• Coach Levi Frank (Super Billy Gilly!)| Developing Self-Belief Through Jiu-Jitsu
    Aug 7 2026

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Coach Levi Frank to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, shares updates on Submission Coffee sponsoring the Momentum Martial Arts Competition Team and the ad-free My Jiu Jitsu Journey app, then explores how martial arts transformed Levi's life. Levi explains he lacked confidence before MMA/jiu-jitsu and was influenced by watching UFC, school bullying, and a difficult relationship with his older brother. He credits Professor Darian Cobon with changing his worldview and mindset, replacing false security with confidence built from training and work, helping him calm overthinking and improve daily life. Levi argues competition is necessary because it tests training and changes people mentally regardless of outcome. He recounts a memorable amateur MMA TKO against a striker, following Darian's guidance to secure mount and finish with ground-and-pound. Levi also describes the impact of teaching kids and seeing dramatic confidence and life changes in students, and jokingly adopts the nickname "Super Billy Gilly" for his love of the guillotine.

    00:00 Welcome and Sponsors

    01:14 Life Without Martial Arts

    02:39 Bullying and Early Motivation

    04:03 Coach Darian Mindset Shift

    05:26 Confidence Beyond the Mats

    08:55 Why Competition Matters

    11:43 Most Memorable MMA Fight

    14:35 Ring vs Schoolyard Violence

    18:39 Teaching Kids and Raising Lions

    21:21 Gym Transformations and Wins

    23:54 Super Billy Gilly Name

    24:39 Closing and Next Meetup

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    26 Min.
  • Professor Kenny Kim on Martial Arts as a Calling, Resilience and Rebuilding
    Aug 4 2026

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes back Professor Kenny Kim to discuss when martial arts became a lifelong path for him, starting at age four or five and realizing by high school he wanted a future in martial arts. Kim shares how training helped him overcome racism, bullying, and childhood shyness by building confidence and a desire to lead and teach, even while competing. He describes a major period of disillusionment in his late 20s/early 30s: business stress from running an academy since age 20–21, debt around $100,000, selling his academy for $100,000 to reset, briefly pursuing home inspection and then thriving as a personal trainer before returning to open a new school in 2006. Kim credits close teammates and world champions for shaping him and emphasizes humility, aging as a privilege, and giving back. He also previews Mat Made's expansion: matmade.com now hosts short stories and a large U.S. jiu-jitsu directory with 7,000+ listings and a rebooted, raw vlog-style academy-visit series.

    00:00 Welcome and Sponsors

    00:58 Kenny Kim Returns

    01:48 Martial Arts Beginnings

    03:47 Confidence Through Training

    06:01 Competitor to Teacher

    07:53 Burnout and Debt Spiral

    11:39 Starting Over in 2006

    14:53 Hustle and Self Learning

    16:51 Brothers and Mentors

    18:57 Legacy Humility Giving Back

    21:52 Mat Made Directory Expansion

    23:37 New Raw Vlog Series

    25:14 Closing Thanks and Farewell

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    27 Min.
  • Damien Blotzke on Martial Arts: Life Pivots, Competitions, and Self-Mastery
    Jul 24 2026

    Damien Blotzke on Martial Arts as a Life Pivot, Competition, and Self-Mastery

    Host Pete Deeley opens by promoting the Momentum Martial Arts competition team, joking about "submission coffee" as a performance enhancer, and announcing the ad-free My Jiu-Jitsu Journey app with a small monthly fee. He then interviews fighter Damien Blotzke, who says martial arts shaped his identity and gave him tools for learning, problem-solving, listening, and self-control. Blotzke describes being adopted by his brother Darian and moving to Nevada on short notice as a pivotal fork in the road that placed him in a strong learning environment and allowed him to pursue fighting. He cites Miyamoto Musashi's Book of Five Rings and discusses competition as mental, spiritual, and physical, emphasizing breathwork to quiet his inner critic and fight camp as preparation. He recounts memorable bouts, including his first amateur loss at 16, later success, and a five-round fight where he dominated. Deeley shares his own early competition experience and they discuss Momentum's supportive culture. Blotzke suggests the superhero name "Spike Elbow" and shares social links: dthekidmma and Momentum Martial Arts.

    00:00 Welcome and Sponsors

    01:24 Meet Damien Blotzke

    02:18 Adoption and New Start

    07:34 When Martial Arts Clicked

    10:49 Musashi and Life Lessons

    13:08 Competition and Inner Voice

    16:56 Most Memorable Fights

    20:17 Host Competition Story

    24:21 Momentum Community Impact

    27:43 Spike Elbow Superhero

    28:52 Where to Follow Damien

    29:26 Final Thanks and Wrap Up

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    31 Min.
  • The Might Mocifer! | Professor Mo Gobena on Fear, Community, and Competing: Jiu-Jitsu, MMA, and Life
    Jul 19 2026

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Mo Gobena to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, mentions sponsorship of Momentum Martial Arts Competition Team, Subscription Coffee, and the My Jiu-Jitsu Journey app. Mo shares how martial arts evolved for him from overcoming fear as a kid in dangerous 1990s Las Vegas after his family migrated from Africa, to athletics, and now community at age 40. He describes a formative lesson from hearing the John Diggins "circus bear jiu-jitsu" story about experimenting without fear of losing, and how that mindset shaped his approach beyond wrestling and boxing. Mo argues most practitioners should compete at least once or twice for stress inoculation and self-defense readiness, and recounts memorable MMA fights, including taking a last-minute heavier opponent and winning by TKO. He explains how competing helps coaches empathize with students, and highlights watching Damien, Coach Darian's brother, fall in love with jiu-jitsu. Mo also shares his nickname "Mighty Mocifer," his stand-up comedy hobby, and upcoming shows including the Savage Henry Comedy Festival.

    00:00 Welcome and Sponsors

    01:25 Meet Professor Mo

    02:14 Martial Arts and Fear

    05:00 Growing Up in Vegas

    07:37 Learning to Experiment

    11:39 Journey Over Belts

    14:55 Why Compete

    18:45 First MMA Fight Story

    24:37 Coaching Through Competition

    27:24 Student Success Damien

    32:13 Mocifer Nickname

    35:08 Comedy and Closing

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    39 Min.
  • La Cazadora (The Huntress): Cassidy Roblero's Martial Arts Journey
    Jul 12 2026

    Cassidy Roblero ("La Cazadora") on Martial Arts as an Outlet, Competition Mindset, and Building Confidence

    On this episode of The Jiu Jitsu Mindset, the host shares updates on the My Jiu Jitsu Journey app (a zero-advertising, subscription-based jujitsu-only platform) and Submission Coffee sponsoring the Momentum Martial Arts Competition Team, then interviews Momentum athlete and coach Cassidy Roblero. Cassidy describes starting boxing at 14 and MMA/jujitsu/Muay Thai at 15 during a personal crisis, crediting martial arts with providing a healthy outlet, structure, community, and inner calm. She discusses mentorship from Coach Darian and how martial arts principles apply to life, reflects on women's growing opportunities in combat sports, and explains how competition tests skills and mindset under pressure. Cassidy recounts pivotal experiences from her first jujitsu competition and first MMA fight, emphasizing self-belief, resilience, honesty, and adapting technique for safety, and highlights the confidence gains she sees in kids who train. She shares her fight name, La Cazadora ("The Huntress"), where to follow her (Cass on the Mats), and notes she's rehabbing a neck/shoulder with hopes to fight in September or October.

    00:00 Welcome and Updates

    01:46 Meet Cassidy Roblero

    02:40 Martial Arts Saved Me

    04:09 Crisis to Calm

    07:08 Coaches and Life Lessons

    09:24 Women in Combat Sports

    13:27 Why Compete

    18:07 First MMA Fight Mindset

    22:05 Confidence and Resilience

    27:53 Kids Program Transformations

    33:21 The Huntress Identity

    34:11 Follow and Next Fight

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    37 Min.
  • Jiu Jitsu as a Life Pivot: Humility and Persistence | The Splendid Savage Professor Carlos Reyes
    Jul 7 2026

    Professor Carlos Reyes (Splendid Savage) on Jiu-Jitsu, Humility, Self-Defense, and Life Change

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Carlos Reyes ("Splendid Savage") to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, promotes the My Jiu-Jitsu Journey social app and Submission coffee, and discusses how jiu-jitsu redirected Reyes' life away from trouble associated with his band years, alongside faith. Reyes describes being drawn in through punishing early experiences, including being repeatedly submitted by a much smaller blue belt, which taught humility and openness to learning. He recounts a DUI and time in jail that prompted a commitment to jiu-jitsu, and how competition can inoculate practitioners against stress, though it should not be forced. Reyes contrasts sport-focused training with self-defense principles, emphasizing "DNA" concepts like base, connection, leverage, and weight distribution. He shares a student's transformation—losing 70 pounds and gaining confidence—illustrating jiu-jitsu's off-mat impact, and closes with where to find him online.

    00:00 Welcome and Announcements

    01:42 Life Without Jiu Jitsu

    04:31 First Roll Reality Check

    06:58 Humility and Honest Growth

    12:13 Jail Wake Up Call

    15:37 Habits and Incremental Change

    17:30 Why Compete at All

    20:27 Competition as Stress Training

    26:16 Most Memorable Rolls

    29:10 Self Defense Awakening

    30:40 Sport Gym Shark Tank

    31:53 Choosing the Right Gym

    37:36 Principles Over Moves

    39:48 Embracing Failure and Time

    43:47 Student Transformation Story

    49:26 Virtuous Cycles and Lifestyle

    51:21 Splendid Savage Identity

    52:44 Wrap Up and Where to Find

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    55 Min.
  • Sensei George Rego on the Martial Arts Mindset: Be Difficult to Harm but Easy to Respect
    Jun 23 2026

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes listeners back to The Jiu-Jitsu Mindset, promotes subscription coffee and announces the new app "My Jiu-Jitsu Journey," then interviews Sensei George Rego about his lifelong martial arts path. Rego describes walking into an old, gritty dojo as a child and feeling instantly "at home," drawn to the combination of real physical capability and character, honor, and discipline—echoing Miyamoto Musashi's "twofold way" of sword and pen. He discusses the unique trust of training, the deep teacher-student bond, and the grief of losing his sensei. Rego shares lessons on discipline becoming self-discipline, navigating students who disappear, and his motivation for writing "The Founding of Jujutsu and Judo in America," including Teddy Roosevelt's ju jitsu connections. He concludes that a strong martial artist should be difficult to harm but easy to respect.

    00:00 Welcome and Updates

    01:05 Meet Sensei George Rego

    02:01 Why Martial Arts

    03:25 First Dojo Awakening

    05:54 Quiet Strength Ideal

    09:14 Twofold Way Mindset

    13:21 Loss of a Sensei

    15:02 Teacher Student Bond

    19:08 Trust and Time on Mat

    22:18 Students Who Disappear

    23:44 Refocus on Students

    25:07 Sensei Beyond Fighting

    27:13 Systems and Discipline

    29:14 Gravitas of a Master

    31:05 Why Write the Book

    33:53 Research and Roosevelt Dojo

    35:05 Preserving Hidden Lineages

    36:22 Where to Find the Book

    36:57 Audiobook and Bestseller Run

    38:33 Hard to Harm Easy Respect

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    43 Min.
  • Flow and Feel: Jiu-Jitsu Wisdom with Professor Darien Cobon
    Jun 13 2026

    Host Pete Deeley welcomes Professor Darien to discuss how lessons from jiu-jitsu transfer to life and how first principles, efficiency, and environment shape learning. Professor Darien emphasizes concepts over flashy techniques, urging beginners to build fundamentals like posture, base, weight distribution, and inside position so submissions become reliable and safer. They compare learning to surfing and chess, highlighting "time on the board," pattern recognition, and applying knowledge through feel rather than memory or forcing outcomes. The conversation explores mindset as staying connected to yourself, observing thoughts, avoiding reactive "shootouts," and seeking truth even when it means admitting you've lost a position. Darien shares experiences training with Howder and an unforgettable hour-long roll with Rickson Gracie, plus how adopting his younger brother helped transform his life into a fight-team leader and UFC Fight Pass competitor.

    00:00 Welcome

    01:12 Why Jiu Jitsu Transfers

    02:50 Teaching Evidence First

    03:59 Concepts Before Techniques

    06:51 Building Safe Training Culture

    08:52 Feel Versus Know

    10:21 Fight Your Fight Principles

    13:08 Mindset and Self Awareness

    15:58 Mind as Radio Frequency

    17:18 Teaching Inspiration and Metaphors

    19:17 Coaching Focus Structure Weight

    20:38 Educated Instincts

    21:21 Invisible Jujitsu

    23:25 Overthink Good Outcomes

    25:34 Chess Like Calmness

    28:53 Composure Under Pressure

    30:51 Most Memorable Roll

    35:26 Students Changed Lives

    38:00 Calculated Nickname

    38:45 Closing Thanks

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    41 Min.