Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.

You will learn:

• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise
• why calm confidence creates emotional safety
• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer
• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships
• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away
• how to stay centred without chasing or overgiving

This episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.

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There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.

This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.

In this episode, MCM talks about:

• What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body

• How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships

• The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty

• The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself

• Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships

• How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow

• Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice

• Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort

• How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter

If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.

Why does a good man, a man who loves you deeply, still get jealous?
Why does a man who loves you so deeply still get jealous?
This episode explains the quiet insecurity that wakes up in a loving man when you step into situations that make him feel unsure, even when he trusts you. We break down how fear, comparison, and past relationships shape his reactions, and why he sometimes pulls back or watches you more closely. This is an honest, relatable conversation for women who love a good man but still see jealousy show up in unexpected ways. Learn how love, security, and reassurance work together in a real relationship.

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A reflective deep dive into why people distance themselves when you offer consistency, honesty, and emotional presence. This episode explores fear of intimacy, avoidant attachment, nervous system overwhelm, and why some people retreat when love gets real. If you've ever felt someone pull away just as you were ready to love them well, this one is for you.

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What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.

This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.

Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.

👉 Topics covered include:

• How women express emotional safety and connection

• How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice

• The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance

• Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships

• The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it

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Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles

🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.
💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast
📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880

What does real love actually look like — not the movie version, but the human version?
In this two-part episode of You’re Probably Right, M.C.M. breaks down 100 powerful ways men and women express love, loyalty, protection, and vulnerability — side by side.

This isn’t just a relationship checklist. It’s a deep dive into the emotional blueprints that shape how we love, what we need, and how we sometimes miss each other even when we care deeply.

Whether you’re trying to understand your partner, heal from love that hurt, or simply learn how men and women connect differently, this conversation will make you think, laugh, and maybe even reflect on your own patterns.

👉 Topics covered include:

• How women express emotional safety and connection

• How men show love through consistency, reliability, and sacrifice

• The subtle signs of true affection vs. performance

• Emotional presence, trust, and loyalty in modern relationships

• The difference between deserving love and being worthy of it

💬 Keywords for SEO:
Love language, relationship podcast, men vs women, emotional intelligence, dating and relationships, emotional connection, how women love, how men love, psychology of love, marriage advice, Christian relationships, healing from heartbreak, modern love, self-worth, emotional communication, relationship growth, intimacy and vulnerability, relationship coaching, men’s mental health, women’s empowerment, attachment styles

🎙️ Hosted by M.C.M.
💌 Follow the show: You’re Probably Right Podcast
📱 Contact: yprpodcast@gmail.com | Text/Voicemail: 647-878-8880

Speak to My Heart — When the Armor Starts to Feel Heavy

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There comes a moment when silence stops protecting you and startssuffocating you.
This episode of You’re Probably Right isn’t a diagnosis, it’s a mirror —a quiet conversation with the part of you that’s tired of pretending you don’tcare.

In Speak to My Heart, MCM reaches beneath the surface to talk tothe guarded soul — the one that keeps busy to outrun pain, the one that hidesbehind strength but quietly craves safety.
This is not about fixing yourself. It’s about recognizing that your heart stillknows how to feel, even if you’ve been living like it forgot.

Whether you’ve been pushing love away, struggling to stay open, or justtrying to make sense of why peace feels so foreign, this episode will meet youright where you are.
It’s calm, emotional, and painfully human — a voice that whispers, you’renot too much; you were just too real for the wrong ones.

Topics include:

🎙️ You’re Probably Right with MCM
— Raw reflections on love, healing, and the ways we protect ourselves from whatwe need most.

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Speak to My Heart.
For the one who stopped believing peace was possible.
For the one who learned to hide behind strength.
For the one who keeps saying, “I’m fine,” when they’re anything but.

This episode isn’t therapy — it’s truth, wrapped in calm.
A voice speaking to the guarded, not about them.
No labels. No psychology. Just honesty.