00:00 – 01:12 | Intro: Our 5-Day Dating, 7-Week Engagement Story
Ali and Josh set the stage with their whirlwind love story and how their honeymoon season never ended (just with more laundry and fewer naps). 😅

01:13 – 03:25 | Marriage Is Supposed to Be Fun (and Holy)
Life = fun. And so does marriage. The goal? Days of heaven on earth built on truth, love, and laughter.

03:26 – 06:05 | Encouraging Your Husband as a Leader
Ali shares how she learned to let Josh lead even after years of independence.
✅ Speak to the king in him
✅ Ask for his wisdom
✅ Submit with confidence, not fear

06:06 – 08:30 | Submission ≠ Oppression
Josh breaks down biblical submission as yieldedness, not control. It’s rooted in unity and love not power plays or domination.

08:31 – 10:45 | What It’s Like to Lead a Strong Woman
Josh shares his journey learning to communicate, handle conflict, and “reel in the rocket britches” when needed with grace, prayer, and patience. 🙃

10:46 – 13:35 | Tone, Timing & Communication That Builds Trust
Ali and Josh share real-life moments where tone mattered more than truth and how small shifts in language can diffuse major tension.

13:36 – 15:22 | Communication Tips for Real-Life Conflict
✨ Learn to pause before responding
✨ Ask if your spouse wants advice or just to be heard
✨ And yes... sometimes the best advice really is: fight naked 😂

15:23 – 17:00 | You’re Not a Tree You Can Change
Just because you were raised a certain way doesn’t mean you’re stuck. God gives us wisdom to soften, grow, and lead better with Him.

17:01 – 18:40 | Listening > Fixing: The Husband’s Superpower
Josh shares how learning to just listen instead of jumping into problem-solving mode has radically shifted their marriage dynamic.

18:41 – 19:59 | Final Thoughts: Keep It Holy. Keep It Fun.
Ali & Josh wrap with a prayer over your marriage and a reminder that joy, intimacy, and laughter are sacred too.

Plus, the real reason Josh always tells couples to “fight naked.”