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Ever catch yourself rewriting someone’s behavior just to keep the story alive? In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t, Big Slick breaks down why we ignore red flags in relationships and at work—and how chemistry, hope, and ego convince us to excuse behavior that should’ve ended the conversation early.

We unpack a raw listener letter that starts with passion and ends in chaos, separating intensity from danger. From emotional ultimatums to property damage and obsessive control, this conversation shows why patterns matter more than promises. If behavior keeps repeating, escalating, or coming without real accountability, it’s not a phase—it’s a preview.

Big Slick introduces a simple framework to spot the truth fast: frequency, intensity, and recovery. How often does it happen? How extreme does it get? And do they actually take responsibility and change? When those answers slide the wrong way, your nervous system isn’t being dramatic—it’s being accurate.

The same logic applies at work. A boss who ignores burnout, piles on seven-day weeks, and dismisses boundaries is telling you exactly who they are. We cover how to document behavior, set written limits, and decide when the paycheck isn’t worth the cost to your peace.

If you’re tired of chaos, mixed signals, and second-guessing yourself, this episode gives you clarity, language, and a plan you can use immediately—in love, work, and life.

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Ever feel like you’re doing the work but not getting paid what you’re worth? In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t , Big Slick breaks down exactly how to ask for a raise at work—without sounding desperate, emotional, or entitled.

We start with a real listener letter about being underpaid and turn it into a clear, step-by-step raise strategy. You’ll learn why fear kills negotiations, how respect actually moves money, and how to walk into a raise conversation calm, confident, and prepared. This isn’t about complaining—it’s about positioning.

We cover the groundwork most people skip: tightening up reliability, fixing small reputation leaks, and avoiding the mistake of comparing yourself to coworkers. Then we get tactical—how to list wins, translate effort into business results, and present your value in numbers your boss understands. You’ll hear exactly what to say, how to anchor your raise higher than your target, and how to negotiate without backing yourself into a corner.

If your manager says “not right now,” we show you how to turn that into a clear roadmap with timelines, metrics, and expectations you control. And if the answer stays no, we talk about your plan B—updating your resume, testing the job market, and moving to a company that actually values what you bring.

This is a practical, no-fluff guide to getting paid more—either at your current job or the next one. Respect over fear. Results over noise. Clear asks over silent resentment.

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Why do we keep going back to situations that never change? In this episode, we unpack a blunt listener letter about returning to toxic jobs, shaky relationships, and draining family dynamics—and why comfort can be the enemy of growth.

We break down the psychology behind staying stuck: habit, fear, and a brain wired to choose familiarity over freedom—even when the familiar hurts. You’ll learn how to tell when a job isn’t just stressful but actively shrinking you, the phrases people use to justify staying, and a simple test to see whether your role is a raft or an anchor.

On the relationship side, we call out normalized chaos: apology-repeat cycles, red flags disguised as “just how they are,” and the difference between intensity and actual care. If you’ve ever confused familiarity with love, this conversation will reset your lens.

Family loyalty gets real attention too. We talk boundaries that protect your peace without lighting a fuse, how to recognize post-visit emotional drain, and why distance isn’t betrayal—it’s clarity. The through-line is decisive action: small, brave steps that build momentum and help you trade predictable chaos for earned calm.

If you’re ready to break the cycle and choose a life that actually fits, tap play. Share this with someone who’s stuck.

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s it ever okay to date your friend’s ex—or is that a line you never cross? In this episode, Big Slick breaks down one of the most controversial questions in modern friendships: loyalty vs attraction and whether chasing a spark is worth the social fallout.

We unpack why the “friend’s ex” rule exists in the first place, how secrecy destroys trust faster than the breakup itself, and why dating inside the circle often leads to awkward group dynamics, divided loyalties, and damaged reputations. From attraction timelines to emotional blind spots, we explain how situations that feel justified in the moment can quietly dismantle years of friendship.

Still think it could work? We lay out the only ethical path forward: radical honesty, clear boundaries, and full acceptance of a possible hard no. If you can’t respect your friend’s answer, that’s the answer. We also talk about how exes sometimes use friends as leverage, revenge, or validation—and why stepping into that triangle rarely ends clean.

This is straight talk about dating ethics, friendship boundaries, and choosing peace over predictable chaos. We’re not judging feelings—we’re helping you avoid mistakes that cost real relationships. Listen in, then decide where you stand: hard no, or rare exception?

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Ever had a coworker present your idea like it was theirs? This episode breaks down idea theft at work, office politics, and exactly how to protect your ideas so you get the credit, raise, or promotion you deserve.

A listener writes in with a story many professionals know too well: great ideas shared casually, then suddenly showing up in meetings without their name attached. We don’t sugarcoat it. We explain why coworkers steal ideas, how oversharing creates risk, and what actually works in real workplaces.

You’ll learn practical strategies to stop idea theft before it starts:

• Why you should share up, not sideways
• How to pitch ideas directly to decision-makers
• How to create a paper trail that protects your authorship
• When to loop managers and executives into conversations
• How to handle coworkers and managers who take credit for your work

We also cover how to build a small, trusted feedback circle, publish updates in shared spaces, and escalate professionally without drama. This isn’t paranoia—it’s career strategy. If you’ve ever felt overlooked, under-credited, or burned by office politics, this episode gives you a clear plan to protect your work and move forward with confidence.

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Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

Why do grandmas tell the truth with no filter—and why does it hit so hard?
In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t, Big Slick dives into a hilarious and eye-opening listener letter about a grandmother who says exactly what everyone else is thinking. From family reunions to uncomfortable call-outs, we break down why older generations speak so plainly, how that honesty preserves family history, and where the line sits between accountability and gossip.

We unpack the psychology behind blunt elders, the stress-relief power of speaking your truth, and why “no-filter honesty” can actually protect boundaries, trust, and emotional health. When grandma calls out patterns, habits, or behavior, it’s not just shade—it’s context. We explore how clear words prevent resentment, why bottled-up silence does more damage than truth, and how straightforward communication can strengthen families instead of tearing them apart.

Big Slick also gives practical tools for using blunt feedback the right way: focus on actions, not identities, match honesty with care, and ask what the truth is meant to build—not destroy. We talk generational sensitivity, modern emotional boundaries, and how families can keep real talk alive without crossing into cruelty.

If you’ve ever laughed, cringed, or learned something from a brutally honest grandma, this episode will hit home.

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The moment you’re locked into a task—under the hood, deep in a game, or focused on work—that’s when the most important relationship conversation suddenly happens. You nod to keep the peace, miss the details, and weeks later you’re held to plans you never truly heard. In this episode, we break down how missed communication turns into resentment—and how to fix it without turning every discussion into an argument.

Big Slick reacts to a listener letter asking: “My girlfriend always wants to talk when I’m busy—what do I do?” We unpack how attention and working memory collapse during tasks, why distracted “yeses” don’t count, and how miscommunication quietly damages trust in relationships. This isn’t about ignoring your partner—it’s about timing, clarity, and mutual respect.

You’ll learn the Eye Contact Rule—no serious conversations without full attention, and no agreement without eye contact. We share practical relationship communication tools you can use immediately: how to pause a task without snapping, how to defer conversations the right way, and how to repeat agreements so nothing gets twisted later. We also cover how to prevent ambush conversations with shared notes, check-in routines, and simple cues that signal when it’s time to really listen.

If you’re tired of arguments that start with “You said you would” and end with “That’s not what I meant,” this episode gives you a system that actually works. Listen now, protect your focus, and improve your communication without the drama.

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Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

Ever walk into work already drained before the coffee even kicks in?
We break down a listener’s letter about a toxic coworker who complains nonstop—from clock-in to clock-out—and why that kind of negativity sticks around in so many workplaces.

This episode is a straight-talk guide to protecting your energy, focus, and time when you’re stuck next to someone who treats every shift like a complaint podcast. We unpack why chronic complainers thrive on attention, how venting turns into a daily routine, and why ignoring it completely doesn’t always work.

Big Slick lays out two proven strategies you can use immediately. The quiet boundary: neutral responses, zero emotional fuel, and clean exits that stop you from getting cornered. And the direct boundary: respectful, firm language that shuts the rant down without creating workplace drama. No therapy sessions. No arguments. Just clear limits.

We also cover the hidden damage toxic coworkers cause—especially to new hires—and how leaders can redirect complaints into solutions instead of endless negativity. You’ll get practical tools like micro-deadlines, calendar blocks, earbuds, and scripts that signal your time is not up for grabs.

If you’re tired of someone else’s attitude hijacking your workday, this episode gives you the clarity and confidence to take control back—starting tomorrow morning.

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