In this conversation, Torie and Bailey discuss their identities as mothers and how it has changed their lives. They talk about the challenges of transitioning from their pre-motherhood selves and the importance of embracing their roles as moms. They also touch on the societal pressure to define oneself based on career or other external factors, and the need to focus on personal values and character instead. Overall, they emphasize the significance of finding contentment and fulfillment in being a mom while also recognizing the multifaceted nature of their identities. In this conversation, Torie and Bailey discuss their identities as mothers and how motherhood has shaped their sense of self. They explore the importance of aligning values in raising children and the deep-rooted characteristics that define who they are. They also discuss the societal pressure to define oneself solely as a mother and the need to embrace the multifaceted nature of their identities. The conversation highlights the self-assurance and growth that comes with motherhood and the challenges of navigating social media's superficiality. Overall, they emphasize the importance of being secure in one's values and finding fulfillment in the role of a mother.

• Becoming a mother can be a jolt awakening and a huge change in one's identity, especially for young moms who are still figuring out who they are.
• Being a stay-at-home mom can play a role in how one identifies, as the majority of their time is spent thinking about their children and family.
• Identifying solely as a mom is okay and can bring contentment, but it's important to also recognize and embrace other aspects of one's identity.
• Society often focuses on external factors like career or titles to define identity, but it's more important to focus on personal values and character.
• Finding fulfillment and contentment in being a mom while also exploring and embracing other aspects of one's identity is key to personal growth and happiness. Aligning values is crucial in raising children.
• Motherhood shapes one's sense of self and identity.
• Embracing the multifaceted nature of one's identity is important.
• Motherhood amplifies self-assurance and solidifies personal values.
• Navigating social media's superficiality can be challenging.
• Being secure in one's values and finding fulfillment in motherhood is essential.

The conversation covers the challenges and experiences of step-parenting, including the initial reluctance to be with someone with kids, the transition into a blended family, the complexities of co-parenting, and the impact of custody battles. It also delves into the emotional and practical aspects of being a step-parent, the dynamics of the family, and the legal and financial challenges faced. The conversation delves into the challenges of being a step-parent, navigating high-conflict co-parenting, and the emotional toll it takes. It also explores the impact on family dynamics, personal sacrifices, and the importance of finding peace and setting boundaries. The conversation ends with a call to action for engagement on social media.

• Initial reluctance to be with someone with kids
• Transition into a blended family
• Complexities of co-parenting
• Emotional and practical aspects of being a step-parent
• Dynamics of the family
• Legal and financial challenges in step-parenting Navigating high-conflict co-parenting can be emotionally challenging and may require setting firm boundaries.
• The impact of family dynamics and personal sacrifices in the context of step-parenting is significant and often overlooked.
• Finding peace and letting go of control can be essential for the well-being of step-parents in high-conflict situations.

In this episode, Torie and Bailey play a fun game of 'this or that' to get to know each other better. They discuss their daily routines, favorite foods, and self-care practices. They also share their opinions on vaccinations and talk about their guilty pleasures. In this conversation, Bailey and Torie discuss their favorite activities, what they would do with a kid-free weekend, their ideal parenting styles, and funny moments with their kids. They also touch on topics like step-parenting and screen time for children.

• Getting outside in nature and doing workouts are important self-care practices for Torie while Bailey values alone time
• Both avoid consuming anything out of plastic and try to buy organic
• Torie and Bailey have similar "guilty pleasures"
• Self-care activities can range from going to the spa to having a relaxing bath at home
• Having a kid-free weekend allows parents to recharge and enjoy some alone time
• Parenting styles can vary, but it's important to lead with love and set loving boundaries
• Step-parents can have equal disciplining rights as the bio parent, depending on the family dynamics
• Screen time for children should be monitored and limited, with a focus on appropriate content