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In this episode of Who Let Me Do This?, Saidee gets real about Thanksgiving—and why working moms should absolutely not be hosting it right now. From hot takes on holiday hosting to hilarious mom truths about “hard pants” and kid tables, this episode is equal parts cozy and freeing.

Saidee shares why Thanksgiving is secretly the best holiday for working moms: no decor expectations, no gifts, no chaos—just food, family, and freedom from the mental load. You’ll also hear how her family’s pie-baking tradition became a cornerstone memory (and why “Turkey Creations” are on furlough).

So grab a glass of wine (or two), let go of the guilt, and join the Fraud Squad for a reminder that sometimes the best way to celebrate is to just show up and enjoy it.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 — Stop hosting Thanksgiving (seriously)
• 06:20 — Why Thanksgiving is the working mom’s secret weapon
• 14:45 — The art of bringing wine and pie (and nothing else)
• 22:10 — Low-pressure traditions that actually stick
• 31:55 — The “Turkey Creation” legend lives on
• 45:00 — Hot takes: stuffing, gravy, and double dinners
• 55:00 — A permission slip to rest this holiday

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