In this spontaneous episode (recorded in the quiet before preschool pick-up), I share raw reflections about what visibility really means — beyond the nervous system, beyond Human Design, beyond strategy.

Because before you can be seen out there…

you have to learn to see yourself first.

We explore:

💭 Why visibility begins in your own eyes

Before content plans, before strategy — it starts with acknowledging your worth, skills, and lived experience.

💡 How early experiences shape how we “receive” success

I share a childhood story that shaped my belief that I didn’t deserve to receive success — and how that pattern quietly echoed in business, motherhood, and money.

💰 Why visibility and receiving are connected

The way you receive love, money, rest, and even responsibility mirrors how you receive visibility.

If you don’t feel worthy of being seen, you’ll unconsciously block what’s trying to find you.

⚡️ The difference between managing and receiving

So many of us say “I’m managing money,” “I’m managing motherhood,” “I’m managing my time.”

But true power comes when you stop managing — and start receiving.

🧘‍♀️ A gentle challenge:

This week, see your life through the lens of receiving.

How do you receive your ambition? Your rest? Your role as a mother and a business owner?

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This episode isn’t about visibility as performance.

It’s about visibility as self-recognition.

Because before the world can see your brilliance — you have to see it too.

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🧠 Mentioned in this episode:

🎧 Find Her Again™ – Free 7-Day Voice Note Journey

A gentle audio experience to help you reconnect with your voice, visibility, and self-worth — on your terms.

💌 Connect with me on Instagram @firestartermum

Join the Firestarter Mum community for honest conversations about motherhood, identity, and visibility.

🔥 Find your fire and shine!

Gosia x

You’ve been told that mums don’t show up because they’re afraid of being judged.
But what if fear isn’t the real reason?
What if the actual block is that you’re no longer sure who’s doing the showing up?

In this intimate, late-evening recording, I talk about visibility from a place no one prepares you for:
The messy middle.
The in-between.
That liminal space after a major identity shift — like motherhood, midlife, or a business reinvention — where your voice feels distant and your message… unclear.

We explore:

✔️ Why visibility blocks are often identity blocks
✔️ The 3 stages of transformation: separation, liminality, reintegration
✔️ Why you might feel muted — even if you were once confident and clear
✔️ The business beliefs that no longer fit post-motherhood (and what’s replacing them)
✔️ Why voice notes and raw reflections can help you reconnect with yourself
✔️ The nervous system truth no one tells you: “Safety comes before strategy.”

This episode isn’t about bouncing back or powering through.
It’s about naming the invisible — and giving yourself permission to be seen before you have it all figured out.

🧠 Mentioned in this episode:
🎧 Find Her Again™ – Free 7-Day Voice Note Journey
A gentle space to reconnect with your voice, identity and visibility — on your terms.

🧭 Ready to navigate the in-between with support?

DM me @firestartermum or email firestartermum@gmail.com and let me know where you are on your identity journey.

You don’t have to skip the messy middle.
It’s where your magnetism lives.

Find Your Fire & Shine!

Gosia x

In this episode of Firestarter Mum, I break down visibility through the lens of Human Design. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “bad at showing up,” this episode will shift everything.

I walk you through how each energy type (Manifestor, Generator, MG, Projector, Reflector) experiences visibility differently—and why the pressure to be consistent like everyone else is actually burning you out.

Expect powerful metaphors (like wildfire vs. lighthouse), practical examples (especially for life coaches), and permission to stop forcing strategies that don’t match your rhythm.

✨ Download the Visibility Map by Design (no email required):

📲 Want to chat about your visibility rhythm?

DM me on Instagram @firestartermum — I’d love to send you a voice note reply ❤️