In today’s episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, we’re taking a time-traveling trip through parenting history, from the days of “Because I said so!” to the era of “Let’s name our feelings.”

After a funny moment when my husband sounded exactly like his dad, we started wondering…
Are we really parenting differently than the generations before us?
Or have we just rebranded the same rules with softer language and better snacks?

We break down generational parenting styles including:

• Boomer parenting (1946–1964): Structure, discipline, and responsibility
• Gen X parenting (1965–1980): Independence and problem-solving
• Millennial parenting (1981–1996): Emotional intelligence and gentle guidance
• Gen Z parenting (1997–2012): Vulnerability and mental health awareness
• Gen Alpha (2013–present): Screen-savvy, emotionally aware, and always looking for the iPad charger

You’ll hear:
✅ What each generation brought to parenting
✅ The benefits each generation passed down
✅ How every era shapes the next
✅ Why every parent thinks their kids might not survive adulthood
✅ A humorous look at Gen Alpha kids and their “skibidi” slang

The big takeaway?
No generation nailed this whole parenting thing — but every generation moved us forward in some way.

We may cringe when we hear ourselves say the things our parents said… but maybe they were on to something after all.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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Parenting changes everything, our schedules, our priorities, our bodies… and yes, our relationships. Many couples assume that losing intimacy is just part of the deal after kids, but this week’s guest, Dr. Rebecca Eudy, says it doesn’t have to be.

Dr. Eudy is a licensed mental health counselor, certified sex therapist, and author of the upcoming book Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids. With warmth, humor, and over a decade of clinical experience, she helps parents navigate the emotional and physical challenges that come with staying connected in the midst of family life.

In this episode, we dive into:
💬 Why libido often dips after kids and how to revive it
❤️ The biggest myths about sex and parenthood (and why they keep couples stuck)
🔥 What it means to become “intimate and erotic allies” with your partner
🧩 How to repair emotional disconnection and rebuild trust
🌙 Simple, realistic ways to prioritize intimacy even when you’re exhausted

Whether your relationship feels stuck in survival mode or you just want to bring back a little spark, this conversation is full of hope, honesty, and doable takeaways for parents in any season.

Connect with Dr. Rebecca Eudy:
📘 Her Book: Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids

🌐 Her Website: www.Rebeccaeudy.com

💬 Instagram: @rebeccahowardeudy

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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Ever wondered what really goes into making a podcast? In this special behind-the-scenes episode, Katie takes you inside the messy, funny, and very real process of creating Burnt Pancakes: Momversations.

She’s sharing how the show started, what inspired the idea, the equipment and editing tools she uses, how she books guests, and yes, how she actually (doesn’t really) get paid. From recording on Zoom with coffee in hand to editing in Adobe Premiere Rush, this episode is a peek behind the curtain for all the curious moms, creators, and podcast lovers out there.

In this episode, Katie shares:
💡 Where the idea came from
🎧 The tools and tech I use
💰 The truth about podcast “income” (and why it’s mostly a labor of love right now)
👩‍👩‍👧‍👦 How I find and book guests
✂️ What it’s like editing every episode myself
📬 My weekly routine: podcast, newsletter, social posts, and all the behind-the-scenes hustle
📈 Current podcast stats
🌟 The highs and lows
🔮 What’s next for Burnt Pancakes and how she hopes to grow the show

Mentioned in this episode:

Sign-up for my newsletter: HERE

Calendly scheduling program: www.calendly.com

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

Are kids’ birthday parties getting a little… out of hand? Between balloon arches, themed bounce houses, and the pressure to outdo last year, it can feel like more stress than celebration. But what if the most meaningful childhood memories came not from the presents or the perfect cake but from the wishes we make and the love we share?

In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I sit down with children’s author Nikki McPhetridge, whose new book Maya’s Birthday Wish invites families to rediscover the joy of simple, heartfelt celebrations. Nikki shares how creativity, traditions, and connection can turn milestone moments into lifelong memories—without draining your wallet or sanity.

We talk about:

• Why simple rituals like candles, songs, and shared wishes stick with kids more than big parties
• How parents can encourage creativity and imagination when celebrating birthdays
• Ways to let go of the “Pinterest pressure” and enjoy the moment
• Nikki’s hope for parents to pause and savor the fleeting magic of childhood

This is a refreshing reminder for any parent who’s ever wondered if they’re doing “enough” for their kids’ special days. Spoiler: you already are.

Links & Resources:

• Grab a copy of Maya’s Birthday Wish by Nikki McPhetridge → https://amzn.to/4nybsBq
• Connect with Nikki → www.mayastoryland.com
• Instagram → @mayastoryland

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

Are your kids constantly asking for things but complaining every time you ask them to help around the house? 🙋‍♀️ Yep, that was our house too...until we tried something new.

In this week’s Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I’m sharing how we introduced a chore and allowance chart for our three boys and why it’s already making a difference. From teaching gratitude and the value of money to cutting down on the whining (hallelujah!), this little system has been a game-changer.

I’ll walk you through:

• Why we realized our boys needed a chore/allowance system
• How we decided what chores are just part of living here vs. “paid” chores
• The way our chart works and how we set chore values
• Alternative ideas you can try if a chart isn’t your style
• What we’ve learned after three weeks (including why I now keep a stack of $1 bills in the house 😂)

Plus, hear how one of my boys surprised me by wanting to save his money instead of spend it!

👉 If you enjoyed this episode, share it with a friend who’s also trying to figure out chores and allowance with their kids—we’re all in this together.

Links & Resources:

• Download my Chore & Allowance Chart HERE

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

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College admissions can feel like a stressful, overwhelming, and expensive process, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I’m joined by Shellee Howard, Founder & CEO of College Ready, Certified Independent College Strategist, two-time best-selling author, and host of Parents: Is Your Teen College Ready?

With over 17 years of experience and more than 3,000 students guided to top-tier schools (including 327 Ivy League acceptances and over $40 million in scholarships), Shellee shares her proven strategies to help families navigate the admissions process, secure scholarships, and find the right college fit without drowning in student loan debt.

We also talk about her inspiring nonprofit, Empower Education, which was born from her life-changing trip to Uganda, and how that experience reshaped her view on education both globally and here at home.

Whether your child is a freshman in high school or already filling out applications, this conversation is packed with encouragement, myth-busting, and practical tips that can make college more manageable and affordable for your family.

✨ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• The biggest myths about getting into top colleges
• Why passion projects can help your student stand out in applications
• How to graduate debt-free and secure scholarships
• Common mistakes families make in the admissions process (and how to avoid them)
• Lessons Shellee learned while guiding her own kids through Harvard and nursing school—without loans
• The story behind Empower Education and her work with students in Uganda
• Encouragement for parents who feel overwhelmed by the admissions process

Connect with Shellee Howard:

www.collegereadyplan.info = FREE 30 min. zoom call

www.EmpowerEducation.world = FREE meeting for Middle and High School students.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

You know that saying, “Don’t have kids if you want to keep your house nice”? Turns out, it’s not a joke. 😂

In this episode, I dive into all the reasons moms simply can’t have nice things. From duct-taped chairs and chewed-up blinds in my own house, to bike scratches on my car, to the never-ending mystery of missing Tupperware lids, motherhood is basically a demolition derby for anything “nice.”

And it’s not just me, I asked you to share your “can’t have nice things” stories too, and wow… moms everywhere are living in glitter-covered chaos, Sharpie-marked couches, and homes that could double as crime scenes on HGTV.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• My own personal disasters (duct tape décor, anyone?)
• The mystery of the vanishing Tupperware lids
• Why cars + kids = a rolling trash can on wheels
• Listener submissions that prove none of us are alone in this
• And why maybe it’s okay that our homes look like this

Motherhood may have ruined our furniture, our clothes, and our dreams of white couches, but it’s also given us stories that we’ll laugh about forever.

So grab your duct tape, reheat that coffee for the third time, and come laugh along with me in this week’s momversation.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

We all had those picture-perfect ideas of motherhood before kids came along—organic snacks, spotless houses, calm voices, magical family moments. And then… reality showed up with sticky fingers, tantrums in Target, and chicken nuggets on repeat.

In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I take a hilarious and honest look at the gap between how we thought motherhood would be and how it actually is. From Pinterest parties gone wrong to the car that now doubles as a Goldfish crumb factory, this episode is packed with relatable stories and laugh-out-loud “expectation vs. reality” moments.

Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why Pinterest Mom was a fantasy (and how Costco cake saves the day)
• Calm Mom vs. Real Mom when toddlers test every ounce of patience
• The myth of the perfectly clean, Instagram-worthy house
• Social media’s highlight reel vs. the messy, beautiful real life
• Quick-fire “expectation vs. reality” one-liners that every mom will nod along to
• How letting go of perfection gives us space for connection

Motherhood isn’t about the perfect party, the spotless kitchen, or the calm response every time. It’s about duct-taped chairs, lopsided birthday cakes, messy family photos, and kids who feel deeply loved in the middle of the chaos.

📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K

You can find Katie at:
website: burntpancakes.com
YouTube: @burnt.pancakes
Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie
Email: katie@burntpancakes.com

🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽

☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here
💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE
📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE
🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE
Instagram: @itspottytime
Tiktok: @itspottytime_

Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.