In this installment of Love Conquers, Matt and Kaz continue their deep dive into neurodivergent life and love with another episode of Talking Tisms. This time, they take the gloves off to confront the often invisible weight of external judgment—how it shapes the way neurodivergent individuals see themselves, how it infiltrates our relationships, and how it can chip away at even the strongest bonds between spouses and partners.

They unpack everything from the side-eyes at family gatherings to the systemic erasure in clinical spaces—and they do it with their trademark blend of honesty, empathy, and zero BS. Whether you’re ND, NT, partnered, solo, or somewhere in the sensory storm, this episode will resonate. Because love might conquer all, but society’s not always on board with the game plan.

This week on Love Conquers, Matt and Kaz dive into the wild, wonderful, and occasionally WTF world of traveling as a neurodiverse family. What starts as a suitcase and a dream can quickly spiral into sensory chaos, emotional turbulence, and GPS-fueled meltdowns—but somehow, love holds the itinerary together.

From navigating international airports with ADHD brain fog, to decoding hotel breakfast buffets with autistic kids in tow, they share unfiltered stories of trial, error, and unexpected magic. Expect raw honesty, laughter-through-tears moments, and practical tips for staying connected when every part of the journey tries to pull you apart.

Whether you’re neurodivergent, parenting neurodivergent kids, or just trying to make it through passport control without losing your sanity or your partner—this episode offers a road map to resilience, love, and low-stim travel hacks.

In this episode of Love Conquers, Kaz and Matt pull no punches as they dive into the essential—yet often overlooked—topic of advocacy and self-advocacy within the neurodiverse community, especially in the context of relationships.

What does it really mean to advocate for yourself when your brain is wired differently? How do you set boundaries, express needs, or ask for accommodations in a world—and sometimes a relationship—that doesn’t always “get it”? With humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom, Matt and Kaz unpack the dynamics of neurodivergent communication, miscommunication, and the power of having your voice heard.

This episode isn’t just a conversation—it’s a blueprint. It explores the roles that both partners play in building a relationship rooted in understanding, support, and mutual respect. Whether you're neurodivergent, in a relationship with someone who is, or simply looking to level up your empathy game, this one’s for you.

In Episode 76 of Love Conquers, hosts Kaz and Matt Page engage in a heartfelt conversation with esteemed clinical psychologist and personal friend, Nicole (Nic) Ennis-Oakes. As the founder of the Centre for Neurodiversity, established in 2019, Nic brings a wealth of experience in supporting neurodivergent individuals—including those with autism, ADHD, and related conditions—in leading fulfilling lives within a predominantly neurotypical society.

Since its inception, the Centre has been dedicated to providing personalised guidance that assists neurodivergent individuals and their families in adapting to their specific life circumstances or initiating beneficial changes. The Centre's neurodiversity-affirming practices focus on celebrating neurological diversity as natural variations, rather than labeling neurodivergent traits as disorders or deficits.

In this episode, Nic shares insights into the Centre's holistic approach, which includes diagnosis, intervention, and skill optimisation for children, adolescents, and adults with higher-functioning autism spectrum conditions. The discussion also delves into the Centre's efforts in offering bespoke professional training programs for paediatricians, psychiatrists, educators, and allied health professionals, enhancing their ability to support neurodivergent individuals effectively.

Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals and the importance of creating inclusive environments that recognise and celebrate neurological diversity.

In this episode of Love Conquers, we dive deep into the wonderfully weird world of hyperfocus and special interests—those intense passions that can either bond couples like superglue or drive them quietly insane. Joining us is Nicole Ennis-Oakes, neurodiversity whisperer and principal psychologist at the Centre for Neurodiversity, who helps us unravel why your partner’s obsession with vintage trains or obscure anime might be more than just a quirk.

We’ll explore how these deep interests function for neurodivergent individuals, the challenges and joys they bring into relationships, and how to navigate those “I love you but if you mention that one topic again I swear…” moments. Whether you're the hyperfixator or the bemused partner, this episode offers real strategies, heartfelt stories, and the occasional laugh to help couples build connection through curiosity—not just compatibility.

In this raw and relatable episode of Love Conquers, Kaz and Matt pull back the curtain on the beautifully chaotic reality of parenting as a neurodiverse couple. With five daughters, two very different brains, and more than a few calendar mishaps, they're no strangers to the wild rollercoaster that is neurodivergent family life.

From ADHD-fueled forgetfulness ("Wait... it’s our turn to bring snacks?!") to the sensory overload of school events that feel more like mini music festivals, Kaz and Matt share the honest, unfiltered moments that make up their day-to-day. But it’s not all chaos—there’s also laughter, growth, and unexpected wins.

They dive into how their differences sometimes collide—but more often, complement each other. Kaz leans into structure and routine to keep things steady, while Matt brings in last-minute brilliance and creative problem-solving that has saved the day more than once. Together, they show that parenting with neurodivergence isn’t about doing it perfectly—it’s about doing it authentically.

This episode is for every parent doing their best with a brain that doesn’t always cooperate. Whether you're winning the parenting game or hiding in the laundry room for five quiet minutes, this one’s for you.

🧠 Topics Include:

• Executive dysfunction and the school schedule

• Sensory overload and overstimulation in parenting

• Tag-teaming and understanding your limits

• Celebrating small wins in the middle of the mess

• Teaching kids about neurodiversity with love and honesty

👂 Listen If:

• You’re parenting with a neurodivergent brain (or co-parenting with one)

• You’ve ever cried in your car while holding a forgotten permission slip

• You want practical tools and emotional validation

• You believe love, honesty, and humor are parenting superpowers

In this episode of Love Conquers, Kaz and Matt dive deep into one of the trickiest, yet most important, skills in any relationship: handling conflict—especially when neurodiversity is part of the dynamic.

When one or both partners are neurodivergent, misunderstandings can pop up faster than you can say "what did you mean by that?" Different processing speeds, communication styles, emotional regulation challenges, and sensory overload can turn a simple disagreement into a full-blown storm if left unchecked.

Kaz and Matt share their own experiences from nearly 30 years together, pulling back the curtain on how autism, ADHD, anxiety, and other neurodiverse traits can impact conflict—and, more importantly, how they learned to navigate it without burning everything to the ground.

From the importance of cool-down periods and clarity over assumption, to building scripts and systems that keep emotions from running wild, this episode is packed with practical tools, honest reflections, and a whole lot of “we learned the hard way” wisdom.

Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, love someone who is, or just want better strategies for handling conflict with more grace (and less accidental emotional warfare), this conversation offers hope, humor, and hard-won lessons.

Topics Include:

• Why standard conflict advice doesn’t always fit neurodiverse couples

• Emotional regulation: how to recognize the "flood zone" before it hits

• Practical scripts and boundaries that actually work

• Repairing after ruptures (because perfection isn't the goal—connection is)

• How fighting fair can actually deepen trust and intimacy

Conflict is inevitable. Rupture is inevitable. But so is repair—when you have the tools, the compassion, and the commitment to choose each other over and over again.

Tune in for a raw, real, and (as always) slightly chaotic conversation about fighting with love, and loving through the fight.

In this episode of Love Conquers, Kaz and Matt dive deep into the beautiful, messy world of navigating social events, family gatherings, and friendship dynamics—when one or both partners are neurodivergent.

From crowded parties that feel like sensory warzones to those awkward "Why aren't you more social?" moments, they unpack how differing social needs and expectations can collide in external environments. Kaz opens up about how overstimulation, small talk, and group dynamics can feel overwhelming, while Matt shares his perspective on learning to adapt without sacrificing his own needs.

Together, they explore how communication, boundaries, and tag-team strategies have helped them show up authentically without burning out—or burning bridges.

Whether you're the life of the party or the one hiding in the laundry with the cat (no judgment), this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating relationships where social batteries drain at very different speeds.

• Topics Include: Recognising and honouring individual social limits
• Tag-teaming and pre-planning for events Managing judgment from others (and ourselves)
• Advocating for your needs without guilt
• Learning when to stay, when to go, and when to say "Nope."

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