In this episode of Hard Things Podcast, we dive into something almost everyone does… but nobody experiences the same way — the kiss.For some people it’s casual and fun.For others it’s deeply intimate and more vulnerable than sex.We break down the psychology, biology, and real-life awkwardness behind kissing:• Why a bad kiss can instantly kill attraction• The biology your brain runs during a first kiss• Why some people refuse to kiss during casual hookups• How pheromones and immune compatibility affect attraction• Whether a person can actually learn to kiss better• Why voice, smell, and sensory chemistry matter more than looksPlus — real stories, uncomfortable moments, and the universal question:Can chemistry exist if the kiss doesn’t?This episode mixes science, relationship talk, and honest experiences about attraction, boundaries, and compatibility.CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:15 – Is a bad kiss a dealbreaker?08:20 – Can you teach someone to kiss better?15:40 – When chemistry disappears instantly23:10 – The biology of attraction & immune compatibility31:00 – Why some people don’t kiss during hookups39:30 – Sensory attraction: smell, voice & energy48:00 – First kisses vs first sex memories56:00 – Dating age gaps & attraction psychology1:05:00 – Valentine’s Day & meaningful gestures1:12:00 – Final thoughts