Alixe Van Ogtrop is a Psychotherapist & Shamanic Guide.

Through a powerful PTSD experience, Alixe become a neuro-psychotherapist, bringing a deeper understanding of trauma, anxiety, and healing.Today we talk about ..- overcoming the victim (there are no victims, trauma happens for us) - The secret weapon against patriarchy that nobody is talking about: PLEASURE- the patriarchy within: "the voice that says you're not enough" & how do we dismantle it- the dark masculine (the men that grab & take) - & how it also exists within us & blocks us from holding ourself as women- Alixe's story of birthing 2 daughters & how birth has been taken over by Patriacrchy tooConnect with Alixe:

- Join her retreats & work with here 1-1 here: https://www.alixevanogtrop.com/

- Connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alixevanogtrop/

READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? ..

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

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⁠🎁⁠ FREE GOODIES⁠⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

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BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message ⁠HERE ⁠or email hello@thewildfem.com

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

The wild, messy, holy truth about one year of living in Spain & being married … & why I genuinely thought I wasn’t going to survive the initiation.

🔥 The ache of starting over: money wobbles, foreign friendship, language barriers, relationship tests — & the part of me that wanted to run back to the UK comfort.

🔥 Hitting my “good girl” ceiling… & the self-sabotage that almost won.🔥 The moment I got DONE with my own complaining and hired support — how that cracked open my first £15k month

🔥 Victim consciousness: the brutal, beautiful wake-up call that forced me to stop worshipping lack & finally see how GOOD it already is

🔥 One year of marriage: the boundaries, the structure, the sacred agreements that saved us

🔥 The unexpected questions: motherhood? Why it has been my biggest trigger… & why, for the first time, something in me is softening open.

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K ..

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram :

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

WANT TO HOLD WOMEN HOME TO THE MOST SACRED PART OF THEM & DELIVER YONI MASSAGE: Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message HERE

or email hello@thewildfem.com

Yes love. You read it correctly.

That's my job .. to help women rewrite the pain, shame & trauma of their past by holding their most sacred body part in my unique ceremonial trauma-informed yoni massage sessions.

& today ... You're getting all the juice of what I've learned from holding more than 75 women back to feeling safe in their feminine anatomy.

I am sharing ...

• Why women can't ask for more when we don’t realize how good, slow, sacred, and SAFE it gets to be — until our body finally feels it…

• Aftercare is non-negotiable & how you can do this at home

• Trauma work doesn’t have to be heavy. It can be light, slow, grounded, deeply regulated. … rewiring without the theatrics of “big releases.”

• Can we truly bring women all the way home without physical pussy work? Or will there always be a missing layer — the one society (and even many facilitators) are too scared to touch?

WANT TO TRAIN WITH ME?

If you know you're meant to take women 10x deeper… then PRIESTESS, my trauma-informed ceremonial massage training , is calling you.
6 spots only — and one is already gone.

We begin in October 2026.

DM me on Instagram @thewildfemor email hello@thewildfem.com

🔥 Let’s go where women have always deserved to go.

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K? ..

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.

⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠

You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram :

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

• 🐈 The science-backed truths the spiritual world keeps skipping when they talk about “regulating your nervous system” — and why it matters for a woman reclaiming her erotic power.

• 🐈 How the feminine nervous system actually works… and the real medicine she’s been starving for.

  🐈 The connection between your vagus nerve, stored sexual trauma, shame, and fear — and how to finally let your body exhale.

  🐈 The 3 practices that rebuilt my safety in the bedroom from the inside out:

  🐈 Yoni massage, oxytocin, and shadow work — my unapologetic holy trinity for liberating feminine sexuality at the root.

  🐈 How these practices unravel the past you’ve been carrying… and reveal the woman you were always meant to become.

  If you have been affected by trauma, or by the wave of news recently - Join our sisterhood community on Telegram inside THE NAUGHTY CORNER - Join here

  
  

  WANT TO HOLD WOMEN HOME TO THE MOST SACRED PART OF THEM & DELIVER YONI MASSAGE: Apply for PRIESTESS training by sending me a message HERE

  or an email to hello@thewildfem.com

  SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K?HERE'S THE LINKS I MENTIONED ..

  ⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

  (get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

  
  

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  ⁠🎁 FREE GOODIES⁠You know I love spoiling you.

  
  

  Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

  
  

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Woman, it's time to come out of the Witch closet! You’re Meant for More & You Know It!

You're meant for more than your day job - but you're putting on the mask & going to the 9-5 anyway because it feels safe You're done living a split personality (spiritual you vs society you) - but following your purpose feels terrifying! - What if your family reject you for wanting to be a healer?

- What if you get burned like the witches for offering your medicine?

- What if you loose your friends because you're too busy & successful or too "different"?You're meant for more .. you're here to heal, to hold, to help others with your soul work but you can't quite claim it .. You're a witch in hiding - so much creative power - so much wisdom from your own healing joruney -

You're ready to share - to serve, but you're stopping yourself - something is sabotaging your success You're ready to finally be the priestess, the leader - the witch you were born to be! INSIDE THIS EPISODE ...- Why feminine leadership feels so terrifying- How to move through the fear & activate your divine purpose- Why YOU are the one that breaks limits in your bloodline- & finally sets free the witches in your lineage who were stopped for sharing their medicineTHEY'VE TORN DOWN FEMININE LEADERS FOR CENTURIES ... DONT LET THEM GET YOU TOOThis episode is a PERMISSION SLIP & an invitation to step into your soul work without fear ...If you know THIS is for you

- you're ready to be supported to hold women into their own underworld & hold their deepest transforamtion -

PRIESTESS is for you,

my 3-month initiation into holding ceremonial trauma informed yoni massage

- message me on instagram HERE if you would like to know more with a no-pressure chat to get to know if this is the best next move in your soul work: https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/

SO YOU'RE READY TO MAKE YOUR LIFE JUICY AS F**K?HERE'S THE LINKS I MENTIONED ..

⁠🍯 WISE NECTAR:⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

💦⁠ TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ - Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.

⁠🎁 HOT & FREE - You know I love spoiling you.

Stay wet, Stay worthy - Loce Charlotte xxx

Come play with me on Instagram :

⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠

How would it feel to confess what you have in your bank account?

- Do you think someone will want to take it from you? - Do you feel ashamed of how “little” there is … that you think you should be further along? IN THIS EPISODE:

💋 Awakening Rich Witch energy: the woman who earns through devotion, pleasure & her Feminine Work.
💋 Breaking generational chains without the STRUGGLE, without the burnout, without the hustle.
💋 Becoming the first in your lineage to make money from your soul… & passing ease, mission & freedom to the women who come after you in your bloodline.
💋 My personal dark feminine wealth rituals: — & what it unlocked in my nervous system.
💋 The behind-the-scenes of offering yoni massage in my business & how it changed the entire architecture of my income.
💋 The moment my monthly income became my weekly income … not because I worked more, but because I served deeper.
💋 The energetic codes you receive when you let your erotic nature support you financially

This episode is a reclamation of the witch, the medicine woman who is PAID not burned for her soul work.
If you’re ready to rewrite the story of money from the root of your body… press play. 🔥

> FREEBIES & WAYS TO GET STARTED

Access the womb money magic practice inside WISE NECTAR here

> WANT TO OFFER YONI MASSAGE TO YOUR COMMUNITY? Find out about my PRIESTESS training by sending me a DM on Instagram HERE

JOIN MY FREE TELEGRAM GROUP for juicy bonus audios, practices & sisterhood chats - Join The Naughty Corner

With love,

Charlotte xx

This week… a man enters the temple.And not just any man.A man who has walked through fire, faced his shadows, and chose devotion over domination.
A man who knows what it takes for the masculine to truly RISE.

Inside this episode, I ask relationship coach, husband, father, and deeply embodied man Mike Elliott the questions women whisper to themselves behind closed doors.

If you’ve ever craved deeper presence, slowed-down intimacy,

or a relationship that feels like a living altar — this one is for you.

In This Episode, We Go Into:

• His raw journey through adoption, divorce, and the gritty shadow-side of masculinity — and how he alchemised pain into embodied leadership.
• Why women are starving for intimacy beyond small talk and Netflix
  and how to express your longing without nagging, pushing, or “fixing” your man.
• How to invite your man deeper in the bedroom
  so lovemaking becomes sacred, conscious, breath-soaked connection instead of routine performance.
• What the masculine must cultivate to create safety, aliveness, and emotional presence that lets a woman fully open.
• Initiation through intimacy and why emotional intelligence is the new, irresistible masculine edge.
• Should you send this episode to your man?
  Or is it more powerful to embody the shift yourself so he feels accepted, not “worked on”?

If you’re ready to love your man so exquisitely that his nervous system melts open, his heart rises, and intimacy becomes a devotion instead of a duty…
Press play. Your relationship will feel it.

CONNECT WITH MIKE;

➡️ Join Mike On Instagram🔗 Evolutionary Relationship: Signature Program: https://www.sacredrelating.com/➡️ Listen to Mike's Podcast

CONNECT WITH ME:

Instagram - @thewildfem

Want to experience my trauma-release yoni massage method at home?
Join WISE NECTAR

With love,

Charlotte xx

Inside this episode:

When sex feels triggering

• Your body tenses like it’s bracing for impact
• Breathing goes shallow, or disappears completely
• Your voice hides, your truth stays trapped
• The big trauma waves hit and you have to stop
• Desire vanishes, turn on is gone, nothing feels “worth it”

When sex becomes healing

• The bedroom transforms into your richest spiritual practice
• You are seen, you are heard, you drop fully into your wild, warm, real body
• Oxytocin flows through you like a safety balm
• Your nervous system is fed, not fried
• Speaking desires, boundaries, needs becomes your edge and your liberation
• You slow down the moment your body whispers for it
• Eye contact nourishes you instead of threatening you
• Belly soft, mind quiet, body leading

I reveal the 3 pillars of Yoni Massage that change everything:
Listening. Holding. Opening.
The holy trinity that melts the defensive walls your body never built by choice.

Inside, I break down exactly how these pillars rewire safety, awaken turn-on, and create a sexual landscape where your body finally exhales.

Want to experience my hybrid trauma-release yoni massage method at home?
Join WISE NECTAR: https://thewildfem.com/wise-nectar

Ready to learn my method + transform your clients’ lives?
DM me on Instagram for details about my new Yoni Massage Practitioner Training: https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/

With love,

Charlotte xx