In today’s episode, we explore the often-confusing intersection between civil divorce and Catholic annulment, unpacking what each process truly means—and what it does not. We discuss the legal, emotional, and spiritual weight carried by both, especially when faith, identity, and high-conflict relationships are involved. This conversation centers on clarity, boundaries, and honoring lived experience in the midst of profound change.

Key Topics Covered:

• Divorce and annulment serve different purposes

⁃ Divorce provides legal closure around property, finances, and custody.

⁃ A Catholic annulment is a spiritual process declaring a sacramental marriage invalid from the start.

⁃ One does not replace or override the other.

• Both processes carry deep emotional weight

⁃ Divorce can trigger grief, anger, guilt, relief, or ongoing pain, especially with children involved.

⁃ Annulment may feel like erasure, rejection, or betrayal, particularly for non-initiators.

⁃ All emotional responses are valid and deserve compassion.

• Annulment cannot be enforced through civil law

⁃ Courts have no jurisdiction over Church annulments.

⁃ A spouse cannot legally require an annulment as part of a divorce settlement.

⁃ Using annulment as leverage is manipulation, not a legal or moral obligation.

• High-conflict dynamics can weaponize faith

⁃ Annulment may be used to protect reputation or shift blame.

⁃ It can rewrite shared history and compound emotional harm.

⁃ Ongoing contact, especially through co-parenting, can slow healing.

• Your lived experience remains valid

⁃ Church decisions are made by human institutions and are not infallible.

⁃ An annulment outcome does not define your worth or negate your memories.

⁃ Healing comes from truth, clarity, and self-protection—not control.

“Annulment does not erase memories, children, or emotional bonds. It's a spiritual declaration, not a reset button.” - Ksenia Muench

Grab this handy tool to see the differences side by side

Legal Divorce Vs Catholic Annulment

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered dives into entrepreneurship with the founder and the managing partner of Esse Law, Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal. We talk about the right corp structure for your goals, financing, do’s and don’ts for investors, exit strategy, and much more.

Did you know that out of $330 billion invested (yes, BILLIONS), only 2% was invested into female-founded businesses?

Tune in to find out more.

Key Topics Covered:

• Legal Structure for your business.

⁃ We discuss legal business structures that go over the differences between when you are doing it on your own and when you are looking for investors.

⁃ We cover the mistakes new founders make and some practical advice on what founders should do before raising money.

• Looking for Capital

⁃ In this part of the conversation, we go over what investors are looking for before writing a check.

⁃ Shaheen covers what a good pitch looks like and why it is important to present in a concise manner: Investors invest in YOU.

⁃ “Fun” fact: men founders get funded more easily compared to their female counterparts - why do you think that is?

• Exit strategy

⁃ We discuss when it may be the right time to exit, and the answer may surprise you.

⁃ Shaheen goes over the proper planning strategy prior to your planned departure.

• Final Thoughts

⁃ We are having some fun with a rapid Q&A session with our guest.

⁃ We cover key takeaways for the brave souls who want to make a difference in this world and how to do it right.

⁃ Connect with our guest.

“You have to be brave and optimistic, but not overly confident… If you can feel like you're on purpose and either that you are being inspired or that you're inspiring other people - If you can make it something larger than just yourself, it will get you through some of those darker, tougher times.” - Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal

Connect with Shaheen Sheik-Sadhal:

Website: https://esselaw.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Life after divorce doesn’t end when the paperwork is finalized. In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we explore how divorce can become a catalyst for emotional healing, personal growth, and empowered relationships.

I’m joined by JJ Flizanes, empowerment strategist, relationship and wellness expert, and podcast host, who shares powerful insights on emotional awareness, identity shifts, and intentional healing after divorce.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why the emotional aftermath of divorce can last for years
• The anatomy of emotion and why emotional reactions are normal
• Why therapy alone isn’t always effective
• How divorce reshapes identity and creates emotional blocks
• Ways to release emotional patterns and rebuild self-trust
• Letting go of the “old self” and stepping into a new identity
• Moving from survival mode to true empowerment
• Shifting focus from lack to possibility

14-day Manifestation Challenge starting January 5th

https://jj-flizanes.mykajabi.com/14-day-manifestation-challenge-1

Bonus Resource:

A downloadable worksheet is available to help you reflect on emotional patterns, reconnect with yourself, and begin the healing process discussed in this episode.

Life After Divorce Worksheet

“Your comfort zone keeps you comfortable, but if you want more or better, you have to pass through the comfort zone into something scary.” - JJ Flizanes

Connect with JJ Flizanes:

Website: https://jjflizanes.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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In today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I explore why more women are choosing to stay single—and why this shift is accelerating. Current statistics show that over 37% of women are opting out of romantic partnerships, with projections suggesting that number could reach 50% by 2035. So what’s driving this change?

I share my personal story that led me to opt out of dating, and unpack more reasons behind this shift. The biggest threat to men's loneliness is not another man, but a woman who is fed up with half efforts, not being seen or heard, and who finally knows her worth and chooses herself.

Whether you’re single by choice, happily in a relationship, or feeling frustrated by today’s dating dynamics, this episode is for you. Get comfortable—and let’s get into it.

Topics Covered in This Episode:

• Why women are choosing to stay single
• Modern dating challenges and dating fatigue
• Emotional labor and relationship imbalance
• Women, independence, and self-prioritization
• Redefining love, fulfillment, and partnership

Perfect For Listeners Interested In:

• Women and singleness
• Modern dating culture
• Relationships and emotional health
• Personal growth and independence
• Feminine empowerment and choice

“Why we're choosing to stay single? Because it feels lighter. It feels more peaceful. There is no drama.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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Today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered uses the metaphor of a toxic relationship to unpack what happens when your car turns out to be a “lemon.” Ksenia sits down with lemon law attorney Michelle Fonseca-Kamana of West Coast Lemons APC to explain how lemon laws actually work, what qualifies as a defect, and the myths that confuse most buyers.

Michelle breaks down why repeated repair attempts matter, how safety issues can fast-track your rights, and why documentation is your strongest protection. They also discuss attorney fees, strict timelines, and the risks of used cars, “as is” sales, and new or experimental brands.

It’s an empowering conversation that helps consumers, especially women who are often dismissed at dealerships, understand their rights, protect themselves, and walk away from bad cars before they become toxic relationships.

Key Topics Covered:

• Lemon Car “red flags.”

⁃ The Lemon Law is legally defined

⁃ What makes your car a lemon?

⁃ Does having a warranty mean you can’t file your case under Lemon Law?

• “Breakup” Process

⁃ We are discussing steps to take once you think your car is a lemon.

⁃ How long does the process usually take? It really depends.

⁃ Worst car manufacturer to deal with.

⁃ The most frequent car brands with a lemon.

• “Rebound” Rides

⁃ Are there “healthier” car brands to try post lemon “breakup”?

⁃ We dive into tips on how to avoid getting another lemon.

⁃ We also break down new vs certified pre-owned vs pre-owned: know the difference and don’t believe everything you hear at a dealership.

• Final Thoughts

⁃ Our guest shares things she wishes you knew about cars.

⁃ Tips on how to be effective and get the results you want when working with a lemon law attorney.

⁃ Reach out to West Coast Lemon APC to get the exclusive Car Buying 101 guide.

“Knowledge gives you confidence. Once you have that roadmap, you’re better able to stand up for yourself at the dealership.” - Michelle Fonseca-Kamana

Connect with Michelle Fonseca-Kamana:

Website: https://westcoastlemons.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-fonseca-kamana-lemonlawattorney/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/westcoastlemons/?hl=en

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

In today’s episode, I’m getting a little personal and diving into the often-overlooked topic of boundaries in the dating world—yes, those things we all pretend to have until feelings get involved. I’m sharing my own experiences and breaking down what dating single moms can really look like. Spoiler: it’s not always snack time and superhero movies… but sometimes it is. We’ll also get into why some people tap out before they even tap in, and trust me, the reasons can be wild. It’s all real talk, a little laughter, and hopefully a clearer picture of what you’re signing up for—or running from.

Key Topics Covered:

• Current Dating Culture

⁃ Dating after divorce is unavoidable unless you decide to swear it off for good.

⁃ How to lose a guy in 10 days today.

• Dating Single Moms

⁃ Is it a fun time or a boundary?

⁃ Why dating single moms is a privilege.

⁃ Why dating single moms is a no-fly zone.

• Boundaries in Dating

⁃ Why I don’t date single dads, and it has nothing to do with the children.

⁃ Why ex ex-partners always have a special place in our hearts when we share children?

⁃ It is never over with the ex-partner if you have a cordial and mutually respectful co-parenting relationship.

• Lessons Learned

⁃ I talk about emotionally processing statements that can be hurtful or offensive.

⁃ I discuss how to filter out and let go of things that are not relevant or have no impact on our lives.

⁃ I cover how these experiences teach us to establish stronger boundaries and help us elevate.

“Dating is an inevitable part of after-divorce life, unless you decided to swear off dating for good, which is not that challenging, considering how messed up dating culture is today.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

Today we’re sitting down with the incredible Life Coach, Jacqueline Hawk Crichton, who helps us explore what truly happens when we give ourselves permission to ask — to ask for what we want, to set boundaries, and to allow ourselves to be seen and heard.

Have you ever wondered what might have happened if you had simply asked? Because now you know what happens when you don’t — you’re living that version of your life today.

In this conversation, we’ll dive into how to overcome the fear of being labeled as “too much,” “harsh,” or “entitled,” and how to face the fear of rejection head-on. We’ll also explore how to stop standing in our own way so we can reach our goals and create the life we dream of.

So get comfy, grab a snack, and let’s dive in!

Key Topics Covered:

• Psychology and Mindset of Asking

⁃ Common fears behind asking

⁃ Is there a difference between a powerful ask to advocate for yourself and being entitled?

• Effective Way of Asking

⁃ Core principles of the ask

⁃ Does reading your audience in terms of timing and context matter? Or is it using, looking for a way to hide?

⁃ Common mistakes to avoid

• How the ability to ask can change your life

⁃ Professional career growth

⁃ Personal fulfilling relationships

⁃ The outcome of the divorce settlement

• Questions to ponder

⁃ What is the best ask you have ever made?

⁃ Is there an ask you regret?

⁃ Would you rather ask or regret not asking?

• Final Thoughts

⁃ The struggle to ask is real

⁃ We all seem as if we are waiting for permission without realizing we already have it

⁃ How to learn to feel empowered to advocate for yourself, and why it is easier as we get older

“We will regret more not asking for something than if we do.” - Jacqueline Hawk Crichton

Connect with Jacqueline Hawk Crichton:

Website: https://www.soarcc.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

In this episode, I’m diving into answering a million-dollar question - Is It Truly ever Over?

The divorce papers are signed, the court dates are behind you, and legally — it’s over. But what happens when your ex just won’t let go? Today, we are unpacking one of the most difficult and emotionally challenging realities: life after a high-conflict divorce, especially when one person can’t — or won’t — move on even if on the surface it looks like they have.

We explore what “final” really means when you're dealing with an obsessive ex, the signs of post-divorce harassment or emotional entanglement, and how to protect your peace, your boundaries, and your future. From co-parenting challenges to stalking, manipulation, or continued legal threats, the fight can often continue long after the ink is dry.

If your divorce is final but the drama continues, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone.

Key Topics Covered:

• Forced Presence of Ex

⁃ When your ex continues to show up in your life despite the divorce being final.

⁃ How do they create situations where you’re forced to interact or respond?

• Tactics used to maintain engagement and control

⁃ What “no-contact” ideally looks like — and why it’s hard in high-conflict cases.

⁃ Indirect contact through mutual friends, kids, or social media.

⁃ Provoking responses through others or triggering situations.

⁃ Unspoken threats

• Obsession vs Closure

⁃ Signs that your ex is not just angry — but obsessed.

⁃ What if it looks like they have moved on, but still won’t let you go?

• Why?

⁃ Does WHY really matter?

⁃ Shifting focus from their motives to your protection.

• Light at the end of the tunnel

⁃ The slow burn of situations improving over time in high-conflict divorces.

⁃ What you can do to protect yourself.

⁃ Advice from listeners?

“Will it ever stop? It will take years and a lot of actions on her part—creating distance, managing her responses, and letting her boundaries evolve and adjust based on her former spouse’s actions.” - Ksenia Muench

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com