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David, Saul, and Handling Toxic Leaders

https://faithfulontheclock.captivate.fm/episode/david-saul-and-handling-toxic-leaders

Saul was a toxic leader as David rose to the top. Episode 133 of Faithful on the Clock offers takeaways from their relationship to help you be more effective.

Timestamps:

[00:04] - Intro

[00:51] - Summary of the story of David and Saul

[06:17] - Anointed but not appointed

[07:43] - What’s motivating the toxic leader under the surface

[09:25] - Don’t compromise your values to match the dysfunction

[10:02] - The importance of allies and advocates

[11:47] - Self-protection as wisdom

[13:07] - Being developed even where you didn’t plan to be

[13:55] - Avoiding “fixing” the leader

[14:57] - Seeing the leader’s humanity despite their mistakes

[16:56] - Prayer

[17:49] - Outro/What’s coming up next

Key takeaways:

• Saul was God’s anointed king, but He disobeyed God and was not respectful to Him. His relationship with David began as Saul sought music to calm and heal his spirit. But once David was anointed himself and started to gain fame as a warrior, Saul’s insecurity tore him apart. He plotted against and tried to kill David for the rest of his life because he feared David would take his kingdom and exceed his own greatness.
• You can be anointed but not yet appointed. Trust God to bring you into authority in His perfect timing.
• Toxic leaders often feel threatened by the gifts of others. Try to understand what’s activating them underneath the surface.
• Don’t compromise your values to match a toxic leader’s dysfunction. David kept his focus on God, rather than playing tit-for-tat games and seeking to harm Saul for his own benefit.
• Find wise advocates and allies. They will protect and affirm you through the chaos a toxic leader creates. You don’t have to survive alone.
• It’s not disloyal to protect yourself. Self-protection is wisdom, not rebellion.
• God can still develop you in the wilderness. Just as David grew in the cave, you can grow wherever God sends you for safety.
• Let God handle vengeance and timing. Your job isn’t justice, but rather humility, obedience, and to be ready for what God asks of you.
• See the humanity the toxic leader has. Grace is emotional maturity.

CTAs:

• Who’s your Jonathan? Think about who helps you stay grounded when leadership gets hard. Reach out and thank them this week — or intentionally look for someone who can be...