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In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee gets real about Thanksgiving—and why working moms should absolutely not be hosting it right now. From hot takes on holiday hosting to hilarious mom truths about “hard pants” and kid tables, this episode is equal parts cozy and freeing.

Saidee shares why Thanksgiving is secretly the best holiday for working moms: no decor expectations, no gifts, no chaos—just food, family, and freedom from the mental load. You’ll also hear how her family’s pie-baking tradition became a cornerstone memory (and why “Turkey Creations” are on furlough).

So grab a glass of wine (or two), let go of the guilt, and join the Fraud Squad for a reminder that sometimes the best way to celebrate is to just show up and enjoy it.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 — Stop hosting Thanksgiving (seriously)
• 06:20 — Why Thanksgiving is the working mom’s secret weapon
• 14:45 — The art of bringing wine and pie (and nothing else)
• 22:10 — Low-pressure traditions that actually stick
• 31:55 — The “Turkey Creation” legend lives on
• 45:00 — Hot takes: stuffing, gravy, and double dinners
• 55:00 — A permission slip to rest this holiday

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• Pop by instagram @wholetmedothispod and tell me your biggest fraud moments or just the insanity you experience as a FT working mom

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We’re talking socks. Yep, actual socks. In this episode of Who Let Me Do This, your host Saidee Grimley (and occasional interjections from Raja, the love of her life) takes you on an unnecessarily passionate deep dive into the wild world of sock fashion trends — from 90s no-shows to college lacrosse mid-calves to the Costco Puma era that none of us escaped.

We’re unpacking why society cares so much about what’s literally between our shoes and our feet, revisiting Soffe shorts (what kind of Soffe girl were you??), and trying to understand why the ankle sock — the very one we spent decades avoiding like the plague — is suddenly the main character again.

Come for the nostalgia. Stay for the chaos. Leave questioning why you own seven types of socks.

If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going:

• Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)
• Share it with your favorite hot mess friend so they know they’re not alone 🍷
• Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕
• Pop by instagram @wholetmedothispod and tell me your biggest fraud moments or just the insanity you experience as a FT working mom

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Ever found yourself building a million-dollar deck while debating whether to make a double-stuffed Oreo at 9:30 a.m.? Welcome — you’ve officially made it to the Fraud Squad.

In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee Grimley gets real about the chaos that is imposter syndrome, career confidence, and being a working mom who somehow juggles it all (and occasionally drops a few socks… or responsibilities). It’s a love letter to every woman who’s ambitious, exhausted, and maybe a little unsure if she’s qualified — spoiler: you are.

This one’s for the overachievers, the under-slept, and the secretly crushing-it crowd. Laugh with Saidee, cringe with recognition, and remember: you can question yourself and still be killing it.

If you vibed with this episode, here’s how you can keep the chaos going:

• Hit Follow so new episodes show up without you having to remember (because who has the brain space?)
• Share it with your favorite hot mess friend so they know they’re not alone 🍷
• Leave a rating & review — it’s basically the podcast version of a compliment, and you know I live for those 💕
• Pop by instagram @wholetmedothispod and tell me your biggest fraud moments or just the insanity you experience as a FT working mom