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How to Get What You Want

How to Get What You Want

Von: Susie Tomenchok
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Your career isn’t built by waiting for someone to notice your value. It’s built by learning how to advocate for yourself with confidence.

You’ve been told your work will speak for itself. Yet despite doing everything asked of you—and more—you’re still feeling overlooked and uncertain about your next step. Leadership isn’t just about managing a team; it’s navigating the complexities of internal relationships and consistently advocating for your growth.

On Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok is your silent partner, empowering you with the mindset and tools to negotiate your career—and life—with intention.


Unlike podcasts that focus on climbing the ladder or hustle culture, this show is for women who want to own their careers authentically. You’ll learn practical strategies for everyday negotiations, from asking for what you deserve to confidently handling tough conversations. Because negotiation isn’t just for raises or promotions—it’s how you navigate every opportunity in your career and beyond.

Susie is a negotiation expert who understands the challenges of being in a male-dominated industry and the struggles women face when advocating for themselves. She’s helped countless professionals unlock their potential and will show you how to do the same.

If you’re ready to stop waiting for your career to happen to you and start creating the opportunities you want, hit follow and join Susie each week to build your confidence, advocate for yourself, and finally Get What You Want.

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    You know that temptation to say “I’ll do anything” when you’re ready for something new? My guest today, Seyka Mejeur, is here to challenge that thinking. As the CEO of an executive search firm placing technical leaders in space and climate, Seyka spends her days helping founders and execs clarify what they actually want so they can make better decisions, faster.

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    • How to create clarity in your career (even if it’s still evolving)
    • Why vagueness is exhausting for you and everyone around you
    • The question that will shift how you approach every career conversation

    Connect with Seyka:

    • https://www.linkedin.com/in/seyka/
    • https://adastra.us/

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    🚀 Ready to Get What You Want?
    Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.

    📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
    Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
    www.susietomenchok.com/the-art-of-everyday-negotiation

    Work With Me: Speaking, corporate training, and executive coaching:
    www.susietomenchok.com/services

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    Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
    💕Susie
    www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok


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  • It’s Not About Luck; It’s About Looking
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    Think someone else just “got lucky” with that big opportunity? I used to believe that too. Until I started paying attention. In this episode, I’m sharing what really sets opportunity-spotters apart. It’s not magic. It’s not hustle. It’s observation and initiative.

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    In this episode, I’ll cover:

    • How to spot hidden opportunities others miss
    • What research says about initiative and being seen
    • Why raising your hand changes how others see your potential

    _____________________

    🚀 Ready to Get What You Want?
    Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.

    📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
    Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
    www.susietomenchok.com/the-art-of-everyday-negotiation

    Work With Me: Speaking, corporate training, and executive coaching:
    www.susietomenchok.com/services

    _____________________

    Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
    💕Susie
    www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok


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  • This Is What Gets You the Raise
    Jul 15 2025

    You’ve got the experience. You’re delivering results. So why does asking for more still feel... off? Today I’m talking about the internal blockers that hold us back from advocating for ourselves, especially when it comes to money, promotions, or recognition.

    It’s not just about timing or strategy. It’s the stories we tell ourselves about being selfish, ungrateful, or difficult. I’ll walk you through a new lens for thinking about your value, and how to ask in a way that’s thoughtful, data-backed, and aligned with what the business needs.

    If you’ve ever told yourself “now’s not the right time,” this one’s for you.

    In this episode, I’ll cover:

    • How to articulate your ROI and why it matters more than ever
    • The data behind why asking is expected—and why most people don’t
    • A better way to prepare for the conversation (and get a real yes)

    _____________________

    🚀 Ready to Get What You Want?
    Listening is great, but real change happens when you take action. Join my newsletter for exclusive negotiation strategies, scripts, and real-world case studies you won’t hear on the podcast. Sign up now at www.negotiationlove.com—it takes 10 seconds and will change how you view and negotiate forever.

    📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
    Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
    www.susietomenchok.com/the-art-of-everyday-negotiation

    Work With Me: Speaking, corporate training, and executive coaching:
    www.susietomenchok.com/services

    _____________________

    Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
    💕Susie
    www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok


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