The way I work in my 30s looks different because of what I did in my 20s.

In this episode, I break down five things that shaped that decade—from acting on the “what ifs” and pursuing genuine interests to ignoring the wrong opinions, embracing pressure, and learning from people who had already been where I wanted to go.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Why My 30s Look Different

02:30 Ask “What If?”

05:04 Put Action Behind the What If

08:49 Say Yes Before You’re Ready

12:41 Pursue Genuine Curiosity

16:27 Stop Outsourcing Your Interests

18:56 The Signal-to-Noise Ratio

21:19 Build Around What Won’t Change

24:04 Not Everyone’s Opinion Matters

26:29 “It’s All Cringe Until It Works”

27:50 Doubt Is Only Dangerous When It Becomes Yours

32:46 What Going All In Actually Feels Like

36:45 Risk, Reward and Uncertainty

38:31 Can You Do It for 10 Years?

41:24 Learn From People Who Have Done It

43:57 Look for Patterns Worth Adopting

45:56 Who Is Actually Worth Learning From?

47:34 Why I Started Reading in South Korea

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Nick Saban’s “Importance of Nothing” speech got me thinking about entitlement—what we believe we’re owed and how that mindset shapes the way we work, respond, and live.

In this episode, I break down why hard work doesn’t guarantee success, why process matters more than outcomes, how to remove the habits and interferences holding you back, and a simple three-part entitlement detox: audit, shift, respond.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Go One More Method
01:56 Nick Saban's “Importance of Nothing”
04:12 You Are Entitled to Nothing
06:49 The Pain of Discipline vs. Disappointment
08:33 Hard Work Does Not Guarantee Success
11:00 When Nobody Bought From BPN
13:13 The Just-World Trap
14:42 Intentions vs. Outputs
17:37 Process Over Outcomes
20:44 Win the Next Play
24:20 Stop Adding. Start Subtracting.
27:07 Your Words Become Your Rudder
30:03 Why People Fear Success
34:17 Internal vs. External Locus of Control
36:35 The Entitlement Detox: Audit, Shift, Respond
41:16 Courage Requires Uncertainty

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Stef joins me again to talk about marriage, faith, family, community, and the season we’re currently walking through.

We unpack how following Christ has changed our relationship, what we’re learning about love and respect, why we’re craving deeper community, our desire to move back to Tennessee, and learning to fear God over people.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Intro

00:50 US Open Tennis Obsession

04:10 Kids, Cookies & Family Routines

06:56 The Sweet Treat Debate

11:16 How Faith Changed Our Marriage

17:51 Love Languages, Love & Respect

24:49 Our Current Social Life in Texas

30:19 Why We’re Craving Real Community

31:38 The Tradeoffs of This Season

33:25 Brotherhood, Friendship & Accountability

37:09 Why We’re Moving Back to Tennessee

40:09 Our Favorite Memories Together

50:56 Our BPN Supplement Staples

56:19 Fearing God Instead of People

01:03:58 Closing

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