In this thoughtful and reflective episode of Echoes from the Margins, we explore the profound weight and wisdom found in things left unsaid—the letters we write but never send, words we hold back, and truths whispered to ourselves.
From Stoicism’s discipline of measured silence to global insights drawn from Lakota, Maori, Japanese, and Indigenous Australian cultures, we uncover the emotional intelligence embedded in choosing silence over impulsive speech. We discuss the strategic act of biting your lip and the transformative power of pausing before responding, contrasting the instant gratification of a quick win against the lasting impact of a carefully considered response.
This episode invites listeners to reflect deeply:
- What silence are you carrying, and why?
- When does silence protect and nurture, and when does it constrain?
- How can choosing not to speak become a powerful act of leadership, wisdom, and personal growth?
Join us as we journey through quiet rooms, unsent letters, and unspoken words, finding strength in restraint, intimacy in silence, and clarity in moments held back.
Quotes featured:
- “We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we speak.” – Epictetus
- “Silence is the mother of truth.” – Lakota Proverb
- “Silence is a lesson learned through life’s hardest tests.” – Seneca
- “Words are like eggs; once broken, they cannot be repaired.” – African Proverb
- “You have power over your mind, not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” – Marcus Aurelius
Listen, reflect, and let silence speak volumes.
Until next time, listen closely—the margins are speaking.
12 Min.