Unlock the secrets of being a high-value man by 2025. What's the importance of creating value, developing scarce resources, building multiple income streams, and the critical role of strength, courage, and authenticity? Learn actionable tips on adaptability, leadership, and effective personal presentation to become a respected and desirable man in the modern world. 00:00 High-Value-Man-2025 00:56 What Makes a Man a Man? 01:15 Going Through 5 Points 01:43 Point 1 02:05 Is Hustle Culture Good For You? 02:27 Does a High Value Man Have to Look Attractive? 03:06 True Power and Controlling Your Own Resources 05:21 What Are Scarce Resources? 05:42 Why Are Some Broke Men Attractive? 06:06 Is Leadership a Scarce Resource? 06:34 Where Do Hard Skills Fit In? 07:07 Does Travel Give You An Advantage? 08:01 Authenticity as a Scarce Resource 08:29 Adaptability as a Scarce Resource 09:04 You Probably Already Have Access to Scarce Resources 09:25 Point Three: How To Be The 4x4 Man in 2025? 10:16 How Does AI Fit Into Your Life? 11:07 What Is The Multi-Purpose High Value Man? 11:32 4x4 Man Point 2: How to Apply to 2025 12:33 4x4 Man Point 3: Kings, Walls, Archers, and Warriors 14:48 4x4 Man Point 4: Strength & Health 15:49 Is Cold Plunge The Same As Lifting Weights? 16:05 4x4 Man Point 5: Leadership 16:40 Leadership vs. Operational Support. Which is for you? 17:36 4x4 Man Point 6: Love Who You Love 18:00 Don't Lie About Your Feelings 19:05 The #1 Tip For Dating Success 19:41 How Do You Present Yourself To The World In 2025? 20:08 A 4x4 Man At His Core 20:51 What is your list? 20:56 How To Get Fatter & Lonelier 21:41 Find Your Style 22:08 How's Your Online Presence? 23:03 Nothing above this matters without this... 24:17 Don't Be A Loser 25:00 Be The Man That Other Men Respect And Women Want To Sleep With

Unlock the secrets of dating and navigate when she starts to pull away. In this episode, we explain the common misconceptions men have about pursuing women and emphasize the importance of creating mystery and not coming on too strong.

We talk about maintaining a balance, keeping the dating process fun and engaging, and how to ensure she ends up chasing you.

Learn practical strategies to stay attractive, build meaningful connections, and enjoy the dating game with confidence.

00:00 What To Do When They Pull Away

02:01 Point One

03:13 Don't Ruin The Mystery

04:00 You DESERVE To Play The Game

04:44 Communicating Your Insecurity

05:00 Women Want To Look Up To You

05:28 Embarrassing Rejection

06:25 You're Probably Trying To Trap Her

08:01 Point Two

08:47 You Attract The Attitude You Put Out

09:19 Your Main Job In Dating

09:38 The Correct Dating Cadence

10:10 Like Netflix Fatigue

10:31 The Best Way To Look Attractive

10:59 The Only Real Counter to "I Need Space..."

11:55 What She Looks Like When She's In Love

12:34 Point Four

12:55 Read The Room

13:42 Matching Energy

14:55 What's It Mean To Lead?

15:51 Women Want To Be The Ones Chasing

16:21 How To Set A Date

16:48 Point Six

17:45 You As A Successful Dater

What are the detrimental effects of social media thirst traps? Discover six strategies to shift your mindset, navigate digital distractions, and connect with real women in your community. Chad shares personal anecdotes, practical advice, and emphasizes the importance of real-life interactions over virtual dopamine hits. Learn how to regain control of your attention and foster meaningful relationships while escaping the allure of social media. 00:00 Meet-Your-IG-Model-In-Real-Life 00:15 That Nasty Social Media Rot 01:24 Six Key Points 02:07 Life Is Rich 03:56 Point One 04:58 Getting In Real Life 05:53 Find Your Type 07:42 Point Two 09:12 In Real Life With Real Resources 10:40 IRL is the Secret Sauce 11:05 Point Three 11:42 The Social Media Pedestal 13:05 Setup For Disappointment 14:12 Point Four 14:54 We Like Looking At Ourselves 16:15 Point Five 17:30 Real Social Proof 18:36 Meeting Them In Real Life 19:18 Real Life Real Hormones 20:02 Get Shot Down Challenge 21:06 Point Six 21:31 Being Beautiful Doesn't Work For A Man 22:14 Men Taking Selfies 23:02 Avoiding The Friend Zone 23:52 Tactical Bonuses 24:37 Expensive Gym Memberships? 25:10 Don't Be A Wagging Tail 25:58 Stop Chasing

This episode is a break down of the key results that will not only change your dating life but also lead to extraordinary professional and personal achievements.

Discover how boosting your confidence, especially in dating, can enhance your overall life quality and success.

Chad shares personal anecdotes, from navigating social settings with ease to understanding the importance of living with authenticity and courage.

If you're an entrepreneur or business professional looking to elevate your relationships and self-esteem, this is a video for you!

00:00 5-Extraordinary-Dating-Results

00:25 Intro

01:28 Shout Out To The Wife

01:51 Note On Apathy

02:40 Point One

03:18 Is It All About Looks?

03:48 An Assumption of Sophistication

04:12 Approaching Ten Women

04:56 You Owe Here AND You This Spark

05:46 Where Rejection Fits In

06:47 You Deserve The Woman Of Your Dreams

07:07 Point Two

08:10 What Happens When A Girl Is Teasing You?

09:50 How Does Confidence Impact Your Career?

10:33 Their Missed Opportunity

10:49 Competition With Other Men

12:05 Compounding Success

12:41 Confidence Around Key Leaders

13:48 Point Three

14:07 Extraordinary Results

15:52 Flow State In Your Problem Solving

17:07 The Extraordinary Results Are Not Far Away

17:53 Point Four

18:50 Generating Money Creatively

19:38 Little Things In Business Worth Millions

20:42 Point Five

22:03 IPO Millions

22:52 More Money Than You Could Ever Make

23:16 More Attractive Women Than You Could Ever Date

24:13 What Do You Do When Dating Is So Easy

24:58 Bonuses

25:35 Other Women Want To Be Around You

27:04 You're An Amazing Man

What are the secret methods and behaviors that make certain men naturally attractive to women?

Discover the IDF framework and understand why neediness, over-investing in communication, and insecurity can drive women away.

Learn how to build genuine confidence, create more dates, and improve your personal and professional life through actionable tips and real-life experiences.

Whether you're seeking success in dating, sales, or business, this episode provides the insights you need to elevate your game.

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Sections:

00:00 Noticed That Swagger?

00:33 Main Problem

00:52 Intro

01:05 IDF Lead In

01:43 Already Always...

02:28 Broad Impact

02:47 The Natural 8 Brother

03:17 Elevator Sigh

05:04 Non-Neediness Be-Cool Atmosphere

05:29 Five Points

05:32 Point One

06:00 Over Investing in Text Messages

07:27 The Emotional Flavor

07:52 What Good Looks Like

08:54 Point Two

09:04 A Date Gone Terribly Wrong

09:51 You're Projecting Insecurity and Self Doubt

10:56 She's Already Showing Interest

11:29 Allow For Quiet

12:15 Find Your Center

13:12 Your Job Is To Polarize

13:30 None Of Your Business

13:48 Point Three

14:52 Neediness Repels Her

15:57 It Doesn't Help Her To Be Straight Forward

16:34 How Most Men React to Rejection

17:33 Point Four - IDF Method

18:43 What Does Rejection Mean?

19:29 Point Five

Learn the common pitfalls men stumble into in dating and communication.

In this episode, we emphasize the importance of maintaining mystery, avoiding neediness, and over-communicating in romantic pursuits.

By sharing insights on women's slower pace of developing attraction compared to men, strategies to communicate without expectations, and the significance of creating space, Chad provides practical advice to help men cultivate more meaningful relationships.

He also highlights the detrimental effects of chasing and over-engagement on social media. Tune in for tactical tips and profound insights to navigate modern dating dynamics.

00:00 Keep-Them-Attracted-To-You

00:56 Intro

01:25 Point One

02:04 Women Want To Feel Secure

03:19 Point Two

03:58 Authenticity vs. Pleasing

04:55 The Creepiness Detector

06:37 The Bar Is Low

07:39 The Work Is In Showing Up Consistently Non-Needy

09:02 Point Three

09:36 You Own Your Personal Image

10:28 Do This If You Want To LOSE Your Woman

11:19 Set The Next Date On The Spot?

12:09 Find The Appropriate Energy

13:00 Emotional Intelligence and Situational Awareness

14:40 Don't Be The Weak Floppy Man

16:57 Tactics

17:26 No Amount of Over Talking Creates Mystery

19:15 The Odds In Your Favor

20:44 What Would Your Busy Self Do?

What's the importance of married men consuming dating content? This episode highlights how it can benefit various aspects of life, from improving charisma and confidence to enhancing leadership skills and frame control. Chad shares personal anecdotes and key insights on maintaining mystery and charm in marriage, the significance of continual self-improvement, and the impact of a confident demeanor on personal and professional relationships. Tune in for practical advice, thought-provoking perspectives, and actionable takeaways designed to help you become a better, more confident version of yourself. 00:00 Why-Shouldn't-Married-Men-Listen-To-Dating-Advice 00:30 Intro 00:42 Premise 01:14 Background 02:23 Is It Cheating? 02:50 Point One 03:32 You're Never Finished 04:34 Leadership Never Stops 05:06 Leading From The Front 05:49 Humor And Challenge 07:10 You Own The Mystery 07:44 Choose To Lead 09:22 Point Two 10:15 Pouring Yourself Into The World 10:51 How This Affects Your Whole Life 11:53 Who Deserves This Best Version Of You? 12:38 Point Three 14:22 Leadership And Frame Control 15:41 Gambits That Work 16:30 Point Four 18:10 About Not Having To Oversell Yourself 18:52 Bonuses Books Mentioned: David Deida's The Way Of The Superior Man Other Podcasts Mentioned: Mark Sing's The Unapologetic Man

The Ultimate 9-Point Framework for Mastering Dating and Success in Life In this episode of 4x4 Recall, we delve into a transformative 9-point framework designed to help you master not only your dating life but also your professional world. Through personal anecdotes, including transitioning from military to corporate life, Chad talks about how principles of authenticity, non-neediness, and frame control facilitate success in various aspects of life. Learn why 'No' is not bad, the importance of standing for something, and how to communicate like a high-value individual. This episode provides actionable insights into navigating relationships, understanding social dynamics, and maintaining intrigue to keep the spark alive. Don't miss out on these essential tips to elevate your dating game and overall life strategy. 00:00 7-Point-Dating-Framework-Nov-2024 01:25 Point One 03:20 Point Two 04:25 Frame Control 06:38 Uncertainty 07:18 Point Three 08:01 Asking A Girl Out 08:34 Understanding Social Dynamics 09:11 Dating Games vs. Business Games 09:51 Point Four 11:12 How Would You Behave With A Full Schedule? 13:25 Set Definite Times and Places 15:12 The Phone Is For Logistics Only 16:06 Point Five 16:36 Don't Rush 17:26 Let Her Chase You 18:41 Point Six 21:12 Point Seven 21:30 Dating Is Fun 22:26 Point Eight