This book is about why the words in the title are true for every person and are a fundamental principle and law of nature, as precise as gravity or the turning of the tides. They are words we easily invoke when describing some other person’s predicament, but rare is the person who paints themselves with that same brush.

What is so easy to see in others is so hard to see in ourselves, a primary reason why people make such mistakes large and small that can cost them so dearly. This effort seeks to correct that gap and is truly, as the subtitle suggests, “a guide to how life really works!”

This is what Kirkus Reviews, the gold standard for independent, professional reviews has to say: "A successful guide that uses anecdotes to reveal powerful truths about life. The author gives readers not just points or principles to ponder, but real human experiences that demonstrate them. A stable, positive, non-preachy, objective voice makes the manual stand apart from others in the genre."

Sheryl Woodhouse, founder of Livelihood Matters, says: "I’ve read a number of books that focus on a similar message, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, and I find Rob’s to be my favorite."

From Christine Crowther - executive director of the New York Center for Children & Families: "Inspiring life lessons that shine a light on the importance of being aware and mindful of the consequences of your thoughts and actions. The book is full of great stories and personal anecdotes which make it very enjoyable and illuminating reading."