In this episode, the host shares intimate stories from Tonga, American Samoa, Hawai'i, and Aotearoa about couples blending different cultural traditions—weavers and carvers, feast-makers and dockworkers, hula and city rhythms—who learn to create stronger lives through mutual learning and small acts of reciprocity.

Drawing on island wisdom and literary voices, the episode explores emotional intelligence in relationships, inviting listeners to listen deeply, make space for both worlds, and build shared paths where every thread is honored.

Aloha — Host Ruth Kongaika explores whether emotional intelligence and artificial intelligence can coexist, emphasizing that while AI excels at processing information and boosting efficiency, it cannot feel meaning, grief, love, or belonging. This episode focuses on human responsibility, the danger of emotional outsourcing, and why EQ cannot be replaced by tools.

The key message: role clarity — let EQ be your compass and AI your tool. When emotional intelligence leads, technology serves; when ignored, technology shapes behavior. Pause to reflect on where you can bring more emotional awareness into your relationship with technology.

Aloha, malolele, and talufa.

This episode explores how Hawaiian values like ho‘oponopono, laulima, and mana can help us balance artificial intelligence with emotional intelligence. It contrasts mainland efficiency with island presence and offers simple practices— a 60-second digital pause, an Aloha reflection journal, and daily acts of connection—to keep our humanity at the center of tech-driven life.

This episode explores how body image affects tweens and teens and why worth goes far beyond appearance.

Hosts examine how social media and comparison shape self-image and teach a simple three-step EQ tool to name feelings, spot triggers, and question harmful thoughts.

Featuring island-rooted stories, practical language for families, and guidance on getting professional help when needed.

Aloha, malolelei, and talofa. Welcome back to Aloha EQ, where we blend emotional intelligence with island wisdom to help you soften a heavy December.

Travel through Hawaii, Samoa, Tonga, Tahiti, Fiji, and the Cook Islands with stories of food, music, and open doors that create belonging. Learn simple island swaps — a shared meal, one song, an invitation — that build nervous-system safety and connection.

Come with me and take away three tiny systems: a 24-hour repair, a 90-second daily connection, and a 10-minute weekly check-in, plus the 60–90 second Aloha Reset (Acknowledge, Lower, Observe, Honor, Act small) to use when the holidays feel overwhelming.

What happens when a blonde, blue-eyed girl from Utah marries a dark-skinned boy from a tiny island in Tonga - and then decides to talk honestly about bias, culture, and love on a podcast?

In this episode of The Aloha EQ Podcast, I'm inviting you into a tender, real conversation about racial bias, prejudice, and fear of "other" - for ALL OF US, no matter where we come from or what we look like. We'll explore the jokes we grew up with, the quiet comments we don't question, and how those little things shape the way our children see people who are different from them.

This isn't about blaming one race or defending another. It's about noticing our own patterns, choosing curiosity over fear, and learning how to love wider and deeper than we were taught.

*Hit play, then ask yourself: What's one old story or joke I'm ready to retire so my grandchildren never inherit it? And, if this episode stirs something in you, share it with someone you love and keep the conversation going. Mahalo nui loa, Ruth

Your latest episode of The Aloha EQ Podcast titled "Navigator's Star" beautifully intertwines emotional intelligence with Polynesian island wisdom. The use of the canoe-building metaphor and the sacred ritual of purpose-setting establishes a powerful narrative that encourages listeners to start their day with intention and clarity. The poetic and spiritual elements evoke a deep sense of connection to nature, community, and ancestral values, which enriches the emotional intelligence theme with cultural resonance. This episode serves as a calming and inspiring guide to grounding oneself in purpose amid life's uncertainties, making it both meaningful and motivational for your audience. The closing imagery of fire and the sky reinforces resilience and hope in a compelling way.

A podcast episode blending emotional intelligence and Polynesian values to help parents connect with their teens. Ruth Kongaika shares practical strategies — from understanding teen brain development to using side-by-side conversations, setting aloha-style boundaries, and the four-step calm canoe method — so parents can balance firm expectations with compassion.

Learn simple tools like the value-limit-consequence formula, the three E's for naming emotions, friend-fielders, pre-decisions, and the three R's for handling failure. This episode offers short scripts, cultural context, and ways to shift from manager to mentor while keeping family belonging at the center.

Resources and prompts are available in Ruth's guide Helping Parents of Teens Navigate Challenges with Compassion and Wisdom, and listeners are invited to apply these EQ practices at home to build trust, reduce secrecy, and prepare teens for independence with love.