This episode is a little different. No guest. No perfectly mapped-out lesson. Just me — showing up in the middle of a quiet, in-between season.

You know those times when the words don’t come? When everything feels a little slower, a little foggier… and you’re not quite sure what’s next, but you know you’re not where you used to be? That’s where I’ve been.

Today, I’m inviting you into the pause. The space between clarity and action. The soft unraveling that happens when you finally let your nervous system breathe. This isn’t an episode with big “aha” moments — it’s one that meets you exactly where you are, especially if you’ve been craving permission to slow down, feel more, and do a little less.

If you’re in a season of reflection, reset, or just needing a little more quiet in a loud world — you are not alone.

(01:33) - Reflections on a Week of Uncertainty (02:51) - The In-Between Season (03:53) - There Is Power in Not Knowing Yet (05:00) - Embracing the Stillness (05:36) - Finding Clarity and Wisdom in Waiting

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In this episode, Monique Schafer welcomes powerhouse executive Katie Kruger for a raw, riveting, and deeply relatable conversation on transformation, grit, and redefining what success looks like.

Raised in rural Alaska, dreaming of skyscrapers while hauling firewood and joining an exclusive male workforce in the oil fields, Katie now leads in the C-suite of a $35B company and has become a sought-after policy influencer and mentor. Her story is a masterclass in reinvention — not the loud, flashy kind, but the kind that happens when no one is watching, when you say “yes” to growth, over and over again, even when it’s hard.

She shares what it was like being one of the only women in the oil fields, how she taught herself policy in a coffee shop, and why her version of success has nothing to do with titles — and everything to do with relationships, service, and staying grounded.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a version of yourself that no longer fits, if you think you’re too late to pivot, or that your past defines your ceiling, you need to hear this one.

(08:38) - Katie’s Early Years in Rural Alaska (10:46) - Incremental Transformation (11:11) - Strategic Career Pivots: Katie’s Journey to Becoming a Policy Expert (12:27) - Katie’s Rigorous Self-Study Routine (15:55) - The Power of Building Relationships and Adding Value to Others (27:09) - The ROI of Giving Without Expecting (35:57) - Balancing Work and Personal Life, Especially for Working Parents (40:56) - The Importance of Taking Risks and Being Curious in Personal & Professional Growth (41:25) - The Role of Policy in Supporting Working Parents (43:48) - Believing You Can Become Something New

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In this heartwarming episode, Monique reconnects with her college roommate and lifelong friend, Kelsey Murray, a former ad agency director with a deep background in marketing and digital strategy. After more than a decade climbing the corporate ladder, she made the bold decision to step away in pursuit of motherhood and a more intentional way of living.

Her career journey has included becoming a stay-at-home mom, launching a photography business, consulting as a fractional CMO, and ultimately stepping into franchise ownership. Each pivot was less about chasing titles and more about rediscovering what truly lights her up.

Together, Monique and Kelsey explore how ambition can evolve, how motherhood can feel both sacred and stiffling, and how we can integrate every season of our lives into a more whole version of who we are becoming. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a season that was supposed to fulfill you or if you’re currently navigating a pivot, this episode will remind you that it’s not too late to begin again. Let’s dive in!

((05:19) - Kelsey’s Unexpected Pivot (07:00) - Motherhood and the Guilt That No One Talks About (10:20) - Finding Community and the Power of Shared Experiences (13:04) - The Season of Self-Discovery (21:33) - Beyond the Resume: Redefining Your Personal Brand (22:43) - Legacy, Family, and the Story Behind Kelley Blue Book (29:19) - Releasing the Need for Perfection and External Validation (32:45) - The Importance of Staying Open to What’s Next (34:14) - God Whispers and Soul Alignment

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In this insightful episode, Monique expands on one of the key themes from Episode 15, Foundation Not Fumes, diving deeper into the nuanced and often misunderstood topic of overwhelm. More importantly, the critical difference between legitimate temporary overwhelm and lifestyle overwhelm.

Drawing inspiration from Mel Robbins and her own lived experience as a parent and a business leader, Monique provides listeners clear, actionable strategies for regaining clarity, presence, and momentum in both life and business.

Whether you’re managing a business, a household, or both, this episode offers practical, compassionate guidance for reclaiming mental clarity and capacity amidst chaos. Let’s dive in!

(01:15) - The Inspiration Behind This Impromptu Mini-Episode (02:40) - Legit Temporary Overwhelm (04:14) - Lifestyle Overwhelm (05:55) - Reclaiming Clarity: The Power of a Brain Dump (07:03) - Identifying Your Top 3 Priorities (08:21) - Making It Easy to Begin and Giving Yourself Grace

• Mel Robbins Podcast | https://www.melrobbins.com/episode/episode-50/
• The Great Life Experiment Podcast Ep. 15 | https://youtu.be/bKrc0VXcJiI?si=CmdZ7nimtaqInfuI

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In this episode, Monique Schafer sits down with Michele Ashby, a trailblazing executive, board director, and founder of ACE LLC. With over three decades of experience in finance and capital markets, and eight board seats under her belt, Michelle is on a mission to train 1,000 women to step into corporate boardrooms with confidence, clarity, and impact.

Together, Monique and Michelle dive into the real path to board leadership — from mastering governance and financial acumen to navigating the unspoken dynamics of the good old boys’ network. They also explore the mindset shifts women need to own their value, silence imposter syndrome, and speak the executive vernacular that commands a room.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is this all there is?” or “Could I be doing more?”, this episode is your blueprint for what’s next. Whether you’re an experienced executive, a rising leader, or simply curious about how women can shape the future of corporate governance, this conversation will challenge and equip you to lead at the highest level and claim the seat that’s already waiting for you.

(05:37) - Michelle’s Journey to the Boardroom (08:58) - The Importance of a Unique Value Proposition (10:13) - The Power of Relationships (14:12) - How Visibility Builds Momentum (17:22) - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome (21:41) - Beyond Tactical: How Michele’s Program Transforms Identity (24:27) - The Future of Women in the Boardroom (27:23) - Understanding the Transfer of Wealth (34:28) - Core Competencies: What Makes You Board-Ready? (40:33) - The Role of Men in Supporting Women (48:47) - Final Takeaways

• Michele’s Talk at Oxford | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mgdh83r5IZM
• Board-Ready Bundle | https://www.acellc.consulting/board-ready-bundle

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If you’ve ever found yourself crying in your car, wondering how the heck you’re supposed to “have it all” when you can barely keep it together… this episode is going to land deep.

I sat down with two women I deeply respect, Crystal Rose Harvey and Danielle Deanna, for our first-ever fireside chat. All three of us are women in the thick of it — raising kids, running a business, holding marriages together, and trying not to lose ourselves in the process.

This is a conversation about building a life with roots, where your business, family, and your identity don’t pull you in different directions but actually support each other. It’s raw, it’s encouraging, and filled with practical wisdom for when you’re burnt out and don’t even know where to begin. We cried, we laughed, and we got really honest about the things we wish someone had told us sooner. So if you’re in a season where everything feels like a lot, this one's for you.

(01:56) - Meet Crystal and Danielle (06:15) - How Motherhood Revealed the Cracks (10:44) - Embracing Family Life with Intentionality and Grace (17:33) - Burnout: The Cost of Building Without A Solid Foundation (19:18) - Why You Need to Prioritize Your Marriage Above All Else (23:43) - The Be-Do-Have Framework (26:46) - Why Awareness Is Key (29:02) - Overwhelm Is A Choice (43:03) - Relationship Killers and How to Stop Them Before It’s Too Late (58:47) - Productivity and Automation Tips and Tools

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• The Home on the Rock | https://www.instagram.com/thehomeontherock/

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What happens when two driven, high-achieving people fall in love and try to do life — careers, kids, dreams — together? You get high-powered love, with all the magic and the mess that comes with it.

In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant and deeply grounded Heather Clark, a licensed therapist and expert trained in trauma reprocessing and EDMR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). She works specifically with high-performing couples who are navigating success, stress, and the sacredness of their relationships. Think of powerhouses who are crushing it at work but are feeling disconnected at home! Heather is the creator of the upcoming High-Powered Love Method, and she’s here to drop some real talk and proven tools to stop putting your relationship on the back burner and actually grow deeper, stronger, and more in sync as life gets fuller.

Whether you’re running a business, climbing the corporate ladder, raising babies, or all of the above, this episode will hit home, so let’s dive in!

(02:49) - What Is EDMR (and why is it magical)? (05:22) - The Unique Struggles of High-Performance Couples (06:40) - My Love Story: What Ben and I Learned About Keeping Our Relationship Stronger (10:25) - Rituals That Root You Back to Each Other (14:37) - Planning vs Presence: How to Balance It All (18:36) - Creative Staycation & Vacation Hacks (Even with Little Kids) (25:13) - Teamwork Makes the Dream (and Marriage) Work (26:21) - Who Are You Sharing Your Wins With? (30:05) - Why “We’re Fine” Is the Scariest Thing You Can Say (32:47) - Change Can Start With One

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Picture this: It’s late. The day’s been a lot, and we’re in post-bedtime haze when big thoughts come out. The ones when something from work is still swirling in your head, and you just need to say it out loud to someone who gets it.

That’s exactly where this episode begins.

In this episode, you’ll hear a real-time conversation between me and my husband, Ben, as we talk through a super common leadership challenge — what to do when you’re already maxed out and someone adds another priority to your plate? How do you respond when everything is “important”, nothing can wait, and no one wants to make the tough call?

This episode is real and raw! And it’s for anyone who’s been caught between expectations and capacity. We’re talking strategy, self-advocacy, and what it really looks like to lead when no one else is drawing the line. Let’s dive in!

(02:13) - Picturing Ben’s Week: Full Plates, Restructures, and Big Deliverables (06:50) - How to Ask Leadership to Prioritize When Everything Feels “Top Priority” (10:27) - Visual Prioritization Framework (14:58) - Weighing the Real Cost of A Task (21:17) - Our Careers Are A Marathon, Not A Sprint (27:20) - The Reality of A Pushback

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