Some stories hit like a brick and still manage to open a door. This conversation with author and empowerment alchemist Rhonda Farrah walks straight into the hard places—federal prison, stage-three breast cancer, divorces—and shows how surrender, self-respect, and service can turn raw experience into real power. Rhonda doesn’t posture as a survivor; she thrives, and she teaches the rest of us how to do the same with practical tools that start in the mirror.

We unpack what “fix your reflection first” actually looks like: choosing self-love without the if-then conditions, detaching from the how, and shifting from frantic chasing to calm receiving. Rhonda’s core formula—gratitude plus forgiveness—comes alive through a two-letter practice you can do today: forgive yourself on paper, then forgive the person who hurt you, without ever mailing the letter. The result is lighter, clearer energy that frees you to assume the relationships, health, and work you truly want. Along the way, we talk about the Law of Assumption, how fear and love create different thoughts and outcomes, and why asking for a sign can move you from doubt to direction.

We also zoom out to timing and meaning. With numerology as a lens, Rhonda explains why this is a nine year of endings and how to enter the one year of beginnings with intention. The invitation is simple and brave: release what doesn’t serve you so you can receive what does. If you’re ready to rewrite the story you tell yourself, build community without the “it’s hard” script, and treat your life like the gift it is, this conversation meets you where you are and points you toward what’s next.

If this resonated, follow, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review. Want support? Reach out to Rhonda at helpmerondanow.com or rhonda@helpmerondanow.com, and tell us: what are you releasing before the new year?

Explore Rhonda's group coaching container: Fix Your Reflection First...And Live Your Best Life Ever! @ https://helpmerhondanow.com/group-coaching

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Want a relationship that lasts and still feels electric? We sat down with Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist with dual doctorates in Naturopathic Medicine and Acupuncture & Oriental Medicine, to unpack the science and practice of keeping monogamy hot and deeply connected. Her story starts with unexpected healing through pleasure and expands into a research-backed framework for building resilient intimacy without shame or guesswork.

We dig into desire mismatch and why the “meet in the middle” approach leaves both partners unsatisfied. You’ll learn a simple values-and-pie-chart exercise that exposes whether your calendar actually reflects what you claim to value. From there we make the case for scheduling intimacy once a week, not to kill spontaneity, but to protect it—because you already “scheduled” sex when you were dating. Dr. Diane clarifies a crucial distinction: desire is of the mind, arousal is of the body. Men often feel desire first; women frequently need arousal before the mind says “yes,” especially under stress. That insight reshapes foreplay, pacing, and expectations.

We explore hot and modern monogamy—keeping the stability of partnership while actively tending to emotional intimacy, physical touch, and sexual play. Expect practical tools: erotic reprogramming to rebuild safety after a lull, mindfulness techniques that anchor you in sensation, and a “name it, don’t shame it” script for sharing fantasies without getting shut down. We also break common myths: most women need clitoral stimulation to climax, men gain oxytocin bonding during foreplay, and both partners prefer 17 to 19 minutes of warm-up more than pop culture suggests. Novelty matters too; treat your sex life like learning new chords on a guitar to avoid repeating the same tired script.

If you’re ready to close the orgasm gap, defuse stress, and fall back in love with your own chemistry, this conversation delivers clear steps you can use tonight. Subscribe, share with a partner, and leave a review to tell us what you’ll try first.

Connect with Dr Diane Mueller :

- Through her book - Want to Want It / https://mylibidodoc.com/want-to-want-it/

- Or through her website - https://mylibidodoc.com/products/

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Eight more quality years of life from better balance sounds bold, but the data backs it up—and the stories bring it home. I sit down with Dan Metcalfe from Total Balance Company to unpack why mobility isn’t just about stronger quads or a tighter core. It starts in the brain. When fear slows reactions and frays the brain-to-body wiring, even simple movements feel risky. When safety signals are present, the cerebellum fires cleanly, confidence returns, and your whole system speeds up.

We dig into the myth of “muscle memory” and the truth of neuron memory, exploring how electrical impulses and proprioception govern every step, turn, and reach. Dan shares how a 79-year-old went from a careful shuffle to running six miles per hour in three weeks, and why handles on a gentle balance board mimic the way babies learn to walk—safe support that frees the brain to explore. Static tests recruit a handful of brain regions; dynamic balance lights up more than 18, turning errors into neuroplasticity and carryover gains you can feel in class, on stage, or at work.

This conversation spans athletes managing re-injury fear, young parents pressed for time, and seniors who want to thrive rather than tiptoe through their days. We talk foot training as the “control center,” why toes matter for quick direction changes, and how blind and deaf students improve coordination through a unified brain-body system. Dan’s stories—stroke recovery back to line dancing, an 80-something’s first ballet class, a return to pain-free walking—make the science practical and hopeful. If you want mobility that lasts, start with your brain. Prime it with 10 minutes of dynamic balance, build trust before load, and watch confidence spread to the rest of your life.

Connect with Dan and Total Balance Company at https://totalbalancecompany.com/

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xx Hannah