In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we dive into something almost everyone does… but nobody experiences the same way — the kiss.For some people it’s casual and fun.For others it’s deeply intimate and more vulnerable than sex.We break down the psychology, biology, and real-life awkwardness behind kissing:• Why a bad kiss can instantly kill attraction• The biology your brain runs during a first kiss• Why some people refuse to kiss during casual hookups• How pheromones and immune compatibility affect attraction• Whether a person can actually learn to kiss better• Why voice, smell, and sensory chemistry matter more than looksPlus — real stories, uncomfortable moments, and the universal question:Can chemistry exist if the kiss doesn’t?This episode mixes science, relationship talk, and honest experiences about attraction, boundaries, and compatibility.CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:15 – Is a bad kiss a dealbreaker?08:20 – Can you teach someone to kiss better?15:40 – When chemistry disappears instantly23:10 – The biology of attraction & immune compatibility31:00 – Why some people don’t kiss during hookups39:30 – Sensory attraction: smell, voice & energy48:00 – First kisses vs first sex memories56:00 – Dating age gaps & attraction psychology1:05:00 – Valentine’s Day & meaningful gestures1:12:00 – Final thoughts

In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we read a Youtube listener's ( @nicolajones2579 ) email that spirals into a conversation about modern dating, attraction standards, and the way men and women completely misunderstand each other online.From unsolicited messages… to viral relationship advice debates… to the harsh reality of how people judge compatibility — we unpack the difference between honesty, cruelty, and communication.We talk about:• Why people send explicit photos in the first place• How internet dating advice goes off the rails• Are people “aiming too high” or just incompatible?• The truth about attraction vs personality• Why criticism feels personal in dating• Standards vs expectations vs negotiation• The role of confidence, success, and appearance• What actually keeps relationships working long-termThis episode isn’t about blaming men or women — it’s about why we keep talking past each other.Chapters00:00 – Intro02:40 – Listener email & unexpected messages12:10 – Why people send photos they shouldn’t20:30 – Internet dating advice gone wrong33:00 – Attraction vs personality debate46:20 – Standards vs expectations58:40 – Why criticism feels like rejection1:08:00 – Communication problems between men & women1:18:30 – What actually makes relationships last1:26:00 – Final thoughts

This episode of Hard Things Podcast is chaotic, funny, and unexpectedly tender.We start with a real-life stress spiral: a car dying in the middle of traffic, kids in the backseat, ice on the road—and strangers who actually show up. What unfolds becomes a bigger conversation about women helping women, emotional labor, and why community matters more than systems that don’t respond fast enough.From there, the conversation moves exactly where real life does:• Exhaustion and nervous system overload• Sex positivity without performance pressure• Piercing mishaps mid-sex (because of course)• Parenting chaos, body autonomy, and boundaries• Why humor is sometimes the only coping skill leftThis episode isn’t about perfection, productivity, or pretending things are fine. It’s about laughing through the mess, owning your boundaries, and surviving the week without losing your mind.🎧 Listen if you enjoy:Unfiltered conversationSex-positive but grounded talkDark humorReal storiesWomen telling the truth⏱️ CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:10 – Car dies in traffic & panic sets in07:30 – Strangers step in & community shows up14:00 – Stress, exhaustion & emotional overload20:30 – Consent, sex, and real-life intimacy27:00 – Piercing mishaps & observational fails34:40 – Parenting chaos & bodily autonomy43:00 – Humor as survival49:30 – Wrapping up the week

Life is hard. Relationships are harder. And sometimes people make Excel spreadsheets about sex instead of having an actual conversation.In Season 2, Episode 44 of the Hard Things Podcast, we dive into:The viral post about a husband tracking sexual rejection (yes… a spreadsheet)Why “no” still means no, even in marriageLibido mismatch, overstimulation, and mental loadWhy transactional affection kills desireValentine’s Day pressure, expectations, and resentmentDating like a job interview vs letting chemistry breatheCommunication, consent, effort gaps, and emotional laborAwkward honesty is better than performative romanceWhy real connection beats flowers, spreadsheets, and AI-written love notesWe’re not man-haters. We’re bullshit-haters.If you’ve ever felt touched-out, pressured, misunderstood, or like intimacy turned into a chore—you’re not broken. And you’re definitely not alone. Hard Things Podcast talks sex, relationships, desire, boundaries, and the messy human stuff—without sugarcoating it. Listen. Laugh. Learn. Stay hard.00:00 – Welcome to Hard Things (Life Is Hard… So Are Dicks)03:10 – The Sex Spreadsheet That Broke the Internet08:45 – Consent, Marriage & Why “No” Still Means No14:20 – Transactional Touch & Libido Killers19:30 – Mental Load, Motherhood & Overstimulation26:10 – Libido Mismatch: Who’s Wrong? (Spoiler: No One)32:40 – Valentine’s Day Pressure & Bad Expectations38:55 – Dating Like a Job Interview vs Real Chemistry45:20 – Communication Without Spreadsheets51:10 – Effort Gaps, Emotional Labor & Desire57:30 – AI Love Notes & Losing Romantic Awkwardness1:03:45 – Real Intimacy is preferred to Performative Romance1:09:30 – Final Thoughts: Say What You Actually Want

Life is hard... and so are dicks — but like the badass bitches we are, we handle it. In this raw and hilarious episode of Hard Things Podcast, we dive headfirst into everything from snowpocalypse struggles and platform boots to deep conversations about consensual non-consent (CNC), trauma healing, and the psychological power of kink. Plus, you'll get an inside look at our personality test results and the chaos of dating dudes who say “WYD” too much. It’s sex education meets savage commentary, with a heavy dose of real-life snow shoveling rage.Get both your heads right, fam.🔔 Like, comment, subscribe, and share with the real ones. We’re also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio & Facebook!📧 Contact: HardThingsPodcast@gmail.com🧠 Hosted by a real therapist and Co-Hosted by Voice Artist Extraordinaire. Fueled by sarcasm and savage wit.Chapters:0:00 Intro – Life is Hard & So Are Dicks1:52 The Snowpocalypse & Platform Boot Rage5:30 Shoveling Stairs in Dad’s Coat (Send Help)9:01 Houseguests, Book-Inspired Lust & Beating the 10-Minute Mark13:45 Breaking Down CNC & Trauma Recovery19:30 Somatic Healing, Vagus Nerve, and Aftercare Science24:50 Why Submission is a Relief for High Achievers30:10 Red Flags in BDSM & Therapy-Informed Play35:20 Personality Test Results (ENFP vs ESTJ Smackdown)42:00 Therapist Career Rants & Leaderboard Controversy50:15 Dating in the Snow – Perching, Proposals & Personality Clash59:40 Indoor Cats vs. Ski Lodge Dates1:04:20 Final Thoughts – Communication, Freak Matching & Stay Hard

Life is hard — and so are dicks — but like badass bitches, we can handle it.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy spiral (intelligently and hilariously) through erotic audiobooks, toys, libido droughts, bad hookups, stage-five clingers, dating entitlement, and the fine line between confidence and absolute delusion.What starts as a discussion about erotic audiobooks and voice kryptonite turns into a brutally honest breakdown of:What actually gets people in the mood (and what absolutely kills it)Why pressure ruins sex faster than bad techniqueHookup expectations vs realityClingy texting, entitlement, and “you there?” energyIndependence in relationships (inside and outside the bedroom)Why you don’t have to like your partner’s hobbies to support themBeing an indoor house cat in a world full of outdoorsy peopleAustralia: beautiful, terrifying, and not worth the spidersWhy boundaries aren’t mean — they’re necessaryHow grown adults should communicate (hint: not instantly)This episode is raw, funny, reflective, chaotic, and deeply relatable — especially if you value independence, mutual effort, and not being someone’s emotional support human.📩 Send us your stories (anonymous is fine):hardthingspodcast@gmail.com🎧 Available on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music & iHeartRadio👍 Like • Subscribe • Comment • Share🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, sexual content, dating stories, relationship dynamics, explicit humor.⏱️ CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS(Replace times after upload — titles are optimized for scanning & retention)00:00 – Intro: Life is hard & so are dicks03:20 – Why listeners won’t write in (we only bite when asked)07:45 – Erotic audiobooks & voice kryptonite14:30 – Full-cast narration, Lauren Blakely & why it works20:10 – Libido droughts & timing windows27:00 – The hookup that missed the moment34:15 – Pressure, performance & when it all goes sideways41:30 – Toys, effort & “this is not a blowjob-only situation”49:20 – Clingy texting & “you there?” energy57:40 – Independence vs codependency in dating1:06:30 – Hobbies, compatibility & not ruining each other’s joy1:18:00 – Indoor house cats vs outdoorsy humans1:25:10 – Australia is gorgeous but absolutely unhinged1:39:00 – Boundaries are not cruelty1:50:30 – Final thoughts: autonomy, humor & mutual respect

Life is hard — and so are dicks — but unsolicited ones? Absolutely not.In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, Angie and Amy read a listener-submitted story that spirals into a brutally funny (and painfully accurate) breakdown of modern dating, unsolicited dick pics, terrible communication, workplace red flags, and why men absolutely cannot be trusted with measurements. Or why women can't if we believe the measurements guys give us...We talk about:Unsolicited dick pics at work (HR has entered the chat)Why “Mr. 10 Inches” is usually lyingHow women actually respond to dick pics (spoiler: group chat)Dating app conversations that go nowhere fastFetishization vs attraction (BBW talk done right and wrong)Why “hey” and “wyd” are conversation killersPretty privilege, dating myths, and gender resentment narrativesConfidence, boundaries, and why kindness still mattersWhen clapping back is deserved — and when silence is powerThis episode is unfiltered, hilarious, and validating for anyone navigating dating apps, internet audacity, or just trying to survive being perceived online.📩 Send us your stories:hardthingspodcast@gmail.com🎧 Available on Spotify, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music & iHeartRadio👍 Like • Subscribe • Comment • Share🔞 Content Warning: Adult language, sexual topics, dating stories, workplace behavior.⏱️ Chapters / Timestamps(Replace times after upload — titles are optimized for scanning & retention)00:00 – Intro: Life is hard & so are dicks02:10 – Podcast growth, listeners & fan appreciation05:40 – Listener email: unsolicited dick pic at work10:15 – Measuring lies & “Mr. 10 Inches” exposed15:30 – Why women share dick pics in group chats20:45 – Workplace fallout & HR-level chaos26:10 – How men think we’ll react vs reality32:00 – Dating apps, bad openers & communication fails38:30 – Fetishization vs attraction (BBW conversation)45:20 – Confidence, boundaries & manipulation tactics52:10 – Pretty privilege myths & gender resentment takes1:00:30 – Why kindness still matters in dating1:08:00 – Final thoughts, listener shoutouts & wrap-up

Life is hard—and so are dicks. But like badass bitches, we can handle it. 🎤 Welcome to the unfiltered world of the Hard Things Podcast, where real talk, dark humor, and sexual candor collide.In this NSFW episode, Angie and Amy dive deep into:🤯 Being offered a tip (haha) for a glory hole hookup🍆 Dick pics with “consent”?🫣 Freak matching & why it's trending in modern dating🎭 People-pleasing vs. authentic weirdness🚨 Red flags vs. quirks: What’s a dealbreaker?💩 Why going back to your ex is like putting poop back in your butt🧠 Identity crises after breakups🎵 Plus: going HAM = what now?Grab a drink, clutch your pearls, and join us for the chaos.⏱️ Timestamps & Chapters:00:00 - Intro: Life is hard, dicks are harder01:14 - Frog throats & accidental innuendos04:10 - Glory hole economics07:32 - Consent & dick pics12:05 - Why your Tinder pics suck17:20 - Rating dicks (based on what, exactly?)22:40 - Freak Matching 10126:15 - Codependency & “Runaway Bride” syndrome35:50 - Identity crises after divorce42:22 - New boundaries & choosing again51:40 - The turd you don’t put back54:12 - Shitty exes & helping anyway58:33 - Food, prison calls, and buffalo chicken salads1:08:40 - HAM = hard as a what now?!1:12:00 - The power of hating the same thing1:16:50 - Fake freaks vs. real kinks1:25:10 - Freak flags & runaway brides1:30:00 - Closing thoughts, listener challenge, and our usual chaos🎧 Subscribe, rate, and send us your unfiltered confessions:📧 hardthingspodcast@gmail.com📱 TikTok | YouTube Shorts | Facebook Reels | Spotify#StayHard, fam. 💜💦