We talk a lot about growth, goals, and “what’s next”… but rarely about something just as powerful: pride.

In this episode, I share a moment from a live group coaching call that stopped me in my tracks—when a woman casually brushed past the fact that she had just stepped into the next level of her business. And it opened a much bigger conversation about how often we skip over our own courage, effort, and becoming.

We’ll explore:

• Why pride isn’t arrogance—and what real confidence actually looks like
• How to stop waiting for results before you let yourself feel good
• The quiet, brave moments that deserve just as much pride as the “big wins”
• Why effort matters more than outcomes
• And how learning to feel proud of yourself can change how you show up in your work, relationships, and life

I also share a personal story about a hard, vulnerable reach-out that didn’t get the response I hoped for—but left me feeling deeply proud of how I showed up. Because sometimes pride isn’t loud… it’s honest.

If you’ve ever felt like you move too quickly to the next thing, struggle with comparison, or find it easier to celebrate everyone else than yourself—this episode is for you.

This is an invitation to slow down, acknowledge who you are becoming, and let pride become a partner in your life.

Relevant Links:

Free Monthly Group Coaching:

www.tamarcoaching.com/group

Special January Only Offer

www.tamarcoaching.com/success

There’s a moment in business that almost all of us hit at some point.

We’re showing up. We’re creating. We’re doing all the things. And still, clients and money aren’t really moving the way we hoped they would.

In this episode, I slow that moment down and take a closer look at what’s actually happening. Most of the time, it’s not about effort. It’s about value, fit, and whether what we’re putting out into the world is really landing for the people we want to serve.

I talk about why value isn’t something we get to decide for ourselves, how learning “fit” takes time and attention, and what I’ve learned from watching where clients actually come from.

I also share the idea of the 10-to-1 rule of profitability, and how creating generously and consistently allows value to circulate in ways we can’t always track or control.

We also explore the idea of building a “value bank” in your business. Thinking about everything you create — podcast episodes, emails, free calls, workshops, content — as something that doesn’t disappear, but instead becomes part of a growing reserve you can draw from to support people with ease and generosity.

Toward the end of the episode, I share about a new three-session coaching option I opened for January, called The Success Series, and who it’s for. It’s designed for people who want clarity, direction, or support around something specific in their life or business, without committing to a long-term container.

If you’ve been doing a lot and wondering why things aren’t clicking yet, this episode will help you look at your business with a little more spaciousness and trust.

LINKS:

January Only Offer: Success Series

https://www.tamarcoaching.com/success

Free Monthly Group Coaching Call

https://www.tamarcoaching.com/group

What if the reason you don’t follow through on your goals isn’t because you don’t want them badly enough… but because you’re making them too big of a deal?

In this first episode of the year, I’m sharing something I’m actively working through myself — a quieter, lighter way of going after what we want without burning out or bailing when things get hard.

We talk about why motivation and passion can actually work against us, how pressure creates the familiar “rollercoaster” with our goals, and what happens when we build from trust instead of intensity.

This isn’t about lowering your standards or not caring. It’s about finding that middle place where a goal is important, but not life-or-death, so you can stay in the game long enough to actually see it through.

If you’ve ever started something with a lot of excitement and then quietly dropped it weeks or months later, this episode is for you.

Important Links to Note:

Success Series

https://www.tamarcoaching.com/success

Free Monthly Group Coaching

https://www.tamarcoaching.com/group