 Introduction to Dr McClain Sampson

    01:01 Early Life and Influences

    02:31 Journey into Maternal Health

    05:03 Academic Career and Research

    06:43 Transition to Coaching

    09:32 Personal Struggles and Family Challenges

    14:06 Coping with Shame and Guilt

    26:34 Savage Self-Care Framework

    32:09 Connecting with Dr Sampson

    34:25 Final Thoughts and Inspirations

    If you need additional support after listening to this episode you can use the links below to find more information on some places to go:

    · In an emergency, dial 999 (UK only) or 911 (USA); for non-emergencies, dial 101 (UK)

    · A doctor or practice nurse at your GP surgery

    · A voluntary organisation such as The Samaritans (UK – call for free anytime: 116 123) or 988 Lifeline (USA – call for free anytime: 988)

    Dr McClain Sampson

    · Website: HearMeRoarCoaching.com

    · Instagram: @HearMeRoarCoaching

    · LinkedIn: McClain Sampson

    · YouTube: @HearMeRoarCoaching-HMR

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to let go of shame and reach your full potential, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    41 Min.
  • Finding Hope During My Treatment For Cancer
    Apr 23 2025

    In this week’s episode, Dr Connie Kerali interviews Amanda Wakefield, a High Conflict Relationship Recovery and Resilience Life Coach based in Luxembourg. Amanda shares her personal journey, from becoming an orphan at a young age to overcoming significant challenges including cancer. She discusses the importance of hope, the impact of grief on vulnerability, and the steps she took to regain control of her life. Amanda also talks about her transition from a corporate career to coaching, her methods for helping others find their inner strength, and the importance of a supportive network. This inspiring discussion highlights the transformative power of resilience and hope.

    00:00 Introduction to Amanda Wakefield

    00:43 Amanda's Early Life and Personal Challenges

    02:02 Journey to Becoming a Life Coach

    03:02 Finding Hope and Overcoming Adversity

    04:40 Turning Points and Realisations

    09:56 Support Systems and Alternative Therapies

    12:05 Building a Coaching Practice

    16:46 Final Thoughts and Inspirational Messages

    22:53 Remarkable Women Who Inspire

    24:42 Conclusion and Gratitude

    AMANDA WAKEFIELD

    · Website: AmandasBeyondCoaching.com

    · LinkedIn: Amanda Wakefield

    · Instagram: @AmandaResilienceCoach

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to let go of shame and reach your full potential, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    27 Min.
  • Breaking The Silence Surrounding Infertility
    Apr 9 2025

    In this week's episode, Jennifer Robertson, a fertility coach and author, shares her compelling seven-year journey through infertility, pregnancy loss, and surrogacy. She discusses the impacts of her early life experiences, the emotional and mental toll of infertility, and how she ultimately embraced self-care and mental health. Jennifer talks about her transition to becoming a fertility coach and the importance of finding community and support. She also provides insights into coping mechanisms, balancing mental health, and setting boundaries. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes the power of accepting emotions and the need for personal agency.

    00:00 Introduction to Jennifer Robertson

    01:09 Jennifer's Life Story: Chapter One

    04:19 Journey to Becoming a Fertility Coach

    06:22 The Emotional Impact of Infertility

    08:06 Coping Mechanisms and Mental Health

    16:16 The Importance of Support and Community

    19:22 Living a Double Life During Infertility

    22:52 Embracing Emotions and Setting Boundaries

    26:35 Finding Community and Seeking Help

    29:14 Final Thoughts and Inspirations

    JENNIFER ROBERTSON

    · Website: JenniferRobertson.co

    · Instagram: @MsJenniferRobertson

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to let go of shame and reach your full potential, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    36 Min.
  • Overcoming Work-Related Shame: A Transformational Journey
    Mar 27 2025

    In this week's episode, Dr Connie interviews Rebecca Cuberli, a seasoned creative leadership coach specializing in emotional intelligence. Rebecca shares her journey from corporate life to becoming a coach, detailing her wake-up call during the COVID-19 pandemic, her struggle with burnout, and her path to self-discovery and purpose. She emphasises the importance of emotional intelligence, self-acceptance, and vulnerability. Rebecca also discusses the transformative impact of her work on leaders and teams, and her vision for spreading emotional intelligence skills globally. The episode concludes with Rebecca's advice for individuals seeking to find their purpose and her acknowledgment of key influencers in her life.

    00:00 Introduction to Rebecca Cuberli

    00:38 Rebecca's Wake-Up Call and Career Shift

    01:34 Struggles and Realisations

    05:07 Journey to Self-Discovery

    09:58 Embracing Emotional Intelligence

    12:30 Advice for Aspiring Leaders

    14:15 The Dandelion Effect

    21:03 Future Aspirations and Impact

    27:55 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    REBECCA CUBERLI

    · Website: RebeccaCuberli.com

    · LinkedIn: Rebecca Cuberli

    · Instagram: @RebeccaCuberliCoach

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to let go of shame and reach your full potential, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    35 Min.
  • Finding My Voice: Speaking Up About Life Behind Closed Doors
    Mar 13 2025

    In this week's episode, holistic counsellor and root cause therapist, Lorene Roberts, joins the discussion to share her impactful journey of overcoming life's most challenging transitions, including an emotionally and sexually abusive marriage. Lorene offers insight into how she turned her painful experiences into a source of strength and guidance for other women. She discusses her latest work, including a new course on emotional freedom, and reflects on the importance of self-discovery and the lessons learned from her past. Lorene is candid about her struggles and triumphs, emphasizing the necessity of resilience, determination, and self-belief in the path to healing.

    00:00 Introduction to Lorene Roberts

    00:37 Lorene's Early Life and Family Dynamics

    03:15 Marriage and Realizations

    07:50 Journey to Self-Discovery

    10:00 Turning Points and Healing

    14:03 Overcoming Bitterness and Moving Forward

    16:11 The Journey of Self-Development

    17:18 Resilience and Determination

    19:08 Rediscovering Self-Worth

    20:55 Traveling the World for Self-Discovery

    24:12 Becoming a Holistic Counsellor

    26:50 Advice for Listeners

    31:28 Inspiration and Final Thoughts

    If you need additional support after listening to this episode you can use the links below to find more information on some places to go:

    · In an emergency, dial 999; for non-emergencies, dial 101 (UK only)

    · Find your nearest NHS Sexual Assault Referral Centre (England only)

    · Find an NHS Talking Therapy service near you (England only)

    · A doctor or practice nurse at your GP surgery

    · A voluntary organisation such as Rape Crisis, Women’s Aid, or Victim Support

    LORENE ROBERTS

    · Website: LoreneRoberts.com

    · Facebook: @LoreneRoberts

    · LinkedIn: Lorene Roberts

    · YouTube: @LoreneRoberts

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to be empowered by your own story,

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    37 Min.
  • The Road to Recovery: A Self Love Journey
    Feb 27 2025

    In this episode of Speak Shame, Dr Connie Kerali interviews Jeannette Hounjet, a certified coach, Reiki Master, and advocate for women's recovery. The discussion centres on the journey to self-acceptance and authenticity. Jeannette shares her story of overcoming feelings of inadequacy and the quest for genuine self-love. They delve into practical steps for transforming negative self-talk, the importance of finding personal support systems, and the continuous nature of self-improvement. Through this inspiring conversation, listeners are encouraged to begin their own journeys toward healing and unshakable self-love.

    00:00 Introduction to Speak Shame

    01:18 Meet Jeannette Hounjet

    02:16 Jeannette's Journey to Authenticity

    04:32 The Path to Self-Love and Recovery

    08:34 Finding Inner Peace and Faith

    09:38 Helping Other Women in Recovery

    15:25 Navigating Relationships and Support Systems

    27:57 Practical Steps for Self-Love

    34:30 Jeannette's Inspirations and Resources

    38:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    JEANNETTE HOUNJET SOCIAL MEDIA

    · Instagram: @NowShesLiving

    · LinkedIn: Jeannette Hounjet

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to be empowered by your own story, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    39 Min.
  • A Childs Search for Love, An Adults Discovery of Their Worth
    Feb 13 2025

    In this episode of Speak Shame, Dr Connie Kerali talks with Nina de Sausmarez, a self-belief and empowerment coach. Nina shares her personal story of overcoming a challenging and traumatic past marked by drug use, running away from home, and experiencing shame from her difficult upbringing. The discussion delves into Nina's patterns of seeking validation and safety, her experiences of self-sabotage, and the profound realisation of her need for radical responsibility. Nina's journey to self-awareness, self-acceptance, and ultimately, empowerment through therapy and introspection is explored. The episode emphasises the importance of doing the work to heal from shame and using personal transformation to help others. In the end, Dr Connie and Nina discuss the impact of sharing these stories to inspire hope and resilience in others.

    00:00 Introduction to Speak Shame

    01:48 Nina's Early Life and Struggles

    06:04 Running Away and Seeking Belonging

    10:03 Life in Away from Home and Continued Struggles

    16:02 Motherhood and Realisations

    21:43 The Turning Point and Seeking Help

    24:56 Hitting Rock Bottom: A Personal Journey

    25:36 The Power of Choice and Self-Awareness

    28:38 Therapy and Emotional Release

    30:53 Embracing Radical Responsibility

    34:42 From Self-Discovery to Coaching Others

    39:56 Honouring the Past and Inspiring the Future

    41:33 Final Thoughts and Farewell

    NINA DE SAUSMAREZ SOCIAL MEDIA

    · Instagram: @NinadeSausmarez

    · Facebook: @NinadeSausmarez

    · LinkedIn: Nina de Sausmarez

    · Website: NinadeSausmarez.com

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    · If you're a remarkable woman who wants to be empowered by your own story, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    48 Min.
  • Living Positively With HIV
    Jan 30 2025

    On this episode of Speak Shame with Dr Connie Kerali, I’m joined by Doreen Moraa Moracha, a phenomenal woman who shares her life story of living with HIV for 32 years. In a deep and inspirational conversation, Doreen recounts being diagnosed at 13, her journey through self-acceptance, and her role as an HIV/AIDS advocate. She discusses the stigma, challenges, and triumphs she has faced, including the impact on her mental health, dating life, and the importance of community support. Doreen also offers practical advice for those living with HIV and emphasizes the power of acceptance and self-love in overcoming life’s adversities.

    00:00 Introduction to Speak Shame

    01:08 Meet Doreen Moraa Moracha

    02:24 Doreen's Early Life with HIV

    03:56 Journey into Advocacy

    04:39 Challenges and Stigma

    16:22 The Turning Point

    19:35 Dating with HIV

    23:00 Navigating Relationships with HIV

    23:21 Facing Misconceptions and Stigma

    25:22 Building a Supportive Community

    30:26 Acceptance and Mental Health

    37:33 Preventing HIV and Living Positively

    39:51 Reflections and Inspirations

    43:37 Conclusion and Contact Information


    SEXUAL HEALTH RESOURCES

    · Find a sexual health clinic near me (UK only)

    · Home STI Testing – Sexual Health London

    · Terrence Higgins Trust

    DOREEN MORAA MORACHA SOCIAL MEDIA

    · Instagram: @yes_I_have_HIV

    · YouTube: @IAmABeautifulStory

    · Facebook: @DoreenMoraaMoracha

    · TikTok: @yes_I_have_HIV

    · LinkedIn: Doreen Moraa

    GET IN TOUCH

    · Join the community:

    o @DrConnieKerali on Instagram

    o @SpeakShame on Instagram

    o Speak Shame the private group on Facebook

    · Read Speak Shame: The Blog

    · Learn more about Dr Connie’s Mission 100K to share over 100,000 inspiring stories of women who have faced and overcome adversity, so that others may find strength, connection, and hope in their own journeys, and so that shame itself loses its power.

    · Do you want to share your story? Email Dr Connie at info@drconniekerali.com.

    If you're a remarkable woman who wants to be empowered by your own story, book a free discovery call with me, Dr Connie Kerali.

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    45 Min.