Every woman I know is hungry to be claimed — to be swept out of her hyper-independent, over-functioning survival mode and into softness, safety, and devotion.

But here's the truth:
You have to let him choose you.
And that’s the part no one wants to talk about.

This week, we’re getting honest about the raw, uncomfortable reality of being chosen by a man — not just on the surface, but in the deepest, soul-baring, heart-shaking way.

Being chosen isn't passive — it’s an initiation.
It’s a spiritual reckoning with your past and a brave opening to a new paradigm of relationship.

Let this episode crack you open.

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This week, I’m joined by the soul-sisters behind Babe Philosophy, Meli & Liv — two besties who met during the darkest heartbreaks of their lives and turned it into the deepest, most radically honest friendship.

(Yes, the kind we all crave.)

We unpack their story: -how they met, why they started a podcast together, and how they became the kind of friends who don’t flinch at the deep, taboo, voice-note-for-hours kind of convos.

This is for every woman who’s felt the ache of shallow connections and longs for friendships that go beneath the surface.

We get into:

• The wild, sacred mess of real sisterhood

• What makes a friendship not just fun, but soulful

• Their biggest community “hot topics” (think: co-dependence, anxious attachment, and what we’re all trying to untangle)

• How to move through rupture + repair in your friendships

• The question they believe every woman should be asking herself

These two bring the kind of raw truth + tender love that makes you exhale and say, “finally, someone’s saying it.”

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This week, I’m sharing the wildest truth I know:
Becoming the sexual, "too much" woman was exactly what liberated me as a woman.

In this episode, I take you deep into my personal story of healing from sexual trauma—not through silence or shame, but through rage, sensuality, and sisterhood.

You'll hear:

• Why stepping into my “forbidden feminine” was the key to finally feeling safe in my body

• The 4 core feminine archetypes I work with—and how you can start working with them too

• Why this kind of unhinged, embodied healing is 97% more effective than methods like talk therapy

• How pleasure, movement, and community can be medicine (and why healing doesn’t have to be so damn serious)

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Gifts to get you started ...👉 Free Sacred Self Pleasure resources, courses & masterclasses for women — The Wild Fem

This week I’m joined by the wildly liberating Rosie Leeson (Wild Oracle) — certified Existential Kink coach, tarot reader, and intuitive sound healer

— for a deep (and delightfully naughty) conversation on shadow work, spiritual gaslighting, and why affirmations alone don’t cut it.

We talk about ...

- why the parts of ourselves we’re taught to fix, hide, or silence might actually be the key to our pleasure, power, and freedom.

- Rosie shares how EK turned my abandonment wound from a trauma spiral into a turn-on — yes, spanks and all.

- We dive into the brain’s secret kinks, the psychic rope play of self-sabotage, and why “doing the work” doesn’t mean healing yourself out of your humanity.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own patterns, this convo will blow your inner good girl wide open.

Connect with Rosie:

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Gifts to get you started ...👉 Free Sacred Self Pleasure resources, courses & masterclasses for women — The Wild Fem

Okay babes ... this one’s JUICY. 💍🌊

In this solo episode, I’m finally spilling the tea on my “secret” wedding (!!) and the massive 3,000 mile move I just made—for love, for expansion, for LIFE.

This isn’t just a life update—it’s a story about surrender, intuition, and letting love annihilate everything I thought I was.

I’m diving deep into:
✨How a guy I met on holiday for 48 hours became my husband!
✨ The wild lessons of long-distance love
✨ Why opening my heart to love was braver than healing my sexual trauma
✨ What Saturn Return is dragging me through (and how I’m letting it shape me) - p.s. HELP
✨ Why choosing the scary, soul-expanding path is always worth it

And yes… I’m officially living on a DIVINE island now. 🌴 And hosting the very first Wet & Worthy Woman Retreat here in Tenerife this October!

Come feel the pulse of this next chapter—raw, real, wet, and WILD.

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Tenerife • Oct 9–12
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Let’s stay connected:✨ @thewildfem on Instagram

Gifts to get you started ...👉 Free Sacred Self Pleasure resources, courses & masterclasses for women — The Wild Fem

You don’t need to try to be soft. You need to feel safe.

This episode explores why so many women hardened in the first place, and why being told to “just soften” often bypasses the trauma we hold in our feminine bodies.

We dive into:
– Why numbness in the bedroom is a nervous system response
– How to stop dissociating during intimacy
– Reclaiming safety in your body (yes, your pussy)

- Why women got HARD in the first place — the survival reason no one talks about

This is the conversation I wish every woman could hear.

And if your body is whispering yes, if your feminine is ready to be felt, held, and finally heard… then you’re invited into SHE TEMPLE.

A 1-day online sanctuary for women who are ready to feel safe, sacred, and sovereign in their own skin.

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This is the softness that changes everything.

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Gift:

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This week, we’re diving deep into why so many women are struggling to feel "in the mood".

I’m breaking down ...

- how to reawaken your turn-on

- melt resistance in your nervous system

- and begin to feel wet, soft, and open again (or for the very first time).

We’re talking:

• Why your pssy might be closing and drying up—and how to lovingly reverse years of disappointing sx

• Why lube isn’t the real answer (even though it seems like a quick fix)

• The deeper emotional roots of yoni dryness, and how it has more to do with your relationship to your body than your hormones

• How to truly know when your body is ready to be entered— so you become deeply receptive, magnetic, and dripping wet

This episode is a reclamation.

🕊️ And if you’re ready to take it deeper, join me for REMEMBER HER, a FREE 90-minute online full moon ceremony to reconnect with the most forbidden & sacred part of your body.
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It’s time to feel at home in your body again.
Let her lead. Let her open. Let her drip.

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Let’s go there today.

Because I'm done hearing incredible women & clients say to me, "I don't feel feminine" ...

In this episode, I pull back the veil on the difference between performing femininity and actually feeling it.

I’ll share what I’ve seen in my workshops—powerful, sensual dancers who still can’t touch their own body with real presence.

And I activate your feminine frequency with this truth:

Feminine energy is not an aesthetic.
It’s not something you do.
It’s something you let happen to you.

We talk about the grip of control, the real medicine of dance and devotion, and how love—yes, love—is the thing that will crack you open if you let it.

I’ll share the intimate ways orgasm taught me to surrender, soften, and stop gripping my way through sensuality.

And how everything from your clothes to your confidence becomes an effortless byproduct when you let yourself be lived.

This episode is a reclamation. A remembering.
Not of what femininity should look like—
But of what it feels like to be a woman, fully.

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The de-armouring bundle mentioned in this episode which includes the practice that changed EVERYTHING for me.

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• ⁠Join the FREE 3-day Goddess Unleashed⁠ challenge & reclaim your forbidden feminine POWER

• Untame with these revolutionary self-romance journal prompts & playlists

• Learn the ritual that awakened internal pleasure & released my s*xual trauma

• Rewrite your beliefs about men & finally feel SAFE in love & receiving