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  • Parenting Without Guilt: How to Reconnect with Your Kids (at Any Age) with Jennifer Kolari
    Aug 11 2025
    Parenting Without Guilt: How to Reconnect with Your Kids (at Any Age) with Jennifer Kolari "I want to be more present with my kids, but work always pulls me away." Are you a strong leader at work but feel like you're failing at home? You want to be more present with your kids, but they shut down when you try to talk, and you don't know how to fix it. Are you doing everything you can, but it still doesn’t feel like enough? Licensed child and family therapist Jennifer Kolari understands this struggle first-hand. As founder of Connected Parenting, she's discovered that deep emotional connection, not control, is the key to raising resilient children. What she teaches might surprise you: the very moments when things are the most difficult are actually your greatest opportunities to build resilience and trust. Your Child's Brain Is Under Construction Worried you’re screwing up your child without realizing it? This thought often stems from a misunderstanding about how children's brains work. Jennifer explains that children don't have fully functioning frontal lobes until around age 25. So you're not just a parent. You're a "substitute frontal lobe." When your child melts down, it's not defiance—it's neurobiology. Connection Is Medicine Jennifer's CALM technique triggers oxytocin release—the "love drug" that speeds learning, strengthens immunity, blocks stress hormones, and builds resilience. The best part? You get these benefits too. It's Never Too Late Whether your child is 5 or 25, it's never too late. Connection can transform any relationship, starting with small moments. Episode Highlights Understanding Your Child: [3:51] - Jennifer's origin story with traumatized children [19:47] - How oxytocin rewires your child's brain [22:57] - Why you're a "substitute frontal lobe" The CALM Technique: [27:50] - You can't regulate your child if you're not regulated [31:11] - Four steps of connecting before correcting [32:25] - Affect matching without escalating Real-World Application: [39:49] - CALM technique examples in action [42:51] - Using self-compassion when you mess up Powerful Quotes "Our children are our greatest teachers. Every emotional trigger, every piece of conditioning, all of the things that we did not resolve in our childhood will show up with our children." —Blake Schofield "Children are not mini-adults. Their brains are under construction. You are a substitute frontal lobe." —Jennifer Kolari Resources Mentioned Connect with Jennifer Kolari: https://www.connectedparenting.com/ The "5 Shifts of Parenting" That Bring You More Connection, Freedom and JOY as a Parent (FREE WEBINAR): https://www.connectedparenting.com/webinar The Connected Parenting Podcast, sharing weekly science-backed techniques on how to parent your sensitive children: https://www.connectedparenting.com/podcast Enter the Giveaway + Win Prizes! All who enter get Realignment Rituals™—a 5-Day Audio Series to Reclaim Energy & Clarity—plus a chance to win: 1:1 Alignment Accelerator coaching session ($2,000 value) w/ Blake Schofield: Uncover what’s holding you back, how to align with how you are naturally wired to thrive & move forward with confidence — 1 winner Personal branding coaching session ($495 value) w/ Jennifer McClure: Clarify: Clarify & confidently communicate your unique value; building a standout leadership brand — 2 winners Financial Mindset Fix online course ($997 value) w/ Joyce Marter: Break free from limiting money beliefs; take control of your financial & mental health — 3 winners Connected Parenting “How to Chill Out” mini course ($99 value) w/ Jennifer Kolari: Reduce anger & increase connection with your child — 5 winners Enter at www.impactwithease.com/giveaway by August 30. Winners will be randomly selected & announced on Sept 3, 2025. Drained at the end of the day & want more presence in your life? In just 5 minutes, learn your unique burnout type™ & how to restore your energy, fulfillment & peace at www.impactwithease.com/burnout-type
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    51 Min.
  • Future-Proof Your Career: Why Reputation Isn’t Enough Anymore with Jennifer McClure
    Aug 11 2025
    Future-Proof Your Career: Why Reputation Isn’t Enough Anymore with Jennifer McClure Are you successful, but just not visible in the way you want to be? You've built a strong career and delivered results, but you're not sure people really know who you are or what you stand for. With AI reshaping the workplace and market shifts accelerating, you could be left wondering: "What if I'm seen as replaceable?" After 20 years in HR leadership, personal branding expert Jennifer McClure has discovered a truth: reputation is earned, but it no longer guarantees visibility or opportunity. Your Career Isn't Safe on Autopilot The old idea of "just do good work and you'll get noticed" doesn’t cut anymore. With AI changing the game, being known as "a hard worker" won’t get you the recognition you want. Personal Branding: Your Career Insurance Visibility equals opportunity. The people getting promotions are those who've made it clear what they want to do more of, and what unique value they bring. Your differentiators become career insurance: Decision-making abilities AI can't automate Curiosity and strategic thinking Leadership and people skills Your unique perspective Breaking the Myths Myth: "I don't want to seem self-promotional" Reality: You're already being perceived in some way. Make it more intentional. Myth: "Good work speaks for itself" Reality: Your boss isn't psychic. They need to know what you want more of. Build Your Brand Before You Need It Jennifer's advice: Self-reflect on unique strengths Get external perspective from colleagues Identify perception gaps Be intentional about how you want to be known Episode Highlights The New Reality: [00:37] - Why personal branding is job security in an AI world [17:17] - The "race to the middle" with AI and rising above it Breaking Barriers: [28:09] - Myths keeping high achievers invisible [35:04] - Simple brand-building for busy professionals Strategic Career Management: [13:41] - Taking agency over your career path [21:45] - Preparing for an unpredictable future Powerful Quotes "What creativity, curiosity, analyzing skills can you bring to a world heavily populated by AI? How are you going to rise above that?" —Jennifer McClure "What you want to be is the most employable person. There will always be layoffs, but there were still people getting jobs during 2008 whose names came up when leaders asked 'Who's the best [your role] that you know?'" —Jennifer McClure “Curiosity, problem solving, innovation, leadership and people skills. These are the things that can't be replaced." -Blake “When you have that level of clarity and intentionality about who you are, how you operate, what are the best ways that you create the biggest results, you actually do less." -Blake Resources Mentioned https://jennifermcclure.net/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennifermcclure/ Enter the Giveaway + Win Prizes! All who enter get Realignment Rituals™—a 5-Day Audio Series to Reclaim Energy & Clarity—plus a chance to win: 1:1 Alignment Accelerator coaching session ($2,000 value) w/ Blake Schofield: Uncover what’s holding you back, how to align with how you are naturally wired to thrive & move forward with confidence — 1 winner Personal branding coaching session ($495 value) w/ Jennifer McClure: Clarify: Clarify & confidently communicate your unique value; building a standout leadership brand — 2 winners Financial Mindset Fix online course ($997 value) w/ Joyce Marter: Break free from limiting money beliefs; take control of your financial & mental health — 3 winners Connected Parenting “How to Chill Out” mini course ($99 value) w/ Jennifer Kolari: Reduce anger & increase connection with your child — 5 winners Enter at www.impactwithease.com/giveaway by August 30. Winners will be randomly selected & announced on Sept 3, 2025. Drained at the end of the day & want more presence in your life? In just 5 minutes, learn your unique burnout type™ & how to restore your energy, fulfillment & peace at www.impactwithease.com/burnout-type
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    45 Min.
  • Stressed About Money? The Hidden Trap for High Achievers & a Path to Peace with Joyce Marter
    Aug 11 2025
    Stressed About Money? The Hidden Trap for High Achievers & a Path to Peace with Joyce Marter "I make good money… so why am I still stressed?" If this thought keeps you up, you’re not alone. Maybe you have a good career & nice home but you still worry about retirement, rising college costs, or just wanting to feel secure. Everyone assumes you’ve got it all figured out. Secretly, you’re unsettled & wonder if it’s enough. Licensed psychotherapist Joyce Marter understands. While building her successful practice, she was outwardly thriving, but privately suffering with anxiety. What she discovered: money stress often isn’t about the numbers, it’s rooted in inherited beliefs & old emotional patterns. Your Money Story Wasn’t Your Choice The thoughts of “I should be further ahead” or “why is success so hard?” often come from generational experiences. If your family went through financial hardship, your nervous system might be wired for anxiety. As a child, you may have learned: money means danger. Common inherited money beliefs include: Working nonstop because “rest equals laziness” Thinking you must “suffer now to enjoy later” Feeling guilty for wanting more when you “should be grateful” Fearing investment because “money doesn’t grow on trees” Financial anxiety isn’t a character flaw—it’s a learned survival response. Financial Freedom Isn’t About More Money The truth: Your net worth is not your self-worth. “Our money situation is how we are. It’s not who we are,” Joyce says. “Who we are is innate.” Your value doesn’t depend on your bank account, debt, or choices. True financial self-care means healing emotional roots of stress & scarcity. Building Financial and Emotional Resilience Recovery is about navigating uncertainty without losing yourself. It’s time to break old patterns & find peace. Episode Highlights Your relationship with money: [0:37] - Why your financial situation doesn't define your identity or self-worth [4:11] - How inherited money beliefs create anxiety in successful adults Shame and mental health: [6:06] - The hidden mental health crisis among high-earners: when financial stress becomes dangerous [10:25] - "I should be further ahead by now": Breaking the shame cycle around money Growth & Peace: [14:54] - Why growth requires letting go (even when it feels scary) [21:22] - Three mindfulness practices to reduce financial anxiety starting today [29:28] - The future of work: Why your unique gifts matter more than ever Powerful Quotes "Our money situation is how we are. It's not who we are. Who we are is innate, and whether we're going through turbulent times financially or not, that's separate from our worth." –Joyce Marter Resources Mentioned Joyce's website: https://www.joyce-marter.com Financial Mindset Fix digital course: https://www.joyce-marter.com/the-financial-mindset-fix-mental-health-for-financial-wealth/ Enter the Giveaway + Win Prizes! All who enter get Realignment Rituals™—a 5-Day Audio Series to Reclaim Energy & Clarity—plus a chance to win: 1:1 Alignment Accelerator coaching session ($2,000 value) w/ Blake Schofield: Uncover what’s holding you back, how to align with how you are naturally wired to thrive & move forward with confidence — 1 winner Personal branding coaching session ($495 value) w/ Jennifer McClure: Clarify: Clarify & confidently communicate your unique value; building a standout leadership brand — 2 winners Financial Mindset Fix online course ($997 value) w/ Joyce Marter: Break free from limiting money beliefs; take control of your financial & mental health — 3 winners Connected Parenting “How to Chill Out” mini course ($99 value) w/ Jennifer Kolari: Reduce anger & increase connection with your child — 5 winners Enter at www.impactwithease.com/giveaway by August 30. Winners will be randomly selected & announced on Sept 3, 2025. Drained at the end of the day & want more presence in your life? In just 5 minutes, learn your unique burnout type™ & how to restore your energy, fulfillment & peace at www.impactwithease.com/burnout-type
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    44 Min.
  • Burnout Isn’t What You Think—Fix It Without the Fallout
    Aug 11 2025

    Burnout Isn’t What You Think—Fix It Without the Fallout

    “Is this really as good as it gets?"

    You're performing well but still feel drained at the end of the day. Everyone assumes you've got it figured out.

    Secretly, you wonder if something's wrong with you.

    Blake Schofield understands. After 18 years in corporate, she discovered most leaders don't recognize burnout because we've normalized stress and exhaustion.

    Your Burnout Story Isn't What You Think

    Burnout isn't about hitting a wall—it's chronic misalignment. If you're constantly navigating cycles of high stress, lower energy, and feeling drained while still performing, you're in burnout.

    Common patterns include:

    ● Pushing through because "that's what leaders do"

    ● Normalizing tension and fatigue as success

    ● Choosing between work and life constantly

    ● Believing productivity hacks, a vacation or changing jobs will solve it

    Burnout isn't a character flaw. It's a misalignment between how you're wired to thrive and how you're working.

    True Success Means Alignment

    The truth is that burnout is a symptom of misalignment. "The real issue is that tactics only work if you solve the root cause first," Blake explains.

    True success means removing deeper misalignments that create energy leaks and lead to dissatisfaction. When you lead with alignment, you can perform with clarity, confidence, and ease.

    Episode Highlights

    Understanding burnout:

    [00:41] - Why burnout is often more subtle and chronic than you think

    [01:47] - How to recognize the signs even when you're still performing well

    The root cause approach:

    [02:23] - Why most burnout tactics fail to create lasting change

    [03:31] - How neuroscience-backed strategy uncovers what's really draining you

    Growth & Alignment:

    [04:18] - "You're not broken, you're not alone, and nothing's wrong with you.”

    [04:21] - Learning how you’re naturally wired to thrive

    Powerful Quotes

    "Burnout is actually a state of misalignment. If you are constantly navigating cycles of high stress, lower energy, feeling drained at the end of the day, and not feeling as fulfilled or energized by your work, you are in burnout." –Blake Schofield

    "Burnout doesn't always scream. Often it whispers. Why am I so drained at the end of the day? I should feel more fulfilled or I should be happy. Is this really as good as it gets?" –Blake Schofield

    "You're not broken, you're not alone, and nothing's wrong with you. Fixing burnout is not about not being capable. It's about learning a new way to lead and live." –Blake Schofield

    Resources Mentioned

    • Burnout Type Quiz: https://www.impactwithease.com/burnout-type

    Enter the Giveaway + Win Prizes!

    All who enter get Realignment Rituals™—a 5-Day Audio Series to Reclaim Energy & Clarity—plus a chance to win:

    • 1:1 Alignment Accelerator coaching session ($2,000 value) w/ Blake Schofield: Uncover what’s holding you back, how to align with how you are naturally wired to thrive & move forward with confidence — 1 winner

    • Personal branding coaching session ($495 value) w/ Jennifer McClure: Clarify: Clarify & confidently communicate your unique value; building a standout leadership brand — 2 winners

    • Financial Mindset Fix online course ($997 value) w/ Joyce Marter: Break free from limiting money beliefs; take control of your financial & mental health — 3 winners

    • Connected Parenting “How to Chill Out” mini course ($99 value) w/ Jennifer Kolari: Reduce anger & increase connection with your child — 5 winners

    Enter at www.impactwithease.com/giveaway by August 30. Winners will be randomly selected & announced on Sept 3, 2025.

    Drained at the end of the day & want more presence in your life? In just 5 minutes, learn your unique burnout type™ & how to restore your energy, fulfillment & peace at www.impactwithease.com/burnout-type

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    6 Min.
  • Impact with Ease™ with Blake Schofield
    Jul 21 2025

    Tired of choosing between a successful career and a fulfilling life?

    Impact with Ease is the podcast for high-achieving professionals ready to thrive without burning out, selling out, or starting over.

    Hosted by former corporate exec turned executive coach Blake Schofield, this show reveals how to align your work and energy with how you're naturally wired to succeed so success feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside.

    Weekly coaching. Expert guests. Real-life breakthroughs.

    Follow now and learn how to create a career and life you love without sacrifice.

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    2 Min.