Pressure changes how we move, think, and lead—and sometimes it reveals exactly who we are. Coach and teacher Steven Norgrove joins us to explore how high school sports forged his leadership, shaped his view of winning, and built bonds that still anchor his life and coaching today. From sinking two free throws with one second left to fulfilling a promise to hit a home run for his mom after her cancer diagnosis, Steven unpacks the moments that define resilience and the preparation that makes “luck” show up on cue.

We dig into the craft of leadership on and off the court: when to set the tone from the front and when to lead by following. Steven explains why the team must outrank the individual, how athletes can “lose without being a loser,” and what real sportsmanship looks like when parents and pressure get loud. He makes a strong case for ditching superstition in favor of sleep, nutrition, and film—because consistency beats rituals every time. We also track his path from player to a 32-year coaching career, including his work with Michigan’s Basketball Coaches Association and the push to expand the high school schedule from 20 to 22 games.

Today’s athletes ask “why,” and Steven welcomes it. He shares practical ways coaches can earn buy-in—clear purpose, empathy, and honest standards that help five players move as one. The takeaway is simple and hard: growth over ego, habits over hype, and being the teammate people remember for how you made them feel. If you care about youth sports, character, and the kind of leadership that lasts longer than any scoreboard, this conversation is for you.

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What if the most important thing you took from high school sports wasn’t a banner, but a blueprint for life? We sit down with Principal Ryan Sines to trace the real arc of an athlete—from freshman underdog playing up with seniors to a leader whose voice carries beyond the locker room. The story moves through quiet bus rides, tight huddles, and the steady rituals that make big moments feel manageable, including a pregame soundtrack that traveled from cassette to CD and a Friday breakfast tradition that turned nerves into focus.

Ryan unpacks the skills that outlast any season: how to earn trust when you’re smaller or newer, how to keep your head down and do your role well, and how to prove yourself through action instead of talk. We dig into the camaraderie that forms across years of shared practices and games, and how rival schools can become unexpected communities built on mutual respect. The conversation also shines a light on mentors—like a beloved coach whose impact was so profound the Michigan coaching staff attended his funeral—showing how great leaders shape character, not just playbooks.

We challenge the win-at-all-costs myth by asking what losing really teaches. Ryan explains why complacency creeps in during streaks, how a single loss can reset standards, and why effort is the only metric you fully control. He also shares why he chose not to play in college, redirecting competitive drive into education and coaching, and how that decision opened space to support his own kids and students. If you care about youth development, team culture, or the lasting value of sports, this conversation offers practical insights and heartfelt stories you’ll carry into your next practice, classroom, or workplace.

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A single point can change a season—and shape a life. We sit down with Coach Matt Fishburn, Fraser High School alum, teacher, and longtime coach, to trace how high school sports became the foundation for his career, his values, and the way he leads young athletes today. From multi-sport seasons to a last-second 7–6 playoff heartbreak, Matt opens up about the wins that thrilled him, the losses that taught him more, and the mentors who nudged him toward teaching and coaching.

You’ll hear how football, baseball, and basketball forged discipline, time management, and teamwork in the chaos of teenage schedules. Matt explains why he still believes rituals matter—yes, the same socks on a streak—and how those routines calm the mind when pressure spikes. We dig into his Wayne State years as a four-year starting kicker, the records he set, and the meticulous craft behind consistent performance. Most of all, Matt shares how his priorities shifted: winning still matters, but the true goal is using sport to teach the game of life.

Expect candid stories about staying connected with former coaches, the tight Fraser community that keeps teammates close long after graduation, and what decades on the sideline have taught him about character, resilience, and growth. If you care about youth development, coaching philosophy, or the lasting impact of high school athletics, this conversation is a blueprint for turning competition into life skills.

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What if the real scoreboard of youth sports isn’t medals, but the mindset you carry for life? We sit down with coach and teacher Heather Carrigan to trace a path from six-year-old gymnast to team captain, regional champion, and 26-year Fraser High School coach. Along the way, Heather reveals the habits that sports hardwire—goal setting, time management, and resilience—and how those skills transfer into classrooms, careers, and parenting.

Heather opens up about the tradeoffs of club gymnastics, where 30 to 40 hours a week meant skipping other activities and learning to prioritize what mattered most. She shares how effective coaches change lives by seeing the whole athlete, building respect, and tailoring feedback. From the thrill of pep assemblies to the quiet grind of practice, her stories show how progress can be more fulfilling than a podium finish. You’ll hear why she believes losing often teaches more than winning, and how to turn disappointment into a roadmap for growth.

We also dive into the lighter side: quirky pre-meet rituals, team bonds that outlast school, and the creativity of choreography that still keeps her connected to the sport. Now a parent of competitive athletes in gymnastics, cheer, track, and cross country, Heather translates decades of experience into practical wisdom on balance, belonging, and community. If you’ve ever wondered how high school sports truly shape character and connection, this conversation delivers candid insights you can use.

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Produced the 2021-2023 school years

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The jersey doesn’t just carry a name; it carries a standard. Leah Jones sits down with principal Houston Julian to trace how a late start in high school sports became the launchpad for character, leadership, and a lifelong commitment to community. From football fields and basketball courts to a middle school principal’s office, we connect the drills and discipline of youth athletics to the real work of guiding students, partnering with families, and making good decisions when the stakes are high.

Houston shares what changed when he finally joined organized sports in ninth grade: the structure of practice, the pressure of representing Frazier, and the discovery that communication and dedication win well beyond game night. He walks through a true multi-sport path—football, basketball, baseball, and a senior spring of track chosen to prep for college ball at Wayne State—and explains why variety builds resilient athletes and adaptable people. Along the way, we revisit milestone moments like winning basketball districts in 1996 and a football playoff run that brought the whole community to its feet.

The conversation also highlights mentors who shaped more than mechanics. Coach Ray Barr modeled loyalty by showing up years later, while Coach Marshall Wandry taught goal setting, responsibility, and even put players in stripes to referee youth leagues—an unforgettable masterclass in empathy and composure. Houston reflects on teammates who remain as close as family and on raising his own boys with broad experiences—jiu-jitsu, swim, soccer, golf, and gymnastics—so they can find passions that last.

If you care about youth development, school culture, and the real impact of high school sports, you’ll find practical insight here: how to build character, why community matters, and what it means to win the right way. Subscribe, share with a teammate or coach who shaped you, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.

Produced the 2021-2023 school years

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The gym lights were bright, the crowd was louder, and the smoke machines rolled—but the real story lived in the habits no one saw. We sit down with Marianne McGuinness, Fraser High School standout and now art teacher, to unpack how 5 a.m. practices, deep playoff runs, and a coach who cared about character shaped the way she leads, parents, and performs today. If you’ve ever wondered what survives after the final buzzer, this conversation maps the throughline from teenage competition to adult resilience.

Marianne takes us back to state finals in volleyball, gritty basketball seasons, and a community that packed the stands. She reflects on playing alongside cousins and an older sister whose jersey now hangs in the gym and whose relentless consistency set the standard. We dig into the mentors who mattered most—especially Coach Cuppy—whose practices were clinics in details and whose talks turned tactics into values. Along the way, we explore the role of rituals and superstition, why routine can center an athlete under pressure, and how losing, uncomfortable as it is, might be the most reliable teacher of all.

The journey continues into college recruiting and transfers, where Marianne discovers that fit beats labels and that NAIA competition can be fierce and formative. Today, she channels those lessons into coaching her kids, building a sustainable fitness routine with running and yoga, and helping students find their place on teams and in creative spaces. Expect practical wisdom on discipline, teamwork, leadership, resilience, and the unseen work that separates good from great—like quiet reps in a bedroom and the mindset shift that turns setbacks into fuel.

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What if the fire that drove you through high school sports never really leaves—just changes shape? We sit down with Mr. Sanko, a world history teacher whose identity was forged on the court and diamond, to unpack how competition, coaching, and even superstition follow you into adult life. The talk is candid, sometimes funny, and often raw: hating to lose more than loving to win, learning from a brutal 0-15 season, and translating that edge into a classroom where accountability is a daily game.

We trace the arc from early cutthroat tryouts to the quiet ways sports sculpt character. There’s no single hero coach here; instead, it’s a mosaic of tough-love mentors who pushed hard and made it clear they cared. That tension—pressure that builds or breaks—echoes through stories about teammates, standards, and the fine line between drive and burnout. Along the way, we dive into the rituals that hold athletes together: unchanging seats during games, repeatable warm-ups, and routines that become anchors when everything else wobbles.

The story doesn’t end at graduation. Sanko chose teaching over college baseball, but he kept the competitive engine alive through golf—an unforgiving mirror where there’s no one to blame but yourself. We explore why golfers become obsessed, how focus and breath steady the swing, and what those lessons mean for work, study, and relationships. If you’ve ever wondered whether winning really matters or why losses linger longer, this conversation offers a grounded take: victory thrills, but defeat teaches.

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Recorded 2023-2024 school year

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A baseball kid who didn’t want to get hit, a coach who refused to let him quit, and a franchise built on teamwork—Billy Sims’ story is a masterclass in resilience and reinvention. We sit down with the Heisman winner and Detroit Lions All‑Star to explore how late starts can still lead to big futures, why the right mentor changes everything, and how the habits you build in high school echo through every season of life.

Billy takes us from St. Louis sandlots to Texas football fields and into a recruiting tug‑of‑war between Baylor and Oklahoma. He opens up about the shoulder injury that broke his momentum, the moment he nearly walked away to pump gas at home, and the drive down from Coach Barry Switzer that pulled him back to purpose. Along the way, we unpack the power of multi‑sport development, the quiet value of teammates who block more than they shine, and the pregame ritual that kept him grounded under pressure.

The second half turns to life after the final snap: early career planning, saying yes to opportunities, and scaling Billy Sims Barbecue from a single idea to a multi‑state brand. Billy’s business playbook mirrors his football DNA—recruit great people, value consistency, and share the credit. He closes with the code he taught his kids and still lives by: academics before athletics, start what you finish, and aim to be a good citizen. If you care about youth sports, coaching, leadership, or building something that lasts, you’ll leave inspired and ready to act.

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