🔥 They Look Safe… But They’re a Setup | Christian Discernment for Women

You thought it was love.

Or loyalty.

Or just a rough season.

But deep down… something in your spirit kept whispering:“This connection isn’t safe.”

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down one of the most dangerous forms of betrayal — the one that comes wrapped in familiarity.

We’re going deep into Jesus and Judas — and what it reveals about spotting red flags in people you trust.

👀 This video is for you if:

• You’ve ever overstayed in a relationship out of guilt

• You felt the tension… but called it “love” or “loyalty”

• Someone close betrayed you — and no one saw it coming

• You’re tired of second-guessing your spiritual discernment

• You want to walk away without feeling like the villain

⏱️ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro

2:41 – Main Scripture (John 13:18–30 NIV)

5:37 – Start of the Message

6:19 – Part 1 — Familiar ≠ Safe

12:38 – Part 2 — When Peace Leaves the Room, Don’t Downplay the Discernment

16:51 – Part 3 — Jesus Knew. Jesus Spoke. So Should You.

24:30 – Part 4 — When It’s Time to Let Go - Let It Go Without Guilt

28:20 – Part 5 — Discernment Is Not Discrimination

30:26 – Part 6 — Guard your heart and leave without bleeding

32:57 – Declaration Time!

33:31 –Prayer

36:45 – Closing Words

💬 QUICK TEST:If the Holy Spirit raised a red flag — and your brain said,"But they’re family or I’ve known them for so many years... but they mean well..."This message is for you.

🎬 Watch now — because clarity isn’t cold-hearted.It’s survival, sis.

TAG a sister who needs this word And don’t forget to catch Part 2 — it’s coming in next Thursday!

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