• Vision, Alignment & Harmony | Fractional Integrator Nicole Mennicke | Episode 113
    Sep 18 2026

    In this episode of Forward Facing, Mali and Andy sit down with fractional integrator Nicole Mennicke for an honest conversation about business leadership, workplace culture, accountability, feedback, core values, and why talented employees can still struggle when placed in the wrong roles.


    Nicole explains how the Entrepreneurial Operating System (EOS) helps leadership teams turn ambitious ideas into clear and achievable plans. She shares how structured meetings, effective processes, useful data, and shared accountability can help businesses move from constant uncertainty toward focused and sustainable growth.


    The conversation explores how Nicole helped the Hastings Shadmehry leadership team clarify its vision, establish a shared language, identify organizational weaknesses, and build a stronger foundation for the firm. They discuss why implementing a new operating system can create temporary turmoil—and why some employees may choose to leave when accountability and expectations become clearer.


    They also examine why many leaders claim to want honest feedback until they actually receive it. Nicole shares how businesses can create a healthier feedback culture by addressing problems directly, remaining factual and kind, and placing everyone on the same side of the table against the issue.


    Nicole explains the difference between having the right person and placing that person in the right seat. A talented employee may still underperform when their responsibilities do not match their abilities, while a high performer who does not share the company’s values can quietly damage trust, collaboration, and culture.


    The conversation also covers meaningful core values, creating a consistent client experience, managing organizational change, preventing burnout, processing grief, and replacing the impossible pursuit of work-life balance with greater harmony between personal and professional priorities.


    If you’re a business owner, entrepreneur, manager, lawyer, or team leader struggling with hiring, accountability, workplace culture, employee performance, or business growth, this conversation offers practical guidance for building a healthier and more effective organization.


    Nicole Mennicke can be reached at:

    https://www.instagram.com/nmennicke/


    Timestamps


    00:00 - Trailer / Episode Highlights

    01:54 - Introducing Nicole and Her Role

    03:21 - What a Fractional Integrator Does

    05:54 - Building and Growing the Law Firm

    08:50 - Leadership, Vision and Accountability

    10:21 - Using EOS to Strengthen the Business

    12:29 - Building Strong Systems and Team Alignment

    14:20 - Creating a Healthy Feedback Culture

    20:26 - Defining the Firm’s Core Values

    22:08 - Seeing the Whole and Thinking Ahead

    23:54 - Building Vulnerable Trust

    26:09 - The Power of Humble Confidence

    28:29 - Creating Unequivocal Excellence

    32:03 - The Three Uniques of the Firm

    33:22 - Designing an Exceptional Client Experience

    37:27 - Why Businesses Fail: People, Feedback and Meetings

    39:47 - Building a Culture That Impacts People

    44:45 - Handling Life Changes and Moving Forward

    46:42 - Why Harmony Is Better Than Balance

    48:22 - Personal Growth and Forward Facing Check-In

    53:24 - Where to Connect With Nicole

    54:04 - Closing & Outro


    Evolve with us!


    Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.com

    Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcast

    Instagram: @forwardfacingpodcast

    TikTok: @HastingsShadmehry


    Email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com


    Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/


    Subscribe to Forward Facing for honest conversations about leadership, workplace culture, relationships, resilience, personal growth, healing, and intentionally creating your next chapter.


    #BusinessLeadership #WorkplaceCulture #Hiring #EOS #TeamBuilding #EmployeePerformance #BusinessGrowth #CoreValues #LeadershipDevelopment #NicoleMennicke #ForwardFacing

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    54 Min.
  • Resilience, Perspective & Life After Cancer | CDRE Jill Heineck | Episode 112
    Sep 4 2026

    In this episode of Forward Facing, Mali sits down with Jill Heineck for a deeply personal conversation about cancer, resilience, identity, mental healing, relationships, and what it takes to rebuild your life after everything suddenly changes.Jill was just 35, thriving in her career and marriage, when she was diagnosed with uterine cancer.


    What followed was a radical hysterectomy, chemotherapy, hair loss, and an experience that forced her to confront not only her health, but the identity she had built around her career, appearance, independence, and drive.Years later, Jill faced cancer again, being diagnosed with bladder cancer in 2017 and then again in 2020.


    She also opens up about additional battles with melanoma and basal cell skin cancer, and what repeated diagnoses taught her about living with uncertainty.The conversation goes beyond the physical side of cancer into the emotional reality of losing your hair, struggling to recognize yourself, continuing to show up professionally while undergoing treatment, and learning that sometimes survival means allowing other people to carry you.


    Jill also shares how cancer completely changed the way she approached business, boundaries, relationships, and the people she allowed into her life. Some close friends disappeared after her diagnosis, while unexpected people stepped forward, teaching her one of her biggest lessons: when people show you who they are, believe them.


    They also discuss the often-overlooked experience of caregivers, learning to ask for help, protecting your energy, advocating for your own health, and why Jill believes the mental healing was ultimately harder than the physical recovery.If you’ve experienced cancer, a health crisis, loss of identity, a major life transition, or simply found yourself wondering how to move forward after life changes overnight, this conversation is a reminder that rebuilding doesn’t always mean returning to who you were before.


    Jill Heineck can be reached at:https://heineckandcompany.com/


    Timestamps

    00:00 - 02:30 | Trailer and Introduction

    02:30 - 04:49 | First Cancer Diagnosis and Life Suddenly Changing

    04:49 - 09:07 | Early Symptoms, Diagnosis, and Advocating for Your Health

    09:07 - 14:17 | Surgery, Hair Loss Fears, and Family Support

    14:17 - 20:07 | The Physical and Emotional Reality of Chemotherapy

    20:07 - 22:21 | Rethinking Work, Boundaries, and Personal Energy

    22:21 - 27:09 | Hair Loss, Identity, and Rebuilding Confidence

    27:09 - 30:44 | Learning to Accept Help and Support Caregivers

    30:44 - 37:01 | Cancer Support, Relationships, and Who Truly Shows Up

    37:01 - 41:39 | Recovery, Career Challenges, and Rebuilding After Cancer

    41:39 - 45:21 | Moving Beyond Victimhood and Reinventing Her Business

    45:21 - 48:47 | Bladder Cancer, Recurrence, and More Health Battles

    48:47 - 51:16 | Fitness, Mental Healing, and Fear of Cancer Returning

    51:16 - 53:06 | Prevention, Screening, and Staying Proactive About Health

    53:06 - 55:30 | Toxic Relationships and Jill’s Biggest Life Lessons

    55:30 - 59:15 | Moving Forward Through New Personal Goals

    59:15 - 01:00:08 | Where to Find Jill and Closing Thoughts


    Evolve with us!

    Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.com

    Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcast

    Instagram: @forwardfacingpodcast

    TikTok: @HastingsShadmehry

    Email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com

    Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/


    Subscribe to Forward Facing for honest conversations about resilience, relationships, divorce, health, personal growth, identity, healing and intentionally creating your next chapter.


    #CancerSurvivor #CancerJourney #Resilience #CancerAwareness #ForwardFacing #JillHeineck #CancerRecovery #PersonalGrowth #HealingJourney #SurvivorStory

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  • Defining Success & Reinventing Yourself | Life Coach Tonya Chaplin | Episode 111
    Aug 21 2026

    In this episode of **Forward Facing**, Mali Shadmehry and Andee Hastings sit down with **Tonya Chaplin, founder of Tonya Chaplin Coaching**, for a powerful conversation about **limiting beliefs, mindset, identity, success, personal growth, and rebuilding your life through major transitions**.


    Tonya explains how fear, comfort, old conditioning, and beliefs formed through life experiences can quietly influence the decisions we make. They explore why **comfort can feel like safety**, why highly driven and successful people can still feel stuck or unfulfilled, and what happens when you finally begin questioning the version of life you thought you were supposed to want.


    Tonya also shares her own transformation — from nearly two decades in the corporate world to stepping away from a successful career, going through a major weight-loss and fitness journey, competing in bodybuilding in her 40s as a mother of three, and eventually becoming a life performance and mindset coach.


    The conversation goes deeper into **identity after divorce and major life changes**, including the difficult question many people face when a relationship, career, body, or familiar chapter changes: *Who am I now?* They also discuss **Core Energy Coaching, the Energy Leadership Index, defining your personal values, changing habits through awareness, redefining success on your own terms, and what to look for when choosing a qualified life coach**.


    If your life looks good on paper but something still feels missing, you’re navigating divorce or another major life transition, or you’re trying to understand why you keep falling into the same patterns, this conversation is for you.


    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Introduction to Tonya Chaplin

    01:38 – What Does a Life Coach Actually Do?

    03:12 – Fear, Failure & the Beliefs Holding Us Back

    05:36 – Why Comfort Isn’t the Same as Safety

    08:47 – Who Tonya Works With

    10:37 – Why Successful People Can Still Feel Stuck

    13:37 – Why the Goal Was Never Really the Point

    15:08 – Identity, Energy & the People You Attract

    17:55 – Core Energy Coaching & the Energy Leadership Index

    21:05 – Are You Living by Your Own Values?

    23:51 – When a Successful Life Still Feels Unfulfilling

    25:55 – Rebuilding Your Life During Divorce

    29:03 – Why Awareness Comes Before Change

    33:01 – The Ripple Effect of Personal Growth

    34:50 – The Skills & Ethics Behind Life Coaching

    36:30 – How to Spot Red Flags in a Life Coach

    39:33 – Choosing the Right Support During Vulnerable Times

    43:44 – What Does Success Actually Mean?

    45:24 – Tonya’s Personal Journey Begins

    47:24 – Career, Motherhood & Losing Herself Along the Way

    55:05 – What Bodybuilding Taught Her About Herself

    56:34 – The Vision That Led Her to Life Coaching

    57:14 – Healing, Limiting Beliefs & Starting a New Chapter

    01:08:44 – Taking Risks & Creating the Life You Actually Want

    01:09:56 – What 20 Years of Marriage Taught Her

    01:11:41 – The Identity Shift After Divorce

    01:12:09 – “Who Am I Now?” After a Relationship Ends

    01:18:56 – Forward Facing Personal Check-In

    01:28:35 – Where to Find Tonya & Closing Thoughts


    Subscribe to **Forward Facing** for honest conversations about personal growth, relationships, divorce, mindset, resilience, identity and intentionally creating your next chapter.


    Watch the new episode here - https://youtu.be/OE3EaQmaiaQ#LimitingBeliefs

    #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #LifeCoaching #ForwardFacing #SelfDevelopment #DivorceRecovery #LifeTransitions #MindsetCoach #PersonalDevelopment

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    1 Std. und 31 Min.
  • Self-Care During Divorce | Protecting Your Peace & Building Your Future | Episode 110
    Aug 7 2026

    Self-care isn't just about bubble baths and spa days—especially during divorce. It's about protecting your physical, emotional, and mental well-being so you can make thoughtful decisions and move confidently into your next chapter.

    In this episode, Andee and Mali discuss why self-care is one of the most important investments you can make during the divorce process. From setting healthy boundaries and managing stress to prioritizing your health and surrounding yourself with the right support, they share practical insights for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions with resilience and intention.

    Join the conversation as the ladies discuss why caring for yourself isn't a distraction from the divorce process—it's one of the best ways to prepare for the life you're building after it.


    00:02 Open

    00:56 Intro

    02:19 Why Self-Care Matters in Divorce

    03:25 The Battlefield Mindset

    05:37 Bridging Emotion and Legal Strategy

    06:55 A Client's Story of Growth

    08:25 Building Your Support Team

    16:36 Boundaries as Self-Care

    18:51 Real Client Example: Setting Boundaries

    22:26 Social Media During a Divorce

    23:47 Exercise Matters

    27:24 Hobbies and Finding "The Glitter"

    33:57 Staying Forward Facing

    35:00 How Have You Evolved This Week?

    38:22 Wrap Up


    Evolve with us!


    Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.com

    Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcast

    Instagram: @forwardfacingpodcast

    TikTok: @HastingsShadmehry

    email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com


    Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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    39 Min.
  • Saving Lost Dogs | The Story of Jason Flatt | Episode 102 ENCORE
    Jul 24 2026

    In this ENCORE of our first Forward Facing interview, Andee and Mali introduce you to Jason Flatt. Jason left Wall Street after a family tragedy and started his own pit bull rescue, and he is in GREAT demand as a tracker of lost pets.Jason came to the Hastings Shadmehry wolfpack at a moment of GREAT distress.His story is all about strength, resilience, re-invention, and self-knowledge.Join the conversation with the one-of-a-kind Jason Flatt!Here's all of Jason's contacts:https://www.friendstotheforlorn.orghttps://www.facebook.com/FriendsToTheForlornPitbullRescuehttps://www.instagram.com/fttfpitbull/00:50 Introducing Jason Flatt01:31 Why Jason Matters to the Wolfpack03:04 Growing Up with Calvin the Pit Bull04:58 Understanding Dogs06:23 The Emotional Toll of Rescue Work08:13 How Dog Traps Work09:34 Rescue Story: The Bear Cub14:12 Jason's Early Career18:20 Moving from New York to Georgia21:23 Depression and Hitting Rock Bottom24:38 Angelo: The Dog That Changed Everything26:06 First Steps into Pit Bull Rescue29:04 Apollo: The First True Rescue Success30:29 From Rescue to Missing Dog Recovery32:48 The Cow That Helped Find a Dog34:34 The Story of Stella’s Rescue39:30 Lessons Learned from Dog Rescue49:44 Where to find Jason and help his Organization50:40 Wrap-upEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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    52 Min.
  • How Attorneys Are Using AI & What Can Go Wrong | Episode 103 ENCORE
    Jul 10 2026

    Andee and Mali needed to take a break from production, so we're bringing you this ENCORE release of their conversation with attorney Kendall Carter.


    What happens when artificial intelligence starts reshaping one of the most tradition-bound professions?In this episode, Andee and Mali are joined by AI aficionado Kendall Carter to explore how artificial intelligence is starting to reshape the legal industry. They dive into the growing role of AI in law, unpacking why so many attorneys are adopting new tools and what that means for the future of the profession.They look at both sides of the story, from the benefits of AI -- like increased efficiency and productivity -- to the potential downsides, including accuracy concerns and ethical challenges. Kendall shares insight into where things can go wrong and why human judgment still plays a critical role.Join the conversation for a thoughtful, accessible look at the opportunities and risks of artificial intelligence.Kendall Carter can be found at: https://aspire.law/our-team/kendall-carter/and at LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kendallwcarter/00:59 Introducing Kendall Carter03:36 Kendall's Law School & Career Highlights06:27 How Kendall Got Into AI08:08 AI in Legal Practice10:44 Best Uses of AI in Law14:02 AI & Value To Clients16:32 AI Pitfalls & Fake Cases19:03 Potential Consequences of Misuse21:39 Client Trust & Reputation25:34 A Good Way For Clients To Use AI33:58 How Have you Evolved Recently?40:42 Closing & OutroEvolve with us!Visit our NEW website: https://forwardfacing.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcastTikTok: @HastingsShadmehryemail us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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    42 Min.
  • Meet Sarah Price Smith | Family Law, Advocacy & Life at Full Speed | Episode 109
    Jun 26 2026

    Andee and Mali sit down with associate attorney Sarah Price Smith to hear about the experiences that shaped her path to family law.

    Sarah shares the perspective that fuels her passion for helping clients navigate some of life's most challenging transitions and manage their families afterward —and why she feels most at home advocating for them in the courtroom.

    Sarah brings an energetic, fearless approach to everything she does, both inside and outside the office.

    Join the conversation as the ladies discuss purpose, resilience, and choosing to move forward with confidence—both in law and in life.


    Find Sarah at:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepriceissmith/https://hsfamilylaw.com/firm/sarah-price/


    00:00 Welcome to Forward Facing

    00:50 Meet Sarah Price Smith

    03:38 Warrior or Diplomat? Returns!

    04:45 Vaunted Family History

    10:26 How Childhood Shaped Her Family Law Career

    12:02 From Pre-Med to Law School

    16:14 Choosing Family Law

    19:24 First Time in Court

    24:22 Favorite Family Law Cases

    26:11 Finding Hastings Shadmehry

    29:31 Love Story

    33:54 Balancing Law and Life

    36:05 How Have You Evolved This Week?

    42:23 Where to Find Sarah / Wrap-up


    Evolve with us!

    Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.com

    Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcastInstagram: @forwardfacingpodcast

    TikTok: @HastingsShadmehry

    email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com


    Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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    44 Min.
  • Managing Client Expectations in Family Lawyer | John Rife | Episode 108
    Jun 12 2026

    In this episode, Andee and Mali welcome veteran family law attorney John Rife to the show to tell them his views on mentoring, giving back to commnity and how he manages his clients' expectations.

    John shares Andee's and Mali's view that prepping the client at the start of the case for what might happen at the end is essential for a client's overall satisfaction with the case, and their ability to move forward with confidence.

    Join the conversation as these family law experts talk about career, motivation, and client care.


    Contact John Rife:

    www.rifelawfirm.com

    www.linkedin.com/in/john-rife-b18862b3

    www.cummingcigars.com


    00:55 Introduction

    02:12 The Incident That Led John to Law

    04:46 Early Career & Finding His Way to Family Law

    08:01 Lessons From Juvenile Court

    09:38 Managing Expectations in Divorce

    11:29 Divorce, Grief & Moving Forward

    18:01 Guardian ad Litem Explained

    19:25 Rebuilding Families in Juvenile Court

    25:16 The Forward Facing Mindset

    30:01 Why Mediation Matters

    33:04 Chess, Not Checkers

    36:30 Forward Facing Check In

    41:15 Wrap-Up

    Evolve with us!

    Visit our website: https://forwardfacing.com

    Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/forwardfacingpodcast

    Instagram: @forwardfacingpodcast

    TikTok: @HastingsShadmehry

    email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com

    Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

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    43 Min.