We’re re-airing some of your favorite — and least favorite — episodes from the vault. This one asks: is it ever okay to BYO meal to someone else’s big day? When food allergies, dietary restrictions, and friendship collide, the stakes are higher than the wedding cake.

Dan and Gayle explore boundaries, etiquette, and the fine art of not stealing the spotlight — or the buffet.

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Join psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler for unscripted, unfiltered conversations about the internet’s most relatable conflicts — and what they reveal about being human.

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🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

It’s one of our most talked-about episodes — or maybe one that didn’t get enough love the first time. We’ll let you decide. This week, Dan and Gayle tackle a game-day dilemma that hits close to home: when “adults only” meets “I couldn’t find a sitter.”

They unpack boundaries, social expectations, and the psychology of group dynamics — with a little help from Priya Parker’s The Art of Gathering and the Gottman Institute’s “Positive Perspective.”

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🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole EditionPsychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler take real stories from the internet and break them down with humor, insight, and a touch of therapy wisdom.

👉 veritaspp.com | @drgmacbride | @drdankessler🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

When your boss says “we’re a family,” but gets mad when you pack up at 5:00. Sound familiar? This week, the team digs into the viral story of a worker who dared to clock out on time — and got shamed for it. From toxic hustle culture to guilt around boundaries, they unpack the psychology behind why “leaving when the day ends” still sparks outrage in some offices.

They’re joined by Dr. Meghan Miller, licensed psychologist, executive leader, and founder of The Forward Collective, where she helps high-achieving women, parents, and athletes navigate burnout, perfectionism, and identity struggles. Learn more at theforwardcollective.org

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole EditionPsychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler tackle real stories from the internet — unscripted, unfiltered, and psychologically informed. Who’s right, who’s wrong, and what does it say about us?

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🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

When therapy “homework” starts competing with family time, who’s in the wrong? This week, the hosts unpack emotional labor, healing, and boundaries in relationships — and what happens when one partner’s growth feels like the other’s neglect.

Our guest, Dr. Shannon Goecke-Watson, PsyD, LP, owns SGW Psychological Services in Apple Valley, MN, where she specializes in treating the aftereffects of domestic violence through individual and group therapy. She’s presented more than 40 trainings on domestic violence and trauma and serves as Minnesota’s delegate to the APA Council of Representatives. Learn more at sgwpsych.com.

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole Edition
Psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler analyze stories from the internet through the lens of modern psychology — equal parts empathy, insight, and laughter.

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🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

Who gets the final say in your funeral — you or your family? This conversation dives deep into grief, boundaries, and the psychology of control when faith and autonomy collide.

They’re joined by Dr. Sheena Sikorski, a licensed psychologist based in Minneapolis who helps Millennial and Gen Z women heal from perfectionism and people-pleasing. She teaches clients to quiet their inner critic and trust their own worth. Learn more at drsheenasikorski.com

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole EditionReal internet stories. Real psychology. Real talk. Psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler unpack human behavior one uncomfortable dilemma at a time.👉 veritaspp.com | @drgmacbride | @drdankessler

🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

When love meets executive dysfunction, things can get messy. This week, the team tackles a controversial post about ADHD meds, relationship frustration, and the blurry line between care and control.

Featuring Dr. David Nathan, a child and adolescent psychologist based in St. Paul, MN, specializing in ADHD, Autism, anger, and adoption. He’s also a regional clinical lead for Allina Health and offers ADHD/ASD testing through his private practice. Learn more at davidnathanpsyd.com.

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole Edition
Psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler bring humor, humanity, and hard science to real internet dilemmas. Who’s the problem — and who just needs therapy?

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🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

Is refusing to wake your partner a petty act — or a lesson in adulting? This story explores dependency, accountability, and the emotional toll of becoming someone’s personal snooze button.

Joining the discussion is Dr. Jennifer Service, a board-certified psychiatrist and forensic specialist with over 25 years of experience. She provides psychiatric care and forensic evaluations throughout Minnesota and has testified in civil and criminal cases. Learn more at mnforensic.com and mankatoclinic.com.

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole Edition
Hosted by psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler, this show blends humor and insight as they decode the internet’s most awkward ethical standoffs.

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🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (kbvoiceovers.com)

If your partner’s sleep habits are wrecking your relationship, is it fair to demand change? This episode dives into the psychology of sleep, responsibility, and mismatched rhythms — with a few Weezer references thrown in.

Featuring Dr. Bill Hoekstra, board-certified psychologist and Diplomate in Behavioral Sleep Medicine. With over two decades of experience, Dr. Hoekstra specializes in insomnia, trauma recovery, and evidence-based therapy for sleep and mood. Learn more at themoodandsleepclinic.com or @themoodandsleepclinic.

🎙️ Veritas Views: The Am I the A**hole Edition
Psychologists Dr. Gayle MacBride and Dr. Dan Kessler explore human behavior through the wild world of the internet. Insightful, irreverent, and just the right amount of awkward.

👉 veritaspp.com | @drgmacbride | @drdankessler
🎧 Hosted and produced by Michael MacBride (michaelmacbride.com), with intros and outros by Kelley Buttrick (⁠kbvoiceovers.com⁠)