• What Happened in Cornell: Patriarchy, Exemplified
    Oct 16 2026

    Are we mean? Not mean enough. Rape has become extra legal and we are PISSED and deeply troubled. Join us to talk about the incentive structures that perpetuate systematic, institutionalized violence against women and their bodies.

    BTW we are back from a weird post-summer partial hiatus. Happy to be with you queens. Scrotes don't know even 1 rapist.

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    48 Min.
  • Listener Guest Raina: Against Chill, For Vulnerability
    Oct 3 2026

    FDS queens are not chill. Patricia is joined by our listener Raina to bury the idea of being "pathetic", center our desires and hold tight to our standards. Its pretty feel-good.

    Wanna co-host with us? Email us at contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

    Love you queens

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    51 Min.
  • Sarah Says
    Sep 19 2026

    Guest host Sarah joins Rose in a freewheeling discussion about alllllll the ways women are told to shrink, dismiss, and ignore how patriarchy instructs us to settle and date down.

    Affirmative action for men in real time - Sarah and Rose tick through the boxes they've broken out of and how they orient themselves to successfully value themselves in the dating realm.

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    57 Min.
  • Summerhouse & Ciara Miller: an FDS primer
    Sep 4 2026

    Guest host Anne-Sophie joins Rose to discuss the lessons learned from the reality tv show Summerhouse and Ciara Miller: how her charisma elevated her platform on the series, and how FDS queens might learn from her journey navigating dating, friendship, and racial/class differences as a reality tv star.

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    1 Std. und 1 Min.
  • No Matter What, People Will Always Have an Opinion
    Aug 16 2026

    Patricia brings another fascinating topic to the table as the Queens return from summer break to resume FDS talk time! In this episode, we delve into self/identity as a woman and human being, and how we fully embody our selves in the face of non-stop criticism and ceaseless attention.

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    44 Min.
  • Summer Break
    Jul 11 2026

    Rose checks in with an update: summer break is in session! Patricia and Rose will be back in August with new episodes and guest hosts! Stay tuned!

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    1 Min.
  • The Secret Palermo Bodega
    Jun 26 2026

    Patricia shares a useful metaphor to an open heart, but only partially open. That is until a visitor earns access to the full treasures of the secret bodega. No scrotes allowed.

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    1 Std. und 1 Min.
  • A Pocket Full of Maybes
    Jun 13 2026

    Why online dating is weird, and why the same strategies apply

    What does it mean to be a woman - an FDS queen - in the era of the internet? How do we date and approach online dating as a strategy? What approaches do we take and what are the means by which we vet and protect ourselves? Patricia and Rose host a freewheeling discussion of life, love, and FDS tactics online and on the ground!

    Are you interested in participating in a documentary series about being a woman in the world of the internet? Please reach out with an email to us and we will forward it along to the documentary crew!

    contact@thefemaledatingstrategy.com

    Also email if you want a PDF of the FDS Handbook!

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    1 Std. und 6 Min.