• E217 Close Encounters of the Unrefined Kind
    Jul 20 2026

    Government hearings. Whistleblowers. UFO disclosure. Alien claims. Christians calling everything demonic.

    But what if the real answer is far more complicated?

    Dr. Jonathan Kendall joins Brandon to explore the growing evidence surrounding UFOs and UAPs while challenging the simplistic explanations often offered from every side of the debate.

    Together they discuss government evidence, consciousness, high strangeness, extradimensional realities, ancient encounters, quantum physics, biblical worldview, and why the phenomenon may force us to rethink how we understand reality itself.

    Rather than choosing between "aliens" or "demons," this conversation asks whether we've been asking the wrong questions all along.


    Amazon - New Book

    https://x.com/JKendallMD
    https://jonathankendallmd.com/

    Timestamps:
    00:28 Introduction and welcome back Dr. Jonathan Kendall

    02:41 Jonathan's lifelong interest in UFOs and the paranormal

    03:56 His grandfather's mysterious West Virginia UFO encounter

    05:27 Has Jonathan ever had a UFO experience himself?

    07:20 What convinced him UFOs are a real phenomenon?

    09:55 Project Blue Book and the overwhelming evidence

    13:31 The strongest evidence for UAPs today

    15:37 Government secrecy, disclosure, and finding the truth

    17:08 Are we actually moving toward disclosure?

    19:14 Extraterrestrial vs. extradimensional vs. spiritual explanations

    21:02 Beyond Cartesian dualism: a new way of understanding reality

    23:08 The case for the extraterrestrial hypothesis

    25:04 Why Jonathan ultimately leans toward the extradimensional view

    27:20 Separating genuine encounters from misidentifications

    29:28 Super Psi, consciousness, and paranormal experiences

    31:49 Why reality isn't simply "either/or"

    32:47 Are aliens really demons?

    34:37 Logic, conspiracies, and the danger of flattening reality

    36:58 Jacques Vallée, Diana Pasulka, and Christian perspectives

    39:14 What Jonathan hopes readers take away from his book

    40:41 Jinn, fairies, folklore, and ancient parallels

    44:00 Biblical examples of the physical and spiritual overlapping

    45:55 Time travel, quantum physics, and the transfiguration

    47:18 Where to connect with Jonathan and his work

    48:04 Thoughts on the new disclosure movie

    49:11 "We need to get away from the idea that UFOs are demons."

    49:56 Jonathan's final encouragement to Christians

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  • E215 The Cost of Forgiveness
    Jul 6 2026

    Forgiveness is one of the most necessary parts of the Christian life, but it is also one of the most misunderstood. In this episode, Brandon and Sandy sit down with Dr. Everett Worthington to talk about what forgiveness actually is, what it is not, and why reconciliation is something different altogether. Dr. Worthington shares the tragic story of his mother’s murder and how that moment forced him to live out the very forgiveness he had spent years studying and teaching. The conversation explores decisional forgiveness, emotional forgiveness, rumination, resentment, justice, boundaries, and what happens inside us when unforgiveness takes root. Dr. Worthington also walks through his REACH model and offers practical help for those who feel stuck in pain, anger, or grief. This is a powerful, honest, and hope-filled conversation for anyone wrestling with what it means to forgive without pretending the wound never happened.

    Ev's Book https://a.co/d/01UMgKXo
    Ev's Website -https://www.evworthington-forgiveness.com/

    Timestamps

    00:08 Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing

    00:28 Welcome to the Unrefined Podcast

    00:51 Introducing Dr. Everett Worthington and the topic of forgiveness

    03:13 Dr. Worthington’s early work studying forgiveness

    05:36 The murder of Dr. Worthington’s mother

    07:41 Wrestling with anger after tragedy

    10:06 Realizing he had to face forgiveness personally

    12:29 Forgiveness does not erase justice

    14:56 Defining forgiveness through stress and coping

    17:12 Understanding the injustice gap

    19:37 Different biblical ways to respond to injustice

    21:57 Decisional forgiveness and emotional forgiveness

    24:17 Restraint, the brain, and choosing not to retaliate

    26:41 The difference between forgiveness and reconciliation

    29:00 Boundaries, toxic relationships, and reconciliation

    30:22 What it means to love your enemy

    32:50 The REACH model of forgiveness

    35:12 Giving the gift of forgiveness

    37:32 When hurt comes back after forgiving

    39:51 Anger, fear, and the body’s protective response

    42:14 Rumination and unforgiveness

    44:35 Vengeance, grudge-holding, and gender differences

    47:02 Decisional forgiveness, emotional forgiveness, and well-being

    49:07 Matthew 6 and “forgive to be forgiven”

    51:25 Forgiveness, salvation, and God’s judgment

    53:51 A word for listeners carrying deep wounds

    55:36 Practicing forgiveness over time

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  • E227 Finis?
    Sep 28 2026

    After four years, hundreds of conversations, strange rabbit trails, incredible guests, Bigfoot, Laurel Canyon, spiritual warfare, liminal spaces, theology, heart transformation—and more than a few things we still can’t explain—the Unrefined Podcast is signing off.

    For this final episode, Brandon is joined by Lindsy and Sandy to look back at how a couple of weird conversations became a podcast, how “Stairs in the Woods” helped launch the whole thing, and how years of exploring the seen and unseen changed the way they see the world, faith, people, and even themselves.

    They revisit some favorite episodes and guests, remember what happened behind the scenes, talk about the danger of going too far down the rabbit hole, and reflect on one of the biggest lessons Unrefined taught them: listen to people’s stories, hold some opinions loosely, leave room for mystery, and stay anchored to Jesus.

    But this isn’t simply about looking backward. Somewhere along the way, the conversation became a journey. The podcast may be ending, but “Unrefined” was never really about a podcast—or even the strange subjects they explored. It was about imperfect people willing to ask questions, grow, change their minds, and discover what all this information actually means for the way we live.

    So for now, we conclude our broadcast day.

    Good night, everybody.

    https://unrefined.life

    00:01:41 – We Now Conclude Our Broadcast Day
    00:03:50 – How Did Unrefined Even Get Started?
    00:05:53 – Stairs in the Woods: Where It All Began
    00:08:35 – When the Weirdness Started Getting Real
    00:10:49 – How the Podcast Changed the Way We See the World
    00:12:02 – Bigfoot, Cryptids & Opening Up to Possibility
    00:13:40 – A Bigger, More Complex Spiritual Realm
    00:15:32 – When the Supernatural Becomes Personal
    00:16:54 – Strong Opinions Held Loosely
    00:20:05 – Exploring Without Sensationalizing
    00:21:15 – The Episode That Almost Got Us Kicked Off YouTube
    00:22:22 – Where the Old Episodes Will Live
    00:23:46 – What Do We Do With Everything We Learned?
    00:24:38 – Listen to People’s Stories Before Judging Them
    00:27:50 – Nancy, Laurel Canyon & the Power of Telling Your Story
    00:28:56 – Looking Back at the Laurel Canyon Rabbit Hole
    00:30:25 – Behind the Scenes: The Episodes You Never Heard
    00:31:43 – Sandy, Editing & Four Years Behind the Curtain
    00:32:43 – Lindsy Confesses He’s Been AI the Whole Time
    00:34:19 – Coast to Coast & Other Early Influences
    00:35:00 – From Cryptids to Discipleship: Why Unrefined Was Different
    00:36:33 – The People and Friendships That Made It Worth It
    00:37:03 – When the Podcast Started Losing Its Shine
    00:38:55 – The Danger of Going Too Far Down the Rabbit Hole
    00:39:55 – What “Unrefined” Has Really Meant All Along
    00:41:20 – From a Conversation to a Journey
    00:42:14 – What Happens Next for Unrefined?
    00:43:00 – The End of the Unrefined Podcast

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  • E226 The Evidence Your Heart Is Collecting
    Sep 21 2026

    What if your heart was designed to experience God—not just know about Him?
    Brandon welcomes certified Heart Physics coach Jennifer Johnson back to Unrefined for a practical conversation about moving from fear to faith and from simply knowing biblical truth intellectually to actually believing and living from it in the heart. Jennifer shares personal stories involving fear, relationships, forgiveness, family struggles, healing, and the hidden beliefs that can quietly shape our reactions and circumstances. Together they explore how repeated thoughts and emotions persuade the heart, why circumstances often expose what we genuinely believe, and how renewing the mind becomes an intentional process of gathering new evidence around the truth of God’s Word. They also unpack Dr. Jim Richards’ Heart Physics approach, including Essential Heart Physics, relaxation, meditation, the “secret place,” community, and learning to encounter God at the heart level. The central challenge is simple but profound: we are always persuading our hearts of something—so what are we persuading them to believe?

    Monday Meditation with Jennifer on zoom (free) @11am CST Monday's

    Replays on Youtube

    https://www.jjohnsoncoach.com/

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    Timestamps

    00:00:04 – How Do You Persuade Your Heart?
    00:00:41 – Welcome Back Jennifer Johnson
    00:02:00 – From Fear to Faith
    00:05:20 – Building an Illusion & Gathering Evidence
    00:07:40 – How Thoughts Become Heart Beliefs
    00:10:03 – Forgiveness: Head Knowledge vs. Heart Knowledge
    00:12:21 – Sending Away the Pain
    00:14:42 – When “Fear Not” Becomes Real
    00:17:03 – Trusting God With Your Children
    00:19:15 – When God Exposes What the Heart Really Believes
    00:21:38 – Getting Real With God Without Shame
    00:24:05 – Brandon’s Journey Out of Religiosity
    00:26:17 – What Does It Mean to Persuade Your Heart?
    00:28:44 – How One Thought Becomes a Train of Thoughts
    00:31:07 – Religious Worrying & Collecting Evidence Against God
    00:33:10 – Mental Assent vs. Genuine Heart Belief
    00:35:24 – Healing, Pain & “Help My Unbelief”
    00:37:49 – Renewing the Mind Thought by Thought
    00:40:06 – Transformation Takes Effort
    00:42:30 – Secondary Gain & Hidden Heart Beliefs
    00:44:53 – You’re Always Persuading Your Heart
    00:47:16 – When Your First Reaction Begins to Change
    00:48:00 – What Is Heart Physics?
    00:49:26 – Essential Heart Physics & Heart Work
    00:51:44 – Why Essential Heart Physics Comes First
    00:54:03 – The Secret Place & Experiencing God
    00:56:06 – Jennifer’s Final Challenge & Prayer

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  • E225 A Pioneer's Journey
    Sep 14 2026

    Brandon and Lindsy invite Britton Smith, host of Pastor to Pioneer to share his journey from traditional church leadership into simple church and disciple-making movements—and the deeper transformation he discovered along the way. Britton opens up about the personal cost of leaving the institutional model, the impact on his marriage and identity, and the realization that simply changing church structures and discipleship tools doesn’t necessarily change the heart. The conversation explores performance-based Christianity, relational discipleship, dependence on the Holy Spirit, and the difference between doing the right things and actually becoming more like Jesus. Britton also shares a powerful supernatural encounter from his years in ministry and explains why true pioneering begins with what God is doing within us.to share his journey from traditional church leadership into simple church and disciple-making movements—and the deeper transformation he discovered along the way. Britton opens up about the personal cost of leaving the institutional model, the impact on his marriage and identity, and the realization that simply changing church structures and discipleship tools doesn’t necessarily change the heart. The conversation explores performance-based Christianity, relational discipleship, dependence on the Holy Spirit, and the difference between doing the right things and actually becoming more like Jesus. Britton also shares a powerful supernatural encounter from his years in ministry and explains why true pioneering begins with what God is doing within us.

    https://pastortopioneer.com/

    Timestamps

    00:02:50 – Britton’s Journey
    00:05:19 – Discovering the Supernatural
    00:07:40 – An Unexpected Deliverance Encounter
    00:09:43 – Are We Actually Making Disciples?
    00:11:13 – Experimenting With House Church
    00:13:37 – Discovering DMM & a Different Approach
    00:15:55 – Why Changing the Model Wasn’t Enough
    00:18:20 – COVID Exposes Dependency in the Church
    00:20:47 – Church Split & Losing 90% of the Congregation
    00:22:47 – Learning to Be the Church Without the Leaders
    00:24:59 – Beyond Changing Models & Methods
    00:27:26 – Marriage, Ministry & Facing His Own Brokenness
    00:29:30 – When Ministry Relationships Become Transactional
    00:31:54 – Realizing You Can’t Change People
    00:34:16 – DMM Tools Without Heart Transformation
    00:36:40 – Relational vs. Programmed Disciple Making
    00:38:50 – Following Jesus Without Forcing the Outcome
    00:41:11 – Are We Making Disciples or Gospel Spreaders?
    00:43:30 – How Does Real Spiritual Maturity Happen?
    00:45:50 – Obedience as Fruit, Not the Mechanism
    00:48:09 – Identity After Leaving the Church System
    00:50:12 – The Idol of Impact
    00:52:35 – The Story Behind Pastor to Pioneer
    00:55:01 – Helping Others Navigate the Transition
    00:57:29 – The Internal Journey of a Pioneer
    00:59:51 – The Wilderness Between Pastor and Pioneer
    01:02:13 – A Powerful Lesson About God’s Love
    01:04:17 – Britton’s Wildest Supernatural Encounter
    01:06:39 – The Power Is in Jesus’ Name, Not Your Volume
    01:09:01 – An Angel With a Flaming Sword
    01:11:26 – Bringing Heart Transformation Into Discipleship
    01:13:48 – You Can’t Give What You Don’t Have

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  • E224 Get Out of the Locker Room! Jesus Wants Us in the Game
    Sep 7 2026

    What happens when following Jesus becomes more about maintaining the institution than actually being the body of Christ? Brandon and Lindsy sit down with returning guest Jonathan Brenneman for a provocative conversation about church, authority, leadership, supernatural ministry, and the difference between spectator Christianity and active discipleship. Drawing from his years of missionary work in Brazil, Jonathan shares stories of healings, deliverance, evangelism, and encounters with the Holy Spirit that often happen far outside traditional church services—in homes, neighborhoods, recovery houses, restaurants, barbecues, and everyday life.

    Together they challenge hierarchical models of church leadership and explore what the New Testament actually portrays when believers gather: shared meals, dialogue, spiritual gifts, mutual edification, and the participation of the whole body. The conversation moves into tithing, institutional structures, servant leadership, the priesthood of all believers, women in ministry, house churches, spiritual authority, and the dangers of allowing tradition or position to become more authoritative than Scripture. Ultimately, Jonathan calls believers not simply to leave something behind, but to recover a participatory Christianity where every believer is equipped to follow Jesus, serve others, speak the Word, and carry the presence and power of God into ordinary life.

    Website/blog: GoToHeavenNow.com

    Email: Jonathan@GoToHeavenNow.com

    Timestamps

    00:00:28 – Welcome Back Jonathan Brenneman
    00:02:27 – From Missions to Rethinking Church
    00:04:55 – Healing, Miracles & Life Outside the Program
    00:07:20 – Tithing, Grace & Leaving Institutional Expectations
    00:09:41 – Ministry in the Streets of Brazil
    00:12:00 – Manipulation, Money & the Spirit of Religion
    00:14:22 – When Church Consumes the Mission
    00:16:38 – Moving from Spectator to Participant
    00:18:59 – The 59 “One Another” Commands
    00:21:25 – Spiritual Gifts Around the Table
    00:23:51 – Why Every Member Matters
    00:26:10 – Rethinking Leadership & Authority
    00:28:31 – Servant Leadership and Decentralized Church
    00:33:16 – Does Authority Come from Position?
    00:35:38 – Miracles Outside the Church Walls
    00:37:57 – Is Revival Simply Normal Christianity?
    00:40:16 – Receiving Jesus Through His Body
    00:42:42 – Does Restricting Participation Quench the Spirit?
    00:45:04 – Love, Miracles & Everyday Evangelism
    00:47:25 – Evangelism at Carnival
    00:49:43 – From Miracles to Making Disciples
    00:52:07 – Worship, Friendship & Christian Community
    00:54:29 – House Church, Heresy & Hierarchical Control
    00:58:47 – Why Participation Helps Test Teaching
    01:00:32 – Leaving Without Becoming Bitter
    01:02:47 – Finding Biblical Fellowship
    01:05:06 – Women and the Priesthood of All Believers
    01:09:46 – Do Women Have a Priestly Duty to Speak?
    01:11:58 – Women, Authority & Difficult New Testament Passages
    01:14:21 – Phoebe, Junia & Women in Leadership
    01:16:39 – Why Jesus Appeared First to Women
    01:19:01 – Church History vs. the Teaching of Jesus
    01:21:26 – Tradition, Scripture & Institutional Drift
    01:23:49 – Religion vs. Relationship
    01:25:52 – A Call Back to Participatory Christianity
    01:28:17 – Jonathan’s Resources & Closing

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  • E223 [Rewind] Marked by His Presence
    Aug 31 2026

    What if the greatest evidence of spiritual maturity isn’t how much theology we know, but how deeply we love God and the people around us? Brandon and Lindsy sit down with Dr. Rob Reimer, author of The Tenderness of Jesus and Soul Care, for a deeply personal conversation about encountering Jesus beyond doctrine. Rob shares his dramatic conversion, his experience through a nine-month “dark night of the soul,” and how seasons of suffering and surrender reshaped his understanding of intimacy with God. Together they explore the tenderness of Jesus, God’s sovereignty and human freedom, dying to self, authentic humility, religious performance, soul care, and why biblical knowledge must become lived transformation. Rob also shares the story behind The Tenderness of Jesus, written originally for his own children, and explains why the cross and eternity provide essential lenses for understanding God’s goodness amid suffering. The conversation closes with recommended classics on spiritual formation, a remarkable healing story from Brazil, and a prayer that we would become people unmistakably marked by having been with Jesus.

    https://renewalinternational.org/
    Rob's book-https://amzn.to/46nj1nz

    Timestamps

    00:00:05 – Do You Love God and People More?
    00:00:43 – Introducing Dr. Rob Reimer
    00:03:06 – Rob’s Background and the Christian & Missionary Alliance
    00:05:29 – A Life-Changing Encounter with Jesus
    00:07:53 – Brandon’s Dark Night of the Soul
    00:09:46 – What the Dark Night of the Soul Really Means
    00:12:13 – Revival, Character and Dying to Self
    00:14:32 – When the Presence of God Returned
    00:16:56 – Sovereignty, Freedom and Human Choice
    00:19:19 – God’s Goodness in a Broken World
    00:21:40 – The Story Behind The Tenderness of Jesus
    00:23:59 – Writing to the Ones You Love About the One You Love
    00:26:19 – Soul Care, Freedom and Fullness in Christ
    00:28:39 – Emptying the Soul Before Filling It
    00:30:43 – Knowledge vs. Actual Spiritual Maturity
    00:33:05 – The Religious Spirit and the Condition of the Heart
    00:35:32 – Self-Focus, Ministry and Becoming Obsessed with Jesus
    00:37:38 – Authentic Humility and Weakness
    00:39:44 – Seeing God Through the Cross and Eternity
    00:42:07 – Suffering, Homesickness and Our Eternal Citizenship
    00:43:59 – Tenderness, Intimacy and the Holiness of God
    00:46:00 – Why God’s Love Leads to Transformation
    00:48:18 – Jesus’ Tenderness Toward Sinners
    00:50:41 – The Cross, Love and Dying to Self
    00:53:07 – Rob’s Favorite Classic Soul-Care Books
    00:55:14 – Ancient and Modern Spiritual Formation Resources
    00:57:36 – Theology, Encounter and Knowing Jesus
    00:59:53 – A Remarkable Healing in Brazil
    01:02:09 – Where to Find Rob and Closing Prayer

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  • E213 Can Faith Rewrite What Runs in the Family?
    Jun 22 2026

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    What if your family patterns, addictions, fears, and trauma are not the final word? In this episode, Brandon and team talk with Dr. Luman Wing about epigenetics, transgenerational sin, addiction, sanctification, and how the gospel may reach even deeper into our embodied lives than most Christians have imagined.

    https://amzn.to/3QR8z3H- Dr. Lu's book
    https://lumanwing.org/

    Timestamps:
    01:00 Introducing Dr. Luman Wing and Genes of Eden

    03:00 Lu’s encounter with the Jesus Movement and Lonnie Frisbee

    05:00 Science, design, and Dean Kenyon’s classroom moment

    07:00 Blood, biochemistry, biotechnology, and gene therapy

    08:00 How theology and epigenetics came together

    09:00 Epigenetics explained in plain English

    12:00 Stress, fear, habits, prayer, and gene expression

    13:00 Augustine, Pelagianism, and inherited sin

    15:00 Adam, shame, fear, and the transgenerational imprint

    17:00 Transformation, neuroplasticity, and becoming new creatures

    19:00 Addiction, dopamine, anticipation, and “holy wanting”

    21:00 Why Leviticus may be more scientific than we think

    23:00 The peace offering, adrenal glands, stress, and surrender

    25:00 Heart, mind, soul, brain, and the emotional response

    27:00 The amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex

    31:00 Traducianism, the soul, and inherited human brokenness

    34:00 Junk DNA, non-coding RNA, and the mystery of the soul

    36:00 Being born again and the mystery of redemption

    39:00 Does salvation change us epigenetically?

    41:00 Romans 7, Romans 8, and progressive sanctification

    44:00 The worm, the butterfly, and imaginal cells

    46:00 Trauma, PTSD, the amygdala, and getting stuck in loops

    48:00 Reason, revelation, Scripture, and renewing the mind

    50:00 Stillness with God as a real mental workout

    53:00 Exercise, swimming, bilateral movement, and healing patterns

    54:00 Generational curses, inherited patterns, and epigenetics

    55:00 Holocaust trauma and transgenerational imprinting

    58:00 Forgiveness as a powerful interruptor of inherited trauma

    01:00:00 Addiction, family patterns, and why DNA is not destiny

    01:03:00 Trauma in family history and what may carry forward

    01:05:00 Why there is no single “alcoholism gene”

    01:07:00 Practically learning stillness, peace, and emotional regulation

    01:09:00 Why Christian fellowship matters biologically and spiritually

    01:10:00 Identity, becoming, and Dr. Wing’s next book

    01:12:00 Potential, formation, consolidation, and identity

    01:16:00 Leviticus, burnt offerings, and absolute surrender

    01:18:00 Why science “screams” the glory of God

    01:19:00 Lu’s personal testimony of trauma and God’s intervention

    01:21:00 Hope for believers stuck in family patterns

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    1 Std. und 27 Min.