If someone’s delivering your baby… you should probably like them.

In this episode, we’re talking all about choosing your OB or midwife, the differences between the two, what questions to ask before committing to a provider, and how to actually find a practice that feels like the right fit for you.

We also talk about:
• why you can interview multiple providers
• switching providers during pregnancy (yes, even later on)
• rotating providers in OB and midwifery practices
• questions to ask about the hospital you’ll deliver at
• pain management options, lactation support, and nursing care
• why feeling comfortable and supported matters so much during pregnancy and birth

I’m also sharing some of my own experiences with OBs and midwives, including my experience delivering with the midwives at Durham Women’s Clinic in Durham, North Carolina.

Because at the end of the day… this is someone who will be supporting you during some of the most vulnerable moments of your life. You deserve to feel heard, respected, safe, and comfortable in your care.

There are so many amazing providers out there—you’re really just looking for the right fit for YOU.

Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allythedoula
Website: https://allyravendoula.com

If you’re pregnant and looking for birth support in Raleigh, NC or the surrounding Triangle area, you can learn more about my doula services or book a consult through my website.

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You’ve probably been told you need an OB… and that’s about it.

But pregnancy, birth, and postpartum aren’t just medical experiences—they’re physical, emotional, and mental too. And having the right support around you can completely change how you experience all of it.

In this episode, we’re talking all about your birth team—who you actually need during pregnancy, how each provider supports you, and when to start building your team.

We cover:
• OB vs midwife care
• What a doula actually does (and why it matters)
• Prenatal chiropractic care
• Pelvic floor therapy during pregnancy and postpartum
• Lactation support and breastfeeding help
• Mental health support for pregnancy and postpartum

And just as important—we talk about how to know if a provider is the right fit for you, because it’s not just about credentials… it’s about feeling supported, heard, and safe.

If you’re pregnant in Raleigh, North Carolina (or the surrounding Triangle area), this episode will help you better understand your options for building a supportive birth team—including working with a Raleigh doula, midwives, and other local providers.

This is the first episode in a series breaking down how to choose each member of your birth team so you can feel confident throughout pregnancy, labor, delivery, and postpartum recovery.

💛 You don’t have to figure everything out right now—but you do deserve support.

Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allythedoula
Website: https://allyravendoula.com

Looking for a doula in Raleigh, NC? You can learn more about my services or book a consult directly through my website 🤍

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You took the test… it’s positive… and now you’re sitting there like, “okay wait… now what??”

Whether you’re feeling excited, overwhelmed, confused, or all of the above (hi, totally normal), this episode is your go-to starting point for those early days of pregnancy.

In this episode, I’m walking you through what actually matters right now — without the overwhelm, the pressure, or the 47-tab Google spiral.

We’re talking about:

• What to focus on (and what you can absolutely ignore for now)
• When to schedule your first appointment
• How to choose the right OB or midwife for you
• When to hire a doula (hint: earlier than you think 👀)
• How to start building your support team
• When to announce your pregnancy — and why there is no “right” time

This is your reminder that you don’t have to have everything figured out today. You’re allowed to take this one step at a time.

And if you’re someone who feels like you need to be doing something — we’ll talk about a simple, realistic way to start supporting your body early on too.

Think of this episode as your deep breath and your game plan.

💛 Connect with me:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allythedoula
Website: https://www.allyravendoula.com

💛 My favorite prenatal vitamin:
https://thisisneeded.com/products/prenatal-multi-essentials?variant=47086313046261

If this episode helped you, send it to a friend who just found out she’s pregnant — because I promise you, she’s probably asking the same question: “now what??”

And remember… you’re doing much better than you think 💛

In part two of my conversation with Dr. Brooke, we’re diving into all things babies — from sleep and development to breastfeeding and what your baby actually needs in those early months.

We talk about:
• why “sleep regression” might not actually be about sleep
• how your baby’s development impacts their behavior
• what’s really going on when babies seem fussy or unsettled
• how movement and sensory input play a huge role in development
• how chiropractic care can support babies and breastfeeding
• and simple, practical things you can start doing right away

This part of the conversation is packed with those “wait… no one told me this” moments — in the best way.

If you’re pregnant, postpartum, or navigating life with a baby, this is one you’ll definitely want to listen to.

You can connect with Dr. Brooke at:
Instagram: @bloom.familywellness

You can find me at:
Instagram: @allythedoula
Website: www.allyravendoula.com

Dr. Brooke's Website: https://www.bloomfamilywellness.com/

And remember — you’re doing much better than you think 💛

In this episode of Ally the Doula, I’m sitting down with someone who has been part of all three of my pregnancies and now helps care for all three of my kids — prenatal and pediatric chiropractor Dr. Brooke.

This conversation felt a lot less like an interview and more like two friends chatting about pregnancy, motherhood, and what it really looks like to support families through every stage.

We talk about:
• how Dr. Brooke got into chiropractic care
• why she shifted her focus to supporting moms and babies
• how becoming a mom changed the way she practices
• balancing motherhood and running a business
• why caring for moms matters so much
• and of course… we had to talk about her chickens 🐓

This conversation was so good that we actually turned it into two episodes, so this is part one!

In part two, we’ll dive deeper into prenatal chiropractic care, infant development, breastfeeding support, and how chiropractic care can help both moms and babies.

If you're pregnant, postpartum, or raising little ones, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss.

You can connect with Dr. Brooke at:
Instagram: @bloom.familywellness

You can find me at:
Instagram: @allythedoula
Website: www.allyravendoula.com

And remember — you are doing much better than you think 💛

Birth Plans Without the Pressure

Birth plans get a bad reputation — and honestly, they don’t deserve it.

In this episode, we’re talking about how to create a birth plan that actually helps you feel calm, confident, and prepared… without turning it into a 12-page document or something that stresses you out more than it supports you.

We’ll cover:

• What a birth plan really is (and what it’s not)

• Why some providers push back on birth plans

• How to approach your provider in a collaborative way

• What actually needs to go in your birth plan

• How to keep it simple, flexible, and realistic

Birth planning isn’t about controlling every outcome — it’s about understanding your options and making space for your voice in the room.

If you’d like help creating your own, you can download my simple birth plan template at www.allyravendoula.com.

And if you’d rather talk it through, I offer a one-hour “Doula Chat with Ally” where we sit down together and build a birth plan that feels right for you.

Let’s take the pressure off and make this feel doable.

You can always connect with me on Instagram at @allythedoula.

And remember — you’re doing much better than you think 💛

In this episode, I’m sharing the story of how I became a doula — and how my own birth experiences completely changed the direction of my life.

From becoming a mom to realizing how much support truly matters during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum… this episode is a behind-the-scenes look at what led me here. I’m talking about what surprised me, what I wish I had known, and the moment I realized I wanted to support other people in this season of life.

If you’re pregnant, thinking about birth, or just curious how I got started in this work — this one’s for you.

As always, this podcast is about real talk, honest conversations, and helping you feel more confident in your journey — whatever that looks like for you.

You can connect with me on Instagram at @allythedoula
And learn more about my services at www.allyravendoula.com

If you loved this episode, make sure to follow the show and share it with a friend 💛

Hey friend! I’m Ally — a birth doula, a mom, and your new birth bestie. In this first episode, I’m saying hi, sharing a little bit about who I am, why I started this podcast, and what you can expect in the episodes to come.

We’ll talk birth, motherhood, friendships, and all the real-life stuff that comes with it — with honesty, humor, and a little reassurance along the way. Grab a coffee (iced, always) and let’s chat.

If you want to keep the conversation going or see more about life as a doula, come say hi on instagram @ allythedoula or visit my website www.allyravendoula.com