• Finding Yourself Through Comedy and Therapy feat. Chanel
    Jul 14 2026

    True self-improvement can be about building a solid foundation under the person you've always been.

    Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/m7NQG4MTM9A

    Welcome my guest Chanel, co-host of the We Was Watching podcast. We engage in dialogue detailing Chanel's path to finding herself, navigating the staggered dynamics of her childhood, and learning the vital role that therapy plays in unlearning self-blame. We explore the nuances of self-acceptance, identity as a Black woman in creative spaces, and what it truly means to step out from behind the mask to live an authentic, joy-filled lifestyle.

    We often look at self-improvement as a rigid checklist, but the real work is learning to integrate our past experiences with grace while giving ourselves the freedom to be beautifully non-traditional.

    If you've ever struggled with anxiety over the future or felt misunderstood in your personal circle, this episode provides the validation and comfort you need to keep moving forward.

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    New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    57 Min.
  • Season 4 Premiere: How to Focus on What You Can Control
    Jul 7 2026

    Are you feeling stuck in the same repetitive loops, wondering how to finally break the cycle? Welcome to the Season four premiere of the Me in the Making podcast, a personal growth podcast that dives deep into introspection, mindfulness, and intentional living.

    I get into thinking about ways to shift your mindset away from anxieties and back toward what you can actually control. I also share about how I'm inviting more interpersonal interactions within my life as I combat the subtle and not-so-subtle ways AI is being forced upon us.

    Tune in to learn how to ask yourself the right questions, step out of your comfort zone, and actively show up for your own self-improvement journey.

    I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/k2bDfqp5Kgs

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    13 Min.
  • BONUS - Skincare & Yap Session
    Apr 7 2026

    We're still on a break but I woke up inspired to have a little yap session with you all because I miss you! I've recently gotten some skincare birthday gifts and purchases and I wanted to talk about them with y'all.

    Watch the youtube video here - https://youtu.be/uGLjpkKr_T8

    I've also been thinking about this insane mess this administration has gotten everyone into and the terrifying things he'd been saying and doing. I don't have the expertise to talk too in depth about it, but I felt like I had to say something. I have been listening to these podcasts for more perspective and I encourage you to take a listen:

    • Bad Faith - https://open.spotify.com/show/0ChLoSMrOmXABeIYcwXcDP
    • Useful Idiots - https://open.spotify.com/show/5BpYXlVorOw5FZ9pfpu7ff
    • The Dugout - https://open.spotify.com/show/15CpGdYF2IyVBHe3GCt2Lc
    • Higher Learning - https://open.spotify.com/show/4hI3rQ4C0e15rP3YKLKPut

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    23 Min.
  • BONUS - My book is now available!
    Feb 10 2026

    WHEN THE LIGHTS COME UP by Melissa L. Clay - Now available here!

    You can watch this episode on Youtube.

    Some themes this story explores are finally asking the questions to start finding yourself, friendship, dating, and navigating church hurt. There's more and this is just the beginning of the main character Jackie's journey!

    I would love it if you buy my book to share in the experience I created. Support Black authors always and especially during Black History Month.

    Short story synopsis -

    Jackie has always done everything right. She followed the rules, served at church, kept her promises, and waited for the love story she was told would come. But now, in her thirties, living in Chicago with a job she tolerates and a faith that's starting to unravel, she can't help wondering what doing everything "right" has really gotten her. Follow along as Jackie begins a journey inward. With her outspoken best friend Gloria by her side, she starts asking the questions that good girls aren't supposed to ask. Told with humor, honesty, and heart, When The Lights Come Up follows Jackie as she learns to face herself in the mirror, challenge the beliefs that once defined her, and step into a life that feels like her own.

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    9 Min.
  • SEASON 3 FINALE Keep Moving Forward - feat. Pablo
    Dec 30 2025

    Joining me today is my guest Pablo from Sarcarragance Media Group! We met at the Afros & Audio podcast festival and I knew I had to have him on my show. Come be encouraged as Pablo talks about how he got started in podcasting, his childhood, and stick around for his final piece advice to "Smile, keep moving forward, and you can do it!"

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    • https://www.instagram.com/sarcarrogance
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    • https://www.sarcarrogance.com/
    • Sarcarrogance@gmail.com

    I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/N_8PhIy7o08

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    51 Min.
  • Content and Confident - feat. Arie Iman
    Dec 23 2025

    Welcome to the season three's first guest episode with The Arie Iman! Join us as we talk about becoming more secure, content, and confident, we get into the importance of asking for help, and we have many laughs along the way!

    Follow Arie on IG - https://www.instagram.com/thearieiman/

    I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this guest episode here - https://youtu.be/Mmo7a6CF4S0

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    58 Min.
  • BOOK CORNER - part 2
    Dec 16 2025

    I'm back for another BOOK CORNER! I've been reading more than I typically read so I want to share some books I've been enjoying. This will be a bi-monthly series! Check back for future recommendations.

    I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/Tzu4hupyB5I

    POD CORNER - Podcast Recommendation - Leaving the Theater https://www.ohitsbigronstudios.com/leaving-the-theater

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    19 Min.
  • Single Women Dating Intentionally
    Dec 9 2025

    Dating can be tough out in these streets and the way I've been coping lately is to control what I can control, meaning that I can only control myself and how I show up. My therapist recommended group therapy with other single women who are dating intentionally, and I talk about my experience here! What's something in your life where you're showing up intentionally?

    I'll be dropping solo episodes, as well as episodes with guests, via audio and video! Watch this episode here - https://youtu.be/vGDQjtqGJZc

    POD CORNER: Podcast Recommendation - Bad Faith -https://www.youtube.com/@BadFaithPodcast

    If you're new here, check out seasons 1 and 2 in this feed. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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    27 Min.