Welcome to Episode 136 of the Warrior Words podcast!

Last week would have been my 25th wedding anniversary.

Except, my marriage ended due to domestic violence.

In this last week of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I take a look at some of the things that have occurred over the last 25 years.

I talk about the difficulty abused spouses have when they're not allowed to go no contact until their youngest turns 18. But I also talk about healing and forgiveness - the freedom of not allowing your abuser to live rent-free in your head.

Don't allow them to keep you a victim. That keeps the power on their side of the fence. Take your power back and become the victor!

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NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

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Welcome to Episode 135 of the Warrior Words podcast!

In this short Bits of Biblical Beauty (BoBB) episode, I talk about the beauty of community. We were not created to live in solitude. God created us for community. We need each other. We need support and assistance.

Armor Up.

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Seek Beauty.

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People who helped make this podcast possible:

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NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 134 of the Warrior Words podcast!

My friend, and all-around amazing human, Lynn Donovan, is on the podcast this week. She shares about her personal struggle with being unequally yoked, or spiritually mismatched.

This is a hope-filled episode! Many people find themselves mismatched in their marriage, and Lynn offers so much hope through her own story, as well as her ministry: Spiritually Unequal Marriage.

This ministry, her books, and her friendship were lifelines to me when I was going through my own marriage.

In addition to sharing her story with us today, Lynn has graciously offered to send not one, but two copies of her book, Marching Around Jericho, to winners who will be randomly drawn from all who enter the giveaway I set up. The fun thing about this giveaway is that you are rewarded for sharing it. Why? Because when I draw the winner's name, the person who referred that winner receives the second copy of the book! So by sharing, you increase your chances of winning instead of reducing them.

Listen to the episode and then join the giveaway!

Learn more about Lynn:

Website: https://lynndonovan.com/

Website: https://spirituallyunequalmarriage.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynndonovan/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@spirituallyunequalmarriage

Marching Around Jericho: https://amzn.to/3WPvQCk

GIVEAWAY (Live through Friday, November 7th, 2025): https://contestpearl.com/2oDhnzdq4OsBwLTIDq0i

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Make Your Words Warrior Words.

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IG: https://www.instagram.com/heathergaffneyauthor/

People who helped make this podcast possible:

Editor & Music Composer: AgentSecret24 - https://www.youtube.com/@Agentsecret24

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Podcast Coach, Stefanie Gass:

Podcast to Profit: https://heatherg--stefaniegass.thrivecart.com/podcasttoprofitmastermind/

Podbean Podcast Hosting: https://www.podbean.com/WarriorWords

Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 133 of the Warrior Words podcast!

In this short Bits of Biblical Beauty (BoBB) episode, I talk about the beauty of suffering. It sounds contradictory, but it explains why the Apostle Paul sang in prison, wrote beautiful letters while in prison, and even converted others while in prison.

Armor Up.

Fight the Good Fight.

Seek Beauty.

Make Your Words Warrior Words.

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Purchase Art or make a Donation: https://ko-fi.com/warriorwords

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YT: https://www.youtube.com/@warriorwords

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IG: https://www.instagram.com/heathergaffneyauthor/

People who helped make this podcast possible:

Editor & Music Composer: AgentSecret24 - https://www.youtube.com/@Agentsecret24

Photographer: Val Westover (He does VIRTUAL photo sessions!) - https://www.valwestoverphotography.com/shop?category=Virtual+Photography&aff=16

Podcast Coach, Stefanie Gass:

Podcast to Profit: https://heatherg--stefaniegass.thrivecart.com/podcasttoprofitmastermind/

Podbean Podcast Hosting: https://www.podbean.com/WarriorWords

Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 132 of the Warrior Words podcast!

This week's episode is another one that's a little different.

A while ago, I saved a list from a post made by World Record Holder, Jenn Drummond. This week, I examined her list of tips, if you will, that she applies to herself.

I took that list and interpreted it through my eyes and experiences. I offered some tips of my own based on hers and what I felt from the perspective of a trauma survivor.

It's one of those where you listen to each one and then choose what applies to your life and leave the rest. Leave them completely, or leave them to re-examine at a later date.

I hope they are helpful to you.

Learn more about:

Jenn's Book: BreakProof: https://amzn.to/4n3RhdI

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Seek Beauty.

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Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 131 of the Warrior Words podcast!

In this short Bits of Biblical Beauty (BoBB) episode, I talk about the beauty of your testimony - which is the beauty in your suffering. I talk about cowardice and power as they relate to your testimony.

Armor Up.

Fight the Good Fight.

Seek Beauty.

Make Your Words Warrior Words.

NEW Merch Store: https://heather-clr-shop.fourthwall.com/

Purchase Art or make a Donation: https://ko-fi.com/warriorwords

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YT: https://www.youtube.com/@warriorwords

IG: https://www.instagram.com/mywarriorwords/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/heathergaffneyauthor/

People who helped make this podcast possible:

Editor & Music Composer: AgentSecret24 - https://www.youtube.com/@Agentsecret24

Photographer: Val Westover (He does VIRTUAL photo sessions!) - https://www.valwestoverphotography.com/shop?category=Virtual+Photography&aff=16

Podcast Coach, Stefanie Gass:

Podcast to Profit: https://heatherg--stefaniegass.thrivecart.com/podcasttoprofitmastermind/

Podbean Podcast Hosting: https://www.podbean.com/WarriorWords

Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 130 of the Warrior Words podcast!

When this week's guest, Brenda Ballantine, asked me what day it was while we were recording, she caught me a little off guard. But I think that was the design.

When I said that it was Tuesday, she said it was also "Be Nice to Me" day.

Do we know how to do that? Do we actually know how to be nice to ourselves?

So often, we beat ourselves up when God just wants us to know how much He loves us.

Yes, we make mistakes - sometimes marry the wrong spouse or stay in an abusive situation.

Yes, we sin - sometimes we stray from our marriages or do things that work against them.

Brenda did these things and thought God was mad at her. She beat herself up. On top of the abuse she endured when her former husband beat her up.

But there's a thread throughout her story ~ one of beauty; Our Lord weaved something beautiful out of the sometimes ugly life she was living.

Now Brenda wants to help others mend their broken hearts and learn to be nice to themselves.

Learn more about Brenda:

Website: https://brendaheartmender.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@brendadarling25

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Suicide Hotline: https://988lifeline.org/

Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

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Fight the Good Fight.

Seek Beauty.

Make Your Words Warrior Words.

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IG: https://www.instagram.com/heathergaffneyauthor/

People who helped make this podcast possible:

Editor & Music Composer: AgentSecret24 - https://www.youtube.com/@Agentsecret24

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Podcast Coach, Stefanie Gass:

Podcast to Profit: https://heatherg--stefaniegass.thrivecart.com/podcasttoprofitmastermind/

Podbean Podcast Hosting: https://www.podbean.com/WarriorWords

Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.

Welcome to Episode 129 of the Warrior Words podcast!

In this short Bits of Biblical Beauty (BoBB) episode, I talk about the beauty of the angels and the fact that there's no room in Heaven for pride & sin.

This week in the church, we celebrate the Feast of the Archangels: Michael, Gabriel, and Raphael. We also celebrate our Guardian Angels. Jesus tells us in the Gospel that we each have angels and that they are in front of God on our behalf of us all the time.

I mentioned Claudine's episode, so here's the direct link for that on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fjQUopW0xHA

Armor Up.

Fight the Good Fight.

Seek Beauty.

Make Your Words Warrior Words.

NEW Merch Store: https://heather-clr-shop.fourthwall.com/

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Join your fellow Warriors: https://subscribepage.io/pearlsofwisdom

YT: https://www.youtube.com/@beautyafterbattlesart

YT: https://www.youtube.com/@warriorwords

IG: https://www.instagram.com/mywarriorwords/

IG: https://www.instagram.com/heathergaffneyauthor/

People who helped make this podcast possible:

Editor & Music Composer: AgentSecret24 - https://www.youtube.com/@Agentsecret24

Photographer: Val Westover (He does VIRTUAL photo sessions!) - https://www.valwestoverphotography.com/shop?category=Virtual+Photography&aff=16

Podcast Coach, Stefanie Gass:

Podcast to Profit: https://heatherg--stefaniegass.thrivecart.com/podcasttoprofitmastermind/

Podbean Podcast Hosting: https://www.podbean.com/WarriorWords

Lilla Rose: https://www.lillarose.com/mamacre8s

NOTE: Beliefs, practices, and opinions expressed by guests of the Warrior Words podcast are not necessarily the same as those of the host. One of the purposes of this podcast is to share stories. This cannot be effective if everyone is identical.

* Some of my links are affiliate links. I receive a small commission with your purchase at no additional cost to you if you click through my links.