When Jesus introduced the new blueprint for marriage—no divorce, total monogamy—it stunned the Apostles. His vision was bold, uncompromising, and utterly countercultural. But with the power of the Holy Spirit, it’s not only possible—it’s transformational.

Enter Father Josiah Trenham: Orthodox pastor, husband of 37 years, and father of ten. In this episode, he unpacks the divine design for marriage—why it’s essential for civilization and for sanctifying your soul. You’ll walk away challenged, inspired, and ready to see marriage as a holy mission with eternal impact.

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00:00:00 - Intro

00:03:40 - Why Focus on Love and Marriage?

00:09:57 - Seven Weeks Coffee

00:10:40 - What is St John Chrysostom’s vision of marriage?

00:18:43 - Jesus establishing the importance of marriage

00:21:55 - Marriage got completely mangled

00:22:48 - Hallow

00:23:38 - (‘No such thing as Judeo-Christian ethic’

00:30:45 - What did early Christians think about marriage?

00:32:25 - Why was sexual revolution so ‘effective’?

00:42:14 - What about single people?

00:47:39 - The role of contraception in demise of sexual morality

00:52:18 - No Fault Divorce

00:55:06 - Pastoring LGBT people

00:59:03 - Theological understanding of marriage

01:07:44 - Honoring Children

01:09:11 - Eros and Sexual Attraction

01:10:07 - Why should couples have children?

01:22:00 - Be fruitful and multiply

01:24:14 - Natural Family Planning

01:28:40 - Sexual Fasting