What happens after the breakdown—when the title is gone, the noise has quieted, and you’re left with only yourself? In this episode, I explore what it means to unhook your worth from your role and begin the quiet work of rebuilding. I talk about the tunnel I had to pass through to move from flat, muted terrain to higher ground—and how I started to rediscover and document the value that didn’t disappear, even when it went unseen. If you’re navigating transition or trying to reclaim your identity after a loss, this one’s for you.

📰 Related article: “The Change I Didn’t Choose – Part 2: Excavation and Rebuild” now live on LinkedIn and Substack.

What happens when the change isn’t yours to choose?

In this episode, I share what happened when the job ended but the silence didn’t. I talk about how I lost my footing after leaving a company I had been with for over 15 years, what it felt like to be met with platitudes instead of real support, and how I slowly started to rebuild not just my résumé, but mysense of self.

This is Part 1 of a four-part series on the unexpected transition that became a turning point. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unseen, or unsure of what’s next, this one is for you.

Not all secrecy is bad.

Sometimes it’s called discretion. Sometimes it’s leadership.
But there’s a fine line between protecting what’s not ready—and isolating the people who need to be part of the change.

In this episode, Sharay Harris explores the tension between premature exposure and overprotective silence, sharing a personal story about what happens when a still-evolving idea gets shared too soon—without the right language or context to land well.

This episode is for anyone who’s ever wondered:

“Should I hold this a little longer…or am I hiding what people need to know?”