In this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big Clit Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversation widens to include nonverbal language, the difference between sex and intimacy, and the persistent orgasm gap—examined without shame, but with precision. Kink appears here as a framework for consent, boundaries, and deeper dialogue, while trauma is acknowledged as something that deserves patience and education, not silence. What emerges is an invitation to self-care, playfulness, and honest conversation—because fulfillment, like confidence, grows where attention is paid.

Some truths linger in the body long after the conversation ends.

Content warning: sexual trauma

www.pleaseme.online

On her website, you’ll find:

• An intimate toy store with a dedicated kink and BDSM-friendly section
• Trusted sexual wellness affiliates and product recommendations
• Contact information for sexual health coaching, intimacy coaching, and Physical Therapy services

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply into LGBTQ history and survival. Woven through it all are reflections on representation, mentorship, and how kink relationships continue to evolve with more intention, care, and community than ever before. Lady Sheba’s photographic installation will be on view at the Carter/Johnson Library & Collection in January 2026. Some legacies don’t just ask to be seen—they invite you to look closer.

https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/

https://cjlcleather.com/

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

This conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries in professional settings and the emotional labor involved in client relationships. The conversation also highlights community dynamics, representation, and the transformative impact of kink on personal growth. In this engaging conversation, Audry Lu Black and Maeve explore the importance of sexual education for future generations, the intersection of kink and societal norms, and the role of fashion in self-expression. They discuss the significance of community building and education within the kink world, highlighting events like KinkFest that celebrate diversity and learning. The conversation also delves into personal kinks and boundaries, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's desires and the nuances of consent.

https://www.kinkfest.org/home.php

Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this engaging conversation, Jules Brats-a-Lot and Mistress AudryLu Black explore the complexities of identity within the kink community, particularly focusing on the experiences of 'littles' and the dynamics of age play and age regression. They discuss the importance of community, representation, and the stigma surrounding these identities, while also exploring the joy and nostalgia that come with embracing one's own little space. The conversation underscores the importance of self-expression, the beauty of individuality, and the value of achieving clear goals in adult life, all while maintaining a light-hearted and authentic tone.

https://lumbersnackster-designs.square.site/

Content warning: electro-play, scarification, age regression

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this episode, recorded live at DomCon NOLA, Mistress Audry Lu Black interviews Mistress Cyan, FemDom powerhouse founder of DomCon and owner of Sanctuary in Los Angeles. They discuss embracing the intersection of professional domination and lifestyle BDSM. Their conversation includes what we can learn from each other, how we all deserve community and the role of professional doms within that community.

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

In this conversation, Mistress AudruLu Black and Paul Faust discuss his journey in the kink community, focusing on the events produced by Faustian Society and the aesthetic of Torture Garden. The dialogue explores the cultural differences between kink in Europe and America, the legal challenges faced in the U.S., and the complex relationship Americans have with sexuality. Faust emphasizes the importance of community accountability and the need for collaboration over competition in the kink scene. The conversation also touches on the commodification of kink and the influence of corporations on kink events, highlighting the evolving nature of the community and its events.

The next Torture Garden LA is on Saturday, November 15th, at the Globe Theatre at 10 pm. This is an 18+ event with a strict fantasy/fetish dress code.

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

Mistress AudryLu Black and Pretty Penny the Hucow delve into the unique aspects of Hucow culture within the kink community; explore themes of body positivity and the intersection of hypnosis and kink. They also discuss the significance of costumes in providing permission for exploration and the role of community events in fostering creativity.

Content warning: Feeding kink and blood play

Featured toy/resource: Anal hook cow tail

https://tailsoffantasy.com/products/cow-tail

Credits: Producers Maypop, Mimic, Siren and Sunflower; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Father Nathan Monk delve into modern America’s relationship with Purity Culture. They dive into corporate motivators, greater cultural effects, and the political implications of these ideologies. Father Nathan Monk speaks about being personally raised in the Purity Culture nexus and his subsequent study of the biblical sources (or lack of sources) that led him to lead in and eventually leave the Orthodox Church. Through his individual journey, we see the importance of autonomy and open dialogues about sexuality and sexual expression. Father Nathan Monk also discusses the life-saving ability of Narcan, emphasizing its accessibility and importance in overdose situations.

Visit https://www.narcan.com for more information

DomCon New Orleans 2025 information:

Beyond Ritual Workshop, October 24th at 11:30 am CT

Live Podcast Recording, October 25th at 11:30 am CT

If you’re a fellow speaker, teacher or attendee interested in being a guest, please contact me at https://placemarker4perversion.com/guest-request

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger