• East Village Love Stories| Ep.13: A Short Film About Love
    Sep 24 2022

    If you know a relationship would come to an end one day, are you still willing to fall in love? How is it like to be soulmates rather than lovers? This episode might make you reconsider the labels that we use to define romance. Our host Selina sat down with Susan Zhang, director of a short film titled "Love in New York, but not only in New York", and discussed her story-crafting journey in an encounter with two lovers-- Maria and Ken. Love is powerful in and of itself, and as witnesses of which we are empowered as well.

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    24 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories| Ep.12: Orbit of Love
    May 14 2022

    In this episode of East Village Love Stories, Aria Young shared the story of her recent breakup: My ex-boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship for one and a half years. Despite the distance, our love was passionate and intense. As an international student in New York, I don’t have family in the states to rely on. So his family became mine. I stayed with his family on holidays and weekends, and he visited me in the city often as well. I was so confident in our partnership and in our future together — until I was proved wrong. What I thought were “healthy disagreements” turned into outbursts of anger from both of us. My insecurities in the relationship clashed with his lack of determination for the future. Questions about my legal status came into play, childhood traumas and personality flaws weighed on our shoulders… While I held the relationship hostage and demanded the security that I wasn’t able to find anywhere else, he pulled away in fear. Towards the end of our relationship, we still loved each other intensely, but he was too exhausted to try again. For me, losing him was more than a breakup, it felt like losing my home. Being young and alone in this country, I am constantly struggling to feel safe and secure. Without a partner to call home, I am now finally learning to find comfort in myself, to love life through my creativity, and to heal my inner child, the child that has been hurt and abandoned before and still feels that way. Bell Hooks said, “Love saves us only if we want to be saved.” Reflecting on my failed relationship, I was not ready for redemption no matter how redeeming love felt. While the loss of a lover still follows me like a shadow, I feel this new journey beginning — a journey of growth and discoveries, a journey I can only go on by myself.

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    23 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 11: Let the Guys Talk
    Apr 22 2022

    Welcome back! Have you ever wondered what guys' intake of crushes, red and green flags, relationships in highschool vs college, and so much more? In this episode, our host Parker and guests JJ, Felix, and Kayla discuss these topics, as well as give their opinions and personal experiences table-talk style. So sit back, get some popcorn, soda, or whatever. Relax and enjoy!

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    23 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 10: Sex ≠ Love
    Apr 7 2022

    "I want to be able to call myself a responsible slut," she said. In this episode, Shreya brought to us a story about her love for sex, and her personal journey to destigmatize her casual relationships. Sex positivity is important, so is practicing safe sex.

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    19 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 9: Love But From a Distance
    Mar 10 2022

    Is Long Distance easy? Of course not! In this episode, our host Parker will dive deep with guests Sienna and Kayla on the good, the bad, and the ugly in long distance relationships. Thinking back on their own long distance relationships, Sienna and Kayla give us a taste on what to not only expect but also advice to others who are in or planning to commit to this type of relationship. Sit down, grab a cup of coffee, and enjoy this relaxing discussion!

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    23 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 8: How can love be a negative sum game?
    Feb 24 2022

    Why do we choose not to get into a serious relationship even though we long for true sincere connection? In this episode, we applied the Game Theory and Freudian psychoanalysis concepts to love, and we broke down the rational and emotional aspects of a casual relationship. How can the Prisoner's Dilemma be used to explain romantic relationships? What does Freud mean by the "Oceanic feeling"? The answer is in the podcast.

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    20 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 7: Online Dating Whomst?
    Feb 10 2022

    Starting with a simple question: "Do you use online dating apps?", this episode explores the online dating culture among college students. Our host Selina and Miranda went to Washington Square Park and street interviewed people about their app experience. The answers were almost unanimous. And that leads us to a discussion of the so-called hookup culture. Professor Michael Kaye, former Senior Global Communications & PR Manager at OkCupid, also joined us and shared how dating apps help the LGBTQ+ community to identify themselves in such an environment.

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    20 Min.
  • East Village Love Stories | Episode 6: Love Is Difficult, What Do I Do Now?
    Jan 25 2022

    Love is in itself a turbulent experience, Emotion comes like a rollercoaster except that it proceeds without a designated route. Alongside creating lasting memories with one another, lovers also need to cope with difficulties that come in between. In this episode, our host Selina interviewed her roommate Éos who contracted COVID during her recent trip to visit her boyfriend's family in Colorado. In the second half of the episode, we turned to three NYU students who chose online dating apps during the pandemic. They pitched in about some unexpected encounters there as well as the downside of virtual communication.

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    17 Min.