“Midlife is not the beginning of the end — it’s the beginning of alignment.”
Today, I’m in this milestone of 200th episodes of The BraveHearted Woman Podcast, and I’m reflecting on nearly five years, 200 conversations, and countless lessons I’ve learned while walking alongside brave, bold women navigating midlife. This episode is both a celebration and a heartfelt message to every woman who feels stuck, hesitant, or afraid to step into her next season.
I share what 200 episodes have taught me about midlife transformation, reinvention, and confidence — starting with this truth: playing small always costs more than being brave. Midlife is not the beginning of the end; it’s the beginning of alignment. It’s a season where clarity increases, courage is required, and ignoring your calling becomes more painful than answering it.
In this solo episode, I talk honestly about fear — how it whispers, sounds reasonable, and keeps so many women delaying their dreams. I address the lies that tell us it’s too late, that our best years are behind us, or that someone else is more qualified. I’ve learned that fear, not age or lack of resources, is the real enemy of midlife growth and purpose.
I also share what I’ve witnessed in hundreds of interviews with courageous women: women who have faced abuse, loss, incarceration, health challenges, menopause, career upheaval, and identity shifts — yet still chose bravery. I’ve learned that courage isn’t a personality trait; it’s something we cultivate through small, faithful decisions made one step at a time.
This episode speaks directly to women over 40 and 50 who are longing for clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether you’re considering a midlife career change, starting over at 50, launching a business, or redefining success and joy in this season, I remind you that there is no perfect time — only the decision to move forward.
As I reflect on 200 episodes, I talk about consistency, obedience, and showing up even when it felt uncomfortable or uncertain. I share why regret is far heavier than the risk of trying, why we don’t outgrow our calling, but we do outgrow our containers, and why endings are often necessary for new beginnings in midlife.
This episode is an invitation to stop waiting, stop shrinking, and stop negotiating with fear. You don’t need to leap — you just need to decide. One brave step can change the entire trajectory of your life.
After 200 episodes, my question to you is the same as it’s always been: Is it time for you to find your brave and live your dreams?
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:11 - This is my 200th episode!!
1:52 - Why our brains resist change
3:33 - How midlife is not the end, but a new beginning
5:09 - Lesson #1: Playing small always costs more than being brave
7:18 - Lesson #2: Many midlife women decide to play small
9:36 - Lesson #3: Many women are afraid to be invisible in midlife transition
12:20 - Lesson #4: Midlife women can do hard things
14:29 - Lesson #5: There is no right time
19:40 - Lesson #6: You don’t outgrow your calling
20:53 - Questions to ask yourself today
Quotations:
“Procrastination has a price tag, and many women are paying for it with their calling.”
“Courage is not a personality trait; it’s something you cultivate.”
“Regret is heavier than the risk of doing something afraid.”
“Brave doesn’t mean reckless — it means responsive to the calling you feel.”
“One obedience step can change the...