• S2 EP13: "How do you feel about parallel polyamory?"
    Feb 19 2026

    S2 EP13: "How do you feel about parallel polyamory?"


    Last episode we touched on the different styles of polyamory & how we choose to practice. Which brought up a follow up question:


    "How do you feel about parallel polyamory?"


    We aren't big on definitions around here but we do have our own versions of everything!


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    26 Min.
  • S2 EP12: "What are your values and priorities being polyamorous?"
    Feb 12 2026

    S2 EP12: "What are your values and priorities being polyamorous?"


    A 'Who are we?' 2.0 if you will!

    Its been while since we answered some of the basics & let you know who we are & what we are up to as polyamorous humans.


    If you've been here for a while you might be surprised to hear where me stand on hierarchy now vs 2.5 years ago.


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    40 Min.
  • S2 EP 11: "At what point are we OVER informed?"
    Feb 6 2026

    S2 EP 11: "At what point are we OVER informed?"


    The Epstein files are out, the Alberta separatist are loud, the USA is chaos, sometimes times it really feels like the sky is falling. Being informed is one thing, being OVER informed to the point of anxiety & losing sleep is another.


    How do we know when to put our phones down? What do we do once our phones are down?


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    46 Min.
  • S2 EP 10: "How do I support someone whos hyper independent?"
    Jan 29 2026

    S2 EP 10: "How do I support someone whos hyper independent?"


    Jill speaks pretty openly about how she is deeply hyperindependent & all that comes with it. So, how the heck do you support someone like that? How do you move through life support somone who is fully able to take care of themselves & often times prefers to.


    Lets chat!


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    33 Min.
  • S2 EP9: "Do you like Munches?"
    Jan 22 2026

    S2 EP9: "Do you like Munches?"


    We are often asked if we go to Munches, and if so, why. If not, why not?


    So let's chat! If you're anything like me (Jill), when I first started exploring this life, I had NOT A CLUE what a munch was. Are they snacks? Is it people? Is it snacks with people?


    If you want to explore more chances to meet like-minded humans, this can be a good place to start!


    See ya in there!


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    29 Min.
  • S2 EP 8: Kathie from a Room for Grief
    Jan 15 2026

    EP 8: Kathie from a Room for Grief


    We asked: "Who are you Kathie?"


    Kathie answered:

    "Good question. I'm a lot. I'm a passionate and energetic soul.

    I am a proud grandmother, loving mom, devoted friend, and a widow by circumstance, not by choice.

    I am an author of the best-selling book" The Hardest, Not The Worst Year. A Widows Journey".

    I am a grief coach, educator, forever learner, and a doula for the dying. I am an entrepreneur, a lover of life, and a listener who isn’t afraid of the hard, uncomfortable conversations about grief, death, life, and living. "


    We love Kathie & we know you will do!


    Ethan & Jill


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    1 Std. und 19 Min.
  • S2 E6: "How do you navigate the holidays?"
    Dec 4 2025

    S2 E5: "How do you navigate the holidays?"


    We know this holiday season can be challenging; our house has its own share of 'difficult to navigate' moments. We wanted to share & hold space for the fact that the holidays are not Jolly for everyone.


    If you are struggling with setting new boundaries or holding on to wounds that no one can see, we've got you.


    Whether you hate this season or find endless amounts of joy, we've got you.


    This week, we share how we choose to navigate this season & how we stay sane during it all.


    Join us before we take a break for the Holidays.


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    1 Std. und 27 Min.
  • S2 EP5: "How would you handle low libido / intimacy issues with a partner?"
    Nov 12 2025

    S2 EP5: "How would you handle low libido/intimacy issues with a partner?"


    Mismatched sex drives/libido in relationships can be challenging. Let alone when you factor in self-confidence/body image issues. We have both been there & had our own experiences navigating low libido & low confidence. You aren't alone & we hope you join us in a safe space to chat about this this week.


    Follow-up question:

    How has the discovery of kink shaped how you view intimacy, relationships, and yourselves?

    See you in there


    Ethan & Jill

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    1 Std. und 16 Min.