Our New Years celebration was "neutral." A very enjoyable evening with plenty of disappointment. Also: how something as simple as wearing a fedora could be a catalyst for fun with another couple.

Plus: Evan Swings gets a not-so-great review!

I have some brief updates from previous episodes and then I dive in to what money can't buy in the lifestyle. Spoiler alert: it's confidence.

My fourth episode in a seemingly endless series! Eva and I are kind of shy when it comes to in-person meetings. While some prefer going to clubs and events to meet new couples, we prefer to stick to lifestyle sites and apps to initiate conversations with potential matches. That unfortunately leads to a great deal of unexpected (or maybe I should say expected) interesting and infuriating interactions!

We have had a lot of good luck meeting awesome, compatible couples in the lifestyle. But lately, our luck has been awful. Today's episode is a story about a couple who seemed so perfect for us it was almost too good to be true. We hadn't met any new couples in almost a year so this was a breath of fresh air...that quickly went to crap. This is kind of a sequel to my club story from Episode 56. So feel free to check out that one before giving this one a listen!

Discretion seems to be a very important part of a couple's involvement in the lifestyle. Most couples say their vanilla friends and family are unaware (based on my experience of course). But what happens what happens when a family member discovers the secret...and tells others? In this episode I'll talk about a wild situation involving our son and how we handled it.

Going to a lifestyle club is something Eva and I love to do. It's a judgement-free environment where we can dance, drink, and be ourselves. We never go with the expectation that we will be hooking up with a couple. We have found that if you go with no expectations (except to enjoy the company of your significant other), there won't be any disappointment! This episode's story proves my point as our evening at a Halloween party proves to be very enjoyable.

There are some lifestyle topics that some people (not all) find uncomfortable to talk about. I feel it is important to address topics like these. It helps to "tear down the walls" and erase negative stigmas. That's what this episode is all about. In this episode I tackle some topics that some would shy away from. Included are:

1. Erectile Disfunction

2. STI's/STD's

3. Buttholes

4. Penis size

What happens when Eva and I meet a sexy couple who don't speak our language? Find out in this episode. I'll tell the story of how we met a couple from "Colombia" at a club and how, although language was a barrier, we eventually met them for a very fun play date. Some other updates as well.