Have you ever asked yourself: “Why won’t he choose me? Why won’t he commit? Why do I keep attracting unavailable men? Why do I feel like I’m not good enough for love?”

You are not alone. So many women spiral in these questions, waiting for a man to finally “pick” them. But here’s the truth: God already calls you chosen.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I’m breaking down: ✨ Why you keep being pulled toward emotionally unavailable men ✨ The real reason he won’t commit (and why it’s not your worth) ✨ How your self-concept and nervous system keep you stuck in chasing mode ✨ What changes when you stop waiting to be chosen and start living as already chosen by God

This is for Christian women who are tired of chasing, overthinking, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to heal the root wound, rewire your identity, and experience the kind of love that reflects God’s truth about you.

👉 Ready to go deeper? Start with Rewritten — my self-led course to reprogram your love identity and stop the cycle of unworthy love. 👉 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group, where you’ll learn how to rewire your thoughts, regulate your body, and invite Jesus into your healing for lasting transformation.

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Rewiring Your Thoughts With Jesus So You Stop Spiraling in Love

You’ve tried journaling, affirmations, and mindset hacks to stop overthinking in love — but somehow you still spiral. I get it. Self-led healing tools are powerful (I still use neuroscience and somatic practices daily), but they can feel exhausting when the whole burden is on your shoulders.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I share what happened when I stopped white-knuckling my healing and started partnering with Jesus. You’ll learn:

✨ Why self-led healing works but still leaves you striving ✨ What supernatural healing with God looks like (and how fast He can move) ✨ How to practice receiving instead of self-efforting ✨ A simple shift to rewire your thoughts with Jesus at the center — so you can finally feel secure in love

If you’re ready to go deeper:

💡 Start with Rewritten — my self-led course that shows you exactly how to reprogram your identity and break free from toxic love patterns. 👉 [Rewritten]

🤝 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group — where you’ll learn neuroscience + somatic rewiring in partnership with Jesus and receive live coaching support so you don’t have to do it alone. 👉 [ Healing Room Waitlist]

This episode is especially for Christian women who are tired of overthinking, chasing, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to release the pressure, rewire your identity, and experience the healing only He can bring.

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Are you tired of waiting for a man to finally choose you — only to end up disappointed, confused, or questioning your worth?

In this episode, we’re talking about the “pick me” dynamic — when your mood, self-worth, and even your future plans hinge on whether someone else finally commits. We’ll unpack why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, why you confuse mixed signals with love, and how your past wounds can make crumbs feel like a feast.

You’ll learn:

• The truth about the “pick me” pattern

• Why he hasn’t chosen you (and why it’s not your fault)

• The trauma patterns behind chasing unavailable men

• How father wounds and early abandonment shape your attraction

• One step to start reclaiming your power today

If you’ve been asking, “Why won’t he choose me?”, “Why do I keep attracting unavailable men?”, or “Why am I drawn to hot and cold relationships?” — this is your wake-up call.

God’s love is steady, consistent, and never withholding — and that’s the kind of love you’re worthy of.

👉 Ready to heal at the root, rewire your nervous system, and stop settling? Join us inside The Healing Room — where we break these patterns for good.

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