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Early starts, muddy football boots, endless miles and weekends spent standing on the sidelines. Being a parent with a sporty child can sometimes feel like running your own taxi service. But would you swap it?

Championship-winning racing driver Rebecca Jackson joined me on the latest episode of The MarshyCast to talk about motorsport, parenting and why those journeys taking our children to their favourite activities might be more precious than we realise.

From behind the wheel to the racetrack

Rebecca has built a successful career in motorsport, so naturally I wanted to know how it all began.

What first inspired her to become a racing driver?

And in a sport traditionally dominated by men, did she face resistance simply because she was a woman?

Her answer might surprise you.

We talked about her journey into racing and the experiences that helped shape her career.

Are we encouraging our children or choosing their hobbies for them?

As parents, it's only natural to want our children to enjoy the things we love.

If you're passionate about football, you might dream of seeing your child playing every weekend. If you love motorsport, perhaps you'd love them to follow you onto the track.

But where's the line between encouraging them and pushing them towards something we'd choose for ourselves?

Rebecca and I discussed the importance of allowing children to discover their own interests, even when those interests are completely different from ours.

After all, it's their hobby. We're just the transport!

The Sunday morning taxi service

Anyone with children involved in sport will recognise the routine.

The early alarm. The kit bags. The rush to get everyone ready. The drive to a sports ground that seems to be miles away.

And, of course, the journey home.

It can sometimes feel like your entire weekend revolves around getting your children from one place to another.

But Rebecca and I talked about something that many parents probably wouldn't admit when they're dragging themselves out of bed on a freezing Sunday morning.

We actually love it.

There's something special about watching your children enjoy themselves, develop their skills and discover what they're capable of.

And one day, when they're older and no longer need a lift, those early mornings might be exactly what we miss.

Why the best conversations happen in the car

Another interesting part of our conversation was about the time we spend with our children while driving.

Sometimes, trying to get a conversation going at home can be hard work.

Ask how school went and you might get a one-word answer.

But put them in the passenger seat, start driving and suddenly they begin telling you things.

We discussed why those journeys can create opportunities for conversations that might not happen around the dinner table.

Perhaps it's because you're sitting side by side, without the pressure of looking directly at one another.

Whatever the reason, those drives can become much more than simply getting from A to B.

Our parents did it too!

Of course, this isn't a new experience.

Rebecca and I also looked back at our own childhoods and remembered how our parents did exactly the same thing for us.

They drove us to activities, supported our interests and made sure we got where we needed to be.

Although we agreed that the cars they were driving were probably nowhere near as comfortable as the ones we've got today!

It's funny how you don't always appreciate those little sacrifices until you become a parent yourself.

The things parents give up

We also talked about how far parents are willing to go to support their children's sporting ambitions.

Some have admitted missing major events in their own lives because they were busy taking their children to matches, training sessions or competitions.

It's a reminder of how much time, effort and commitment can go into helping children pursue something they love.

But perhaps the most interesting thing is that, despite all the early mornings and rearranged weekends, many parents wouldn't change a thing.

Because eventually the taxi service closes.

And suddenly you'd give anything for one more Sunday morning journey.

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What do you do when you're trying to fix a racing car and the part you need isn't available? If you're Sam Lovegrove, apparently you start looking at a cow's milking equipment!

Mechanic and television presenter Sam Lovegrove joined me on the latest episode of The MarshyCast to talk about his new television series, Sam Lovegrove: Race Mechanic, which premiered on Quest on Monday 19th October.

The series follows Sam as he helps owners prepare their racing cars and motorcycles for competition, tackling mechanical problems, tight deadlines and the pressure of getting everything ready for race day.

But as we discovered, the real challenge doesn't necessarily end when the vehicle leaves the workshop.

A Lotus Elise with a difference

The first episode features a heavily modified Lotus Elise, with owner Steve Butts hoping to achieve a hill climb time of under 34 seconds.

We talked about the challenges involved in preparing the car and one decision that might surprise motorsport enthusiasts.

Sam decided to add traction control.

Now, if you're trying to make a car faster around a track, you might expect the opposite. Removing electronic assistance is often seen as a way of giving drivers more direct control.

So why would Sam want to put it back in?

It's one of the technical decisions we explored, and a reminder that making a racing car quicker isn't always as straightforward as removing parts and adding more power.

What has Alice the cow got to do with racing?

One of my favourite parts of our conversation involved the rather unexpected appearance of a cow called Alice.

As Sam explained, being a mechanic sometimes means finding a solution using whatever materials and parts are available.

And apparently, that can include a tube from Alice's milking equipment!

It's certainly not the sort of thing you'd expect to find on the parts list for a racing machine.

But it perfectly illustrates the resourcefulness that mechanics sometimes need when faced with an unexpected problem.

After all, when you're working against the clock, finding a practical solution can matter more than where the part originally came from.

The real test begins at the racetrack

We also talked about the difference between working in a fully equipped garage and trying to fix something when you're actually at a race meeting.

In the workshop, you've got your tools, equipment and a familiar environment.

At the racetrack, you've got time pressure, unpredictable conditions and a driver who's desperate to get back out and compete.

So I asked Sam whether that's where a mechanic truly earns his reputation.

Is it one thing to build and prepare a brilliant machine, but something else entirely to keep it running when everything starts going wrong?

It's a question that gets right to the heart of the new series.

Is finishing more important than winning?

I finished our conversation with a question about pride.

For a racing driver, the ultimate goal is often obvious: cross the finish line first.

But does a mechanic see things differently?

Would Sam rather watch a car he's worked on win the race, or see it complete the event without a single mechanical problem?

It's an interesting distinction between the satisfaction of engineering a reliable machine and the thrill of achieving the best possible result.

And it's exactly the kind of challenge viewers can expect to see throughout Sam Lovegrove: Race Mechanic.

Sam Lovegrove: Race Mechanic began on Monday 19th October at 9pm on Quest.

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If you could go back and spend just one day in a previous chapter of your life, which day would you choose?

It's one of the questions I put to singer-songwriter Emma Stevens when she joined me on the latest episode of The MarshyCast.

Emma has a new single called Chapters, and it gave us the perfect opportunity to talk about looking back, moving forward and how life doesn't always follow the story we originally imagined.

When life doesn't go to plan

We've all experienced moments when something didn't work out the way we wanted.

Perhaps an opportunity disappeared, a relationship changed or life simply took us in a completely unexpected direction.

At the time, those moments can feel like setbacks. But when you look back years later, sometimes you realise they led you somewhere better than you'd ever planned.

Emma and I talked about those experiences and how our perspective changes as we move through different stages of life.

It's a theme that connects beautifully with her new song Chapters.

When a personal song becomes somebody else's story

One of the most interesting parts of our conversation was about the relationship between an artist and their audience.

Writing a song can be an incredibly personal experience. The lyrics might come from a particular moment, feeling or memory that means something very specific to the songwriter.

But once that song is released, something fascinating happens.

Listeners begin connecting it to their own experiences.

A song written about one situation might remind somebody else of a completely different moment in their life.

So I wanted to know: does the meaning of a song change once other people start making it part of their own story?

We talked about that special connection between Emma and her fans, and how music can bring people together through experiences they might never otherwise have shared.

Emma Stevens heads back out on tour

Emma is also preparing to return to the stage, with her upcoming tour including a visit to Southampton.

We talked about what audiences can expect from the shows and why performing live creates such a personal connection between an artist and the people listening.

For fans who have followed Emma's music over the years, the tour offers another opportunity to share those songs and the stories behind them.

If Emma's life were a film...

Of course, I couldn't let Emma escape without a few more unusual questions.

If somebody decided to make a film of her life, which actor would she choose to play her?

And perhaps more importantly, which of her own songs would she choose to play over the closing credits?

Then there was the chance to revisit the past.

If Emma could spend just one day in any previous chapter of her life, which would she choose?

It's an interesting question because the obvious answer isn't necessarily the right one.

Would you revisit your happiest day, return to a moment you'd forgotten or choose an ordinary day with someone you miss?

Writing the next chapter

We finished by looking forward rather than back.

After talking about Chapters, the experiences that shape us and the moments that don't go according to plan, I asked Emma one final question:

If you could write the opening sentence of your next chapter, what would you want it to say?

It's a question that probably deserves a little thought from all of us.

Because while we can't rewrite the chapters that have already happened, there's still plenty of story left to tell.

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