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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
- Gesprochen von: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Spieldauer: 10 Std. und 46 Min.
- Kategorien: Beziehungen, Elternschaft & persönliche Entwicklung, Persönliche Entwicklung

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Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?
Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?
Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?
Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?
Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?
Are you done with second chances?
Should you stay or should you go?
We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.
Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.
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- swee
- 29.06.2020
Very good book indeed
I didn’t expect a lot of this book, since I read almost all books about narcissism. But ...This ranks up there with the book psychopath free by jackson mackenzie. Those two book are most definitely the best books written on this topic. Amazingly detailed and solution oriented. Someone who can identify will get a lot of understand and maybe even healing out of this.
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- Angela
- 10.03.2020
An eye opener on narcissists!
This is an in depth view and insight on narcissists. Everyone should learn more on the topic. Even if one thinks this doesn't affect them, it always does, in one way or another.
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- Amazon Kunde
- 10.12.2019
Take some tips with a grain of salt
This is a good book on relationships with narcissists.
However, some descriptions of supposedly narcissistic behavior could also apply to someone who suffers from depression or is simply overworked or otherwise stressed. Not everyone who behaves in the described manner is evil and out to get you. Furthermore, the author seems to assume that the listeners of the audiobook are all good, while their 'difficult' partners bring all the problems into the relationship. That's not the most mature look at relationships…
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- Sheila
- 28.10.2019
Very insightful without judgement
It feels very personal with all the stories about people who went through this experience. It contains helpful advice to complex situations without shaming anyone and a picture about what a narcessist is.
It also gives perspective to the victims to why they stayed and how to get to a stronger place to make healthy decisions.
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- FlyAway
- 13.12.2018
THE survival manual
This book is not just a guide for surviving a relationship with a narcissist, it can be used as a manual for all the encounters with narcissists in life (job, family, ...). Written in common language, it still holds all the details one needs to know. The author narrates the book herself and did a great job. Good pace, spoken clearly and with a pleasant voice.
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