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Ever catch yourself rewriting someone’s behavior just to keep the story alive? In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t, Big Slick breaks down why we ignore red flags in relationships and at work—and how chemistry, hope, and ego convince us to excuse behavior that should’ve ended the conversation early.

We unpack a raw listener letter that starts with passion and ends in chaos, separating intensity from danger. From emotional ultimatums to property damage and obsessive control, this conversation shows why patterns matter more than promises. If behavior keeps repeating, escalating, or coming without real accountability, it’s not a phase—it’s a preview.

Big Slick introduces a simple framework to spot the truth fast: frequency, intensity, and recovery. How often does it happen? How extreme does it get? And do they actually take responsibility and change? When those answers slide the wrong way, your nervous system isn’t being dramatic—it’s being accurate.

The same logic applies at work. A boss who ignores burnout, piles on seven-day weeks, and dismisses boundaries is telling you exactly who they are. We cover how to document behavior, set written limits, and decide when the paycheck isn’t worth the cost to your peace.

If you’re tired of chaos, mixed signals, and second-guessing yourself, this episode gives you clarity, language, and a plan you can use immediately—in love, work, and life.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

Ever feel like you’re doing the work but not getting paid what you’re worth? In this episode of Talk Ya Sh!t , Big Slick breaks down exactly how to ask for a raise at work—without sounding desperate, emotional, or entitled.

We start with a real listener letter about being underpaid and turn it into a clear, step-by-step raise strategy. You’ll learn why fear kills negotiations, how respect actually moves money, and how to walk into a raise conversation calm, confident, and prepared. This isn’t about complaining—it’s about positioning.

We cover the groundwork most people skip: tightening up reliability, fixing small reputation leaks, and avoiding the mistake of comparing yourself to coworkers. Then we get tactical—how to list wins, translate effort into business results, and present your value in numbers your boss understands. You’ll hear exactly what to say, how to anchor your raise higher than your target, and how to negotiate without backing yourself into a corner.

If your manager says “not right now,” we show you how to turn that into a clear roadmap with timelines, metrics, and expectations you control. And if the answer stays no, we talk about your plan B—updating your resume, testing the job market, and moving to a company that actually values what you bring.

This is a practical, no-fluff guide to getting paid more—either at your current job or the next one. Respect over fear. Results over noise. Clear asks over silent resentment.

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Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.

Big Slick here 👊 Got a story or need advice? Text me now — might make it on Talk Ya Sh!t! 🎙️💯

Why do we keep going back to situations that never change? In this episode, we unpack a blunt listener letter about returning to toxic jobs, shaky relationships, and draining family dynamics—and why comfort can be the enemy of growth.

We break down the psychology behind staying stuck: habit, fear, and a brain wired to choose familiarity over freedom—even when the familiar hurts. You’ll learn how to tell when a job isn’t just stressful but actively shrinking you, the phrases people use to justify staying, and a simple test to see whether your role is a raft or an anchor.

On the relationship side, we call out normalized chaos: apology-repeat cycles, red flags disguised as “just how they are,” and the difference between intensity and actual care. If you’ve ever confused familiarity with love, this conversation will reset your lens.

Family loyalty gets real attention too. We talk boundaries that protect your peace without lighting a fuse, how to recognize post-visit emotional drain, and why distance isn’t betrayal—it’s clarity. The through-line is decisive action: small, brave steps that build momentum and help you trade predictable chaos for earned calm.

If you’re ready to break the cycle and choose a life that actually fits, tap play. Share this with someone who’s stuck.

📩 Got something on your mind?
Write in to the “Let’s Talk About It Letter” at: Talkyashitdaily@gmail.com

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👉 Hit that like, comment, and subscribe — and let’s talk our sh!t!

New Episodes every Monday, Wednesday & Friday at 6AM!

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on Talk Ya Sh!t Podcast are those of the host and guests. This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice. Always seek guidance from a qualified professional regarding mental health, financial decisions, or personal issues. The host shares personal experiences and opinions — take what resonates and always do what’s best for you.